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I mean the first time she accused me of incest I would have been gone. Long gone. If she can accuse you of that then what’s next? Certainly don’t have children with her or she’ll accuse you of worse
Your boyfriend is unhinged.
Isn't it easy to check if you've sent him pictures before? Do you have any racy pictures on your phone? Are they in a text chain with your boyfriend? Do you think he stole pictures from your phone?
I'm not sure why he flipped (is he confusing you with someone else?) but this is absolutely red flag behavior.
It also doesn't matter if you sent out hundreds of boudoir photos in the past, you have body autonomy and if you don't want to perform on camera, he should respect that and not harass you about it like he's doing.
I’m still attracted to her. Just physically it’s getting weird because she’s starting to look like a little boy. And how can I bring up my girlfriend looking like a little boy without addressing the obvious pedophile factor?
Lmao.
Imagine 100% ensuring a breakup based on not wanting to take the assumed 50% risk of divorce.
You realize this, no? You're quite literally guaranteeing a breakup because you don't want to risk having a divorce in the far future.
I am so sorry this happened to you too.
My goodness. How insecure do you want to be?
Update, she said that she’s afraid she’ll miss her alarm if she wears earplugs.
Yoo ??? to each their own in that case
Thank god you guys dont plan on having children. Make sure any opportunity to get pregnant is closed if you want to be with him.
But its good that he has proven that you are important to him since he took care of you really well when you were sick, not like his children.
Its really too bad about his children perhaps its best to maintain with the current relationship. You didnt even bother to make sure to get to know them more before marrying your husband, what is the point to start now. You have experience it yourself during your childhood how akward it gets.
Boyfriend is a douche, best to move along before you’re permanently stuck with this kinda mentality
Ditch her ass and find someone respectful. Kudos for admitting it to you I guess but I mean….that's only worth so much in the grand scheme of things. Even before the cheating occurred I'd have probably broken up with her just for being 27 years old and still going out to parties. Work colleagues or not….she's too old to be doing shit like that….tell her to grow the fuck up and take responsibility for her actions – starting with the one she just made effectively ending the relationship.
Yes now that I am clear how she feels I am putting myself out there but at the end of the day my mind goes back to thinking about her and it sucks. Although I am trying to keep myself busy and my mind off her.
Uh, no, women do not go into the bedroom of the guy asking to sleep with them in order to “prevent themselves from getting raped”.
Staying with everyone else at the party seems like a way better strategy, wouldn't you say?
I don't see a lot advocating for the relationship, so here I will.
Do it. Start losing weight. You'll be better for it. But do so under the condition he goes with you that way you both better yourselves for each other. I always try to get my partner into fitness because it's mutually beneficial. It's another thing to have in common.
Fitness is an important part of life, whether it be jogging for 10 minutes every morning or heavy lifting. You're already unhappy with your weight so why not use this as extra motivation?
NO NO NO NO NO. Do not trust this man with condoms as your only form of birth control. No fucking way. That man will baby trap you in an instant. Don’t get another IUD if you don’t want it, but also don’t trust this guy.
I’m childfree too (I literally thought I wrote your first bullet because I have said those exact words). Get sterilized yourself. You are most definitely old enough to not get much, if any, push back. I’m 25 and got my tubes removed last year with no more than a signature saying I was sure. Take matters into your own hands. Ensure that no matter who you are with, this guy or the next, that you will be protected.
I had a bilateral salpingectomy and was 100% fine 24 hours after surgery. I took 4 days off work and most definitely could have taken less. Take a look back on my profile for a full write up of my experience back in September.
I seriously think he needs to freeze sperm and get the procedure done to restore any kind of trust. If he isn’t willing to do that, I would leave him. Not to be harsh, but if he refuses a vasectomy he will inevitably leave you when he’s ready to have kids so you need to get ahead of it.
34M here. After finishing med school and residency, my income jumped from “cost of living” to a number much higher than yours.
I'm saying that to let you know that I've been in your position, and while making $200,000 is certainly a lot more than many people make, on the 2020s you two are very, very far from rich. That's not anywhere near enough to be buying $25,000+ rings and $100,000+ weddings. Not by a long shot.
I don't blame you and your fiancée. When you're 23 and fresh out of grad school, it's hard to understand how far your new income will take you. It can feel like you've got so much more money than you've ever had before, of course you can afford whatever you want. But you can't, and you should never be borrowing money for a wedding or honeymoon. Ever.
My income jumped much higher than yours did, and I too just got married this past July. The ring was just under $30,000 and I haven't told my wife because she thinks it was $20,000 and was uncomfortable with even that. The wedding was $70,000 and we were both nauseated by that number. Several of my friends (also physicians) have gotten married and none approached six figures. My one friend actually is going to bump just over $100,000… for a Sikh wedding that lasts for four straight days.
I'm not saying anything bad about your fiancée, but unless she's comes from money and her family is going to pay, it sounds like she would benefit from learning more about the facts that (1) $200,000 is not nearly as much as it used to be, and (2) weddings are not acceptable things to borrow money for because they're a luxury item that doesn't generate any income to pay it back. If you two can't afford what she wants (yet), then the answer is to save up for longer — not go into debt by tens of thousands of dollars.
Um.. you want affection, and he is not delivering it.
I mean it sounds like OP is being supportive. You are comparing your partners actions with OPs inner thoughts and feelings. If you could read your partners mind you might not like what you find so much.
?♂️ who knows. People make shit up here all the time. Still, you going to leave him now? Since everyone has the same “vibe”.
