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Date: October 12, 2022
If you know your therapist will tell you that he's abusing you then I think you already know you're in an abusive relationship. So if that's the case why are you posting here? You're going to get the same answer whoever you ask.
This isn't a normal relationship and everyone else posting here is quite shocked at how much its not sinking in for you. What are you waiting around for to change exactly?
Well… I am a huge advocate of respecting people while they're in a reletionship. The heathiest solution would be to wait until their reletionship ends on their own accord (no 3rd party influence). And then try to spark something afterwards.
However… people cope with break-ups differently. For him to get things going with a 19 year old while he is 28… is strange IMO. If this is something he is using as a rebound, someone far less mature than he would be… that is to be taken into consideration.
This too:
he sent a message asking if his girlfriend could join in on our shared hobby
Is a wrong move on his behalf. It's kind of a slap in the face.
I don't know… this seems messy. It's as if he is going through some things of his own and he is lost himself.
Before you make any decision, what do you want out of the conversation? I don't think you should approach it unguarded and on a whim. You need an objective for sure.
Strange spot this is indeed.
If you both feel mutually lost, like your split turned your worlds upside down. Both trying to function and failing. I would be rooting for a conversation that turns positive (from a 3rd person perspective).
A 10 is quite far away from a 15 on the keyboard or keypad. But sure.
Thank you! I feel like all the gaslighting of MJ was trickling down to me to, and I was just being a bad friend. But I couldn’t shake the feeling that she was just toxic.
Just because he did all of that doesn't mean the expectation is reasonable. People have a life, they can be busy, especially when with friends.
Did you also match his energy ? Calling him frequently ? Otherwise safe to assume one might lose interest regarding a lack of reciprocation.
HIIT can be insane. 180 bpm heart rate ideally, sometimes 210 but that's overdoing it. Maybe she used the bathroom in the master bedroom to freshen up?
Activities are fun together, especially if it's a hell workout. Doesn't matter who you do it with.
ow do I fix this? Can I fix this?
Well…you should have never rushed into marriage at your ages….neither of you has an actual education/career to fall back on, neither of you has ever lived independently….and now you already have two kids to look after (three if you count your husband).
Get that divorce, meet a career counselor, and with your parents, figure out how you can work on your career to become more independent, and save up. Lawyer up to get a child custody and child support agreement.
I mean, this is now your 4th time posting about him. All of them have revolved around him reacting erratically, accusing you of cheating, setting unreasonable boundaries or just outright attempting to control you.
So I suppose the question needs to change to what line you are waiting for him to cross before you leave. Like how badly does he have to treat you before you step back and say 'no, this isn't what I want' and leave.
Because he seems to be proving quite rapidly he can be as controll, accusatory, and toxic as wants and you will still stay with him. Even more you try and rationalise your position, as if you ever needed to make the argument as to why you can make adult choices. Instead you should be acknowledging how far gone he is that he is comfortable saying you just can't be around men outright.
So when does this stop? I mean that rhetorically, because it stops the second you make it stop by leaving, so when are you doing that?
As the person who has been in your wife's role in previous relationships – waiting to do anything until things have progressed to the point of being an issue is an issue in itself. A big factor in my leaving that relationship was that they were perfectly willing to let everything go until it became an issue and I wanted to nip it while it was still easy and not yet problematic