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you should probably distance yourself from her. she is married.
Are you sure it's yours
She could have gotten pregnant before July – assuming you have been with her in the spring/summer
Thanks, this seems like a good track to go down. Unfortunately her dad is pretty much out of the picture and her mum is full time work and I barely see her and probably wouldn't be able to say this to her is there anything else along this sort of direction that may work?
Yea but no. Mom got all the money I do pay from my bank account but mom is having the entire money in her purse so basically I don't have money on me.
grow the fuck up and stop destroying a good man heart by acting like an inmature littlel kid
heal your traumas by yourself and without hurting other people and let him free of your childish actitud
creating fight with who loves you, making him ruin his years long love lenguage surprise….yep, grow up
That's my first impression as well
Finding a lesson in everything, regardless if you’re wrong or right about it, is how you progress as a growth minded person, instead of an egotistical, self-centered one.
With a growth mindset, you don’t rely on what you already know, you rely on what you can learn. Your knowledge and skills aren’t set in stone. They’re flexible, customizable and upgradeable. Your power is your ability to change, not your ability to change others. Changing your own mind is intrinsically more empowering than changing other people’s minds – which by the way, is impossible. You can only change your own mind, you have no control over others. At all.
With learning as your ultimate goal and compass, you can change your default thinking from YOU as the center of your universe, to thinking on a much larger scale where your perspective is one of many.
What this all really comes down to is; “What do you worship?”
I’ll leave you with some words from David Foster Wallace:
“…pretty much anything you worship will eat you alive. If you worship money and things, if they are where you tap real meaning in life, then you will never have enough, never feel you have enough. It’s the truth. Worship your body and beauty and sexual allure and you will always feel ugly. And when time and age start showing, you will die a million deaths before they finally grieve you.
Worship power, you will end up feeling weak and afraid, and you will need ever more power over others to numb you to your own fear. Worship your intellect, being seen as smart, you will end up feeling stupid, a fraud, always on the verge of being found out. But the insidious thing about these forms of worship is not that they’re evil or sinful, it’s that they’re unconscious. They are default settings.
They’re the kind of worship you just gradually slip into, day after day, getting more and more selective about what you see and how you measure value without ever being fully aware that that’s what you’re doing.
And the so-called real world will not discourage you from operating on your default settings, because the so-called real world of men and money and power hums merrily along in a pool of fear and anger and frustration and craving and worship of self.”
from “This is Water”
Please break up with her. I don't usually say this either. But if you aren't sexually attracted to her now, you most likely won't ever be. That is not ok to do that to someone. Everyone wants to be sexually desired by their partner. EVERYONE.
Frankly, it's been a while too. This has been a chronic issue for over a year. We go through rough patches and things get better for a while, then right back to this. Sexless, passionless relationship. I feel worlds better when we're intimate but she seemingly doesn't want to be intimate with me.
That's kind of a ridiculous, and frankly uncharitable, interpretation of someone's objection to nonmonogamy.
No it's the BD who would be helping with all of that. Him and more than likely my mother. The baby would not see him as a father figure as I did say that he didn't have to have contact with the baby. I have made as much sense that I can from this bit but will explain insurance now. I have it now that's dedicated to pregnant women and their unborn children and it covers everything, including the birth and all check ups.
Yikes, it’s not his depression that’s the issue, it’s his shit coping mechanisms, he acts out and treats you poorly when what he should do is ask for support and comfort in a vulnerable way. And rather than ask and negotiate for the support he craves, he guilt trips and punishes you when you don’t do what he wants.
When he’s grumpy or lashing out at you, just tell him “hey, if you’re depressed or frustrated tell me you need to vent and I’m happy to listen. But you acting out (sighing, huffing puffing, swearing, being negative about everything) instead of talking productively about feeling depressed, isnt ok. Im going to need you to either tell me you need to vent and then talk to me about it or I’m withdrawing for the rest of the day, and we can talk tomorrow. Which do you prefer?” Regardless of what he says, if he keeps being shitty, just tell him, you that since he’s not venting to you in a productive way, you’ll talk to him tomorrow and then take the space you need. Next day, reach out, if he’s shitty again, repeat. Hold firm. Don’t let him guilt you. Depression isn’t an excuse to vomit his bad mood on you like a two year old. If he wants access to your support he has to treat you better, period. If your support means enough to him, he’ll stop being a shit. The only reason he keeps doing it, is because there are no consequences for him when he does it because he guilts you and you cave.
She is a child and you're a parental figure, you're not on an equal level. So no she probably wouldn't. She just moved into your home, this is weird for her too.
Just to add: when you move in together you have to adjust and adapt to that and make some changes. Are you prepared to do that? Your girlfriend feels uncomfortable and asked you to make a fairly reasonable change to make her comfortable living in your home, and you call it 'nagging' and went over her head to disprove her discomfort.
It doesn't matter what answer the daughter did or didn't say, your girlfriend will still feel ill at ease and you don't seem to respect her feelings. I get that it sucks you can't keep the same habit but that can just happen when you move in with a partner.
that’s ok, i hope he finds better
I’m so sorry you are in this situation. Don’t give her any more money, this is ridiculous. You sound like a lovely man- look for a woman who will be there when times are hard, she isn’t it. I’m so sorry.
It’s technically her membership, she signed the contract. It’s just my card on file.
This right here, OP.
I also seen similar behavior to a friend of mine. His gf would get blacked out drunk, falling on the floor in the club and calling him a loser. The worst part is that she did that in front of us, his friends.
I told him I would have broken up with her on the spot, but he didn't, and now, 5 years later, they are still together and with similar problems.
My man is too afraid of being alone and talking to other girls, too bad for him since he is quite an OK guy apart from his choice in women.
I would say this is a good answer in general, but I think people are brushing his feelings off a bit too easily.
I agree it is a stupid conversation to have, nothing good can come out of it. I would wait and try to relax and see how things go. If she really had that excited look and behaviour while talking about it, it is kind of messed up. You don't do that to your partner.
Imagine if we reversed the roles and the man was talking about exes in that fashion. We would be all screaming RED FLAG RED FLAG!
Penis size is a big (pun unintended) insecurity in men and a hard one (again unintended…maybe) to demolish. Problem is men feel like they are not allowed to be insecure or they think they are not allowed because…they have to be strong and manly right?
He is absolutely getting in his head, but at the same time she doesn't seem to really understand whats going on?
I would like an update on this.
She didn’t mention her hanging with him until after. She says she mentioned him. She didn’t mention he was coming over until after. She assumed I was ok with it, and says I undermine her emotions when I get angry at her. I said I don’t know him or what he looks like? I have very good memory n don’t remember any of it on him.
Would she behave in a calmly manner if she also had to deal with you meeting up with Ex's?. You're young, lots of single women out there with no Ex baggage. Do yourself a favour and leave. You can do better than this.
Now that I think about it, it doesn't really make sense. Thanks!
Miss ma’am you need to leave this BUM asap.
why can't you invite him to come along sometimes? he can go on his phone too.
sometimes it's good to have support from the ones you love instead of doing it yourself
Move on; you are not compatible. It's only been 3 months.
You agreed with her double standard Lmfao? It’s not different it’s the same..
I too have Misophonia since birth. I don’t have autism d so o it doesn’t necessarily have to be that. But that aside, I don’t let it ruin my fun and relationships! He needs to learn how to properly deal with triggers!
i didnt comfort her when i was suppose to n didnt give solutions to some of her rant when she needed it
Can you explain this?
i still let her sleep while she was annoyed or pissed at smtg
Can you explain this too? Like you didn't wake her up?