your wife sounds like a real bitch…. dont feel bad, cancel the flight. tell the mom her low class daughter can pay for her trips that youre done being abused and will no longer stand for them abusing your mother. send them BOTH on their way and get divorce papers started… you deserve better.
If you wanna be the doormat in the relationship by all means accept it. But know you will be hurt the entire time and by no means does this guarantee she stays with you. In fact she sounds like she has already been cheating. You will be miserable, just letting you know now. Find your self a lawyer and leave with you mental health at the very least.
In our interactions with other people, we essentially teach them what to expect and what to do. You have this five year long pattern of satisfying her wants, so naturally she continues to expect it.
You should never get in a pattern of providing everything a woman wants, no questions asked, no strings attached. Among other problems, this prevents her from learning to get things for herself.
Now, you complain she doesn't appreciate the things you have done for her. Tell me, what would you like to see from her, that would demonstrate appreciation?
If he has commitment issues then yeah he may just dip out of being a parent later on. Maybe try couples counselling?
She gonna cheat if you agree 100%
No, she hasn't moved on.
No, you shouldn't play second fiddle to an historical figure.
Hmm just let her know you got her something similar for her bday. Don’t get her the exact same thing maybe something nicer with a little charm.
your wife sounds like a real bitch…. dont feel bad, cancel the flight. tell the mom her low class daughter can pay for her trips that youre done being abused and will no longer stand for them abusing your mother. send them BOTH on their way and get divorce papers started… you deserve better.
This is not a sustainable relationship. You are not going to change her. Time to cut your losses and move on.
Are you 15 or 29? Come on dude! Wtf?
If you wanna be the doormat in the relationship by all means accept it. But know you will be hurt the entire time and by no means does this guarantee she stays with you. In fact she sounds like she has already been cheating. You will be miserable, just letting you know now. Find your self a lawyer and leave with you mental health at the very least.
Tell her and ghost him.
If she doesnt ill leave my wife and marry this man
If you're ready to lose her over this, move in. Because you will give in to temptation and you will lose your gf.
Can't discuss with oracle not answering the question asked.
Do you have anything useful to add?
Nobody is forcing her to be in an open marriage. Nobody is making her go out and date other men whilst married to her current husband.
If you guys didn't end on bad terms, why not? Wouldn't hurt? If it's a no, move on
There’re a few problems here. But if he’s not even willing to sit down and talk about this then he is a lost cause and you need to cut your losses.
In our interactions with other people, we essentially teach them what to expect and what to do. You have this five year long pattern of satisfying her wants, so naturally she continues to expect it.
You should never get in a pattern of providing everything a woman wants, no questions asked, no strings attached. Among other problems, this prevents her from learning to get things for herself.
Now, you complain she doesn't appreciate the things you have done for her. Tell me, what would you like to see from her, that would demonstrate appreciation?