Honestly, your throat seizing up when he mentions marriage is all the information you need.
Have you met his friends?
Some people just like to keep that boundary. It's not about being comfortable, for me. I can be completely comfortable with a partner or friend or family or whatever, but i'm never gonna just fart relentlessly in front of people. To me, farts are like poop. I don't want to do that in front of people, i don't want people party to that event. I don't want other people to deliberately fart around me. It's gross.
does it happen? Of course. Is it normal? of course. Just like other bathroom activities. I don't like watching my partner poop, and I would prefer if they don't fart around me if possible.
That said. Don't tell your partner anything in a “round about way”. Like just fucking tell him? Do not be that person. He's not a mind reader. If you want to smell his nasty farts just fucking tell him. You're an adult, time to start having adult conversations.
It's not that weird. This is like a whole plotline in '16 Candles' and I'm sure other teen movies The fact that he told you and said he knew it was wrong and wouldn't do it again tells me he is likely not a creep. A creepy dude would not tell you the creepy stuff he does/did. But judging from your post/comment history– you seem to really want someone to confirm your feelings that he is a pervert. Just break up with him if you're so unsure that you have to make posts about every action he takes. You seem exhausting.
Move back home. Leave him where he is. Live your best life, without him.
She is the one who enchoged him to confess to me. Sorry I forgot that bit. I might delete this and rewire it
I buy the whole fuckin hoose muself ahhaa
Do what the people should of done in the movie poltergeist…
GET OUT (of the relationship)
What i can really tell you is for you to take this time to think, however, to also be smart about this, do not try making changes that would make you not feel good, there are people that naturally like to plan ahead, and you might just be one of those instead of being someone with simple anxiety.
Although i do hate to say it, but as someone has already commented, these relationship breaks tend to be the end of it, it wont be the same if you possibly get back together, and its very unlikely you will do so
It literally hasn’t even been a week. No.
I hope you cant relate personally, but it is somewhat similare to how quite a few women have experienced horrible things at the hand of men, and as a result have developed a fear for the threat men can represent. I dont fear every man, I have male friends, I date men and my partner is a man. Still, if I'm the only woman in a group of men I still can easily feel unsafe. Not because they will harm me, but they have the potential, and you cant tell who will untill they do.
As soon as we are talking about systemic problems like racism and sexism, the group with more power often arent aware of the ways in which they cause harm. Its not intended to, but it does, and exposing yourself to that and how to navigate it after can be scary and daunting.
You can break of the relationship for what ever reason you want but talk to her. Tell her why. Ghosting her is just mean when she didn't do anything to deserve it
Is she attractive?
This sub has that reputation because people in healthy, well-adjusted relationships do not (need to) ask internet strangers for help and advice.
I don’t like my best friend’s bf because he cheated on her while she thought they were exclusive. A month later they made up and now they’re together. I was out of the country when all these things happened so I’ve never met him and I have no intention to meet him yet. When my friend told me that they got back together I just said okay and then she asked if I had anything else to say, I just said I’m not going to congratulate you but I’m always here for you as your friend; she accepted this. Now I’m back to the country and she wants me to meet with him but I don’t want to waste my time with a cheater. I know I’ll just sit there and won’t ask anything because I don’t want to know him. I already know what I need to know. He is a liar. Why would I wanna hear any of his lies?
So maybe your friend thinks your bf is going against one of her values and doesn’t want to know him for that? It’s actually pretty interesting that she questioned exclusivity in your relationship to me. Maybe she found him untrustworthy?
Yeah I understand that it’s difficult for people to change and I believed that the reasons were strong and that she did change at the time but I have since laid of all contact and just hoping nothing more comes from her now because I realize truly that the feelings I have/had for her are non-existent/hollow to her and that she truly doesn’t care about me.
As for her changing because of friends I’m sure thats a thing for young women but I don’t believe most women would’ve acted as shitty and selfishly as she did in this scenario no matter who is around them
Nevertheless I thank you for your words of advice and your time and thought, it has truly helped.
And they are no guns in the house. None that I am aware of at least…
Oh, ok, got it!
A lot of guys don’t really want “stuff”, so in that way consumable goods like food or drink (does he have a favorite beer?) are good.
Other ideas would be favors. Like say a “gift card” for a back rub, or night off doing dishes or what ever his share of the chores might be, of course sexual ones can work too, but that isn’t a must.
Listen, it’s your job to entertain company when you get off work. Next time, take a Tylenol and tap dance.
No it’s been a few months now like 6
That’s absolutely valid. For me I feel it’s more of a courtesy than anything if we’re in the middle of chatting and he’s going to be busy for a few hours to just let me know as we only really get a couple hours to chat in the evening, but everybody’s different!
Wildly disrespectful of her, you're 100% in the right.
I’m going to say something that is 100% true and people hate hearing it- sex is boring with the same partner after time. You need something spice it up and keep it going. That “something” is different for each relay
Do tell your boss. But if your ex turns up at your workplace, call police instead of having your boss show him out. If your workplace has security, let them know now too, and show them your ex’s photo so they’ll be aware if he shows up.
What do you consider to be a decent amount? That's the real question to know if you have unrealistic expectations. A guy making 50k can be financially stable. He probably won't be able to 'spoil' (Jesus Christ) you, but he's doing ok.
Loved and beyond adored, what does that mean exactly? I think you might have some fairytale romance expectations, which is surprising for someone at your age.
If sex is painful, change how you have sex. She may be more inclined to have sex, if it's not going to hurt.
Use your fingers, use your mouth, leave her sore parts alone.
Why did you marry this guy?