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Date: October 22, 2022
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It almost seems like he gave you the gift of giving to him by presenting you with things to make for him with the thing he supposedly bought for you.
No different really to gifting you a new iron so you can do his ironing? I don't know, maybe I'm seeing it wrong.
How can I get her to see that I'm deadass serious about these boundaries?
You've already had more than one serious conversation with her about it and she hasn't changed. The only way to get her to understand is to break up with her. She had her chance to respect your boundaries and has repeatedly chosen not to do that. Your needs and boundaries are valid and you have the right to fight for them. She made her choice, and this is a hill you should die on. You deserve a partner who loves and respects you— this isn't it.
I had a somewhat similar issue with my husband. He used to threaten to leave when we had a fight, even over silly things. After the first few times, I finally told him that if he ever threatened to leave me again, then I'd be the one leaving and I wouldn't be coming back. I told him I'm not going to live my life afraid that he'll leave me at any moment and if he can't respect that then we're done. He has not threatened it since, and that was over 4 years ago.
Likewise, my family is verbally abusive and aggressive in how we talk to each other (lots of teasing and shit talking, very negative). I grew up with it so I'm used to it and have always been like that. My husband did not grow up like that and is very sensitive, and was finally fed up with how I talked to him. He said he wouldn't put up with that either. His comments made me realize how not nice I can sound. So I've done the work to change how I speak not only to him, but to people in general, because I love and respect him.
Neither of us are perfect but we're both committed and have mutual love and respect for each other. When we say “hey, this thing bothers me” we work on correcting that and figuring out how to prevent it in the future. Your girlfriend does no such thing, nor does she care to. Have some self respect and learn when it's time to move on.
Your boyfriend needs to get over it and tell them to show you some respect (and show some himself). At the very least, he needs to set a boundary to move forward with, even if he doesn’t admonish them for past (poor) behaviour. By this I mean, he could simply take advantage of the 2023 thing and say ‘OP would like people to start using their birth name this year, I support this, and think it would be respectful if everyone else is, too. It’s xyz, pronounced xyz. Try it with me now’ and then make sure they get it. I married into stiff upper lip Brits and know how powerful the awkward can be, but feel that setting a ‘from now on’ boundary without admonishing them for past rudeness is a good compromise between his comfort and yours.
You are being responsible and accountable and making the best of a bad situation. I can't imagine a parent could ask for more from their kid and I'm sorry this is the reaction you're getting at home.
This guy sucks. How do you not notice your partner CRYING during sex? WTF? Even if it's just a “little” or even if not crying, but just close to upset enough to cry. He's selfish, and also seeking revenge.
And his “revenge” was for something that was HIS fault!
You engaged in what is today a completely normal activity for most people. He's fine to have his preference about it, sure, but if he never told you ahead of time, how would you know? This would be no different than someone frowning on drinking, or porn, or any number of things that are generally enjoyed by people unless discussed BEFORE.
He wanted you to read his mind, got pissed, and violent when you didn't.
I can't imagine being in a relationship where I now had to question things I did, wondering if I had approval for it or not, and worrying that my partner would get angry and sexually assault me if they didn't like what I did.
Drop him right away.
Oh FFS stop
Let’s remove personal opinions about drug usage for a second. Seems like it is a very important thing for your boyfriend and you and both of you will inevitably remain on two other sides of the fence. As a thought experiment, replace the word drugs with kids. (Weird I know but hear me out) if your SO really wanted children and you did not, what would you do? Either one party compromises and makes peace with it, you live happily ever after or the compromising party grows resentful at some point or you go your separate way because of conflicting relationship/life goals.
Now in case of drugs, when it comes to one of you compromising does your bf imagine the same kind of life at 45? Chem sex with his wife/partner? If not, is it still that important to for him to experience it before then?
No one should be pressured into doing drugs for anything other than an important medical reason. Just like no one should be forced to have children.
Well I don’t think she is one yet
Tell him to lick the back of his hand and let it dry. Then have him smell it. That will prove that it’s the stench of his mouth and not your vagina.
This is the way.
By wanting to “prove” to her dad that you're worthy of marrying your girlfriend means you aren't even thinking like an adult.
It’s better than admitting he’s thinking about other women or porn right? I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what he’s doing. Sometimes my mind will stray to things my husband and I have done in the past, but it’s still him I’m thinking about.
What law would that break?
Update us telling us you left him