Your noble intentions are just so overwhelming. Confess to your BF so you can do anything you want with your manager. Then resign your position because you are most likely breaking company policy. Everyone on your team knows about your affair and already assumes you’ve had sex. And that your promotion is linked to something. The longer you stay there the more legendary you become.
So you have sat there and sucked it up just cause it was easier to keep her? Why would you want to break up ? Maybe it's a rough patch. Why would parents be on her side?
Wow. I have to say, just from this post, I think you are way out of line. Why do you need to know why he was conceived? Tons of us were accidents. Should we be upset about that?
All you are going to do with this mission is bring angst to your family. And, if there is already disfunction you are going to make it worse.
Your brothers and you are alive, sounds like even the one that was sick is healthy, so, STOP LIVING IN THE PAST, and start living in the future.
There is so much to learn, to do, to experience, to love.
I feel like the fact she's omitting the gender of the friend, is kind of indicating it was a male friend
I think people assume its a female friend because the friend also had gotten their nipple pierced. A likely true assumption, but not 100%.
If he's gone so far as to stop talking to her though, I'm guessing there's more to this than 'me and my girl got our nips pierced and showed each other.'
Maybe, maybe he is just very possesive/insecure. Really no way to know without more info.
If I were the ex I wouldn’t touch her with a 10 ft. pole
I think the ex is only staying in touch because he wanted to experience the schadenfreude of watching this blow up in her face. Ok you left me after 4 years for a dusty old man? LOL good luck with that
Now the flakes are coming off this dusty and she’s like Ewwwwwwwew hol up, let me get my fine young man back
She should save herself the embarrassment of getting laughed at in her face. Ex sounds like a good dude, let him enjoy this in peace without hurting your feelings. There are limits to decency you can expect of people, and thinking you can scrounge off ex, thinking you can get ex back after DUSTY is one of them, without him either raging at you or laughing at you, is one of them. She did him so dirty!! And now got the audacity to think she can just pick him up and dust him off like he’s the dirty, dusty one with no options here. Dirty ass broad who TF do you think you are
I got you! Remember, a persons past gives the great clarity on their future decisions. It sounds like you’re looking for a monotonous long-term relationship. You will have to bet a few women to get one that’s a great match. Choose well.
Your wife sounds toxic and controlling. Why tf can't you have time for your hobby and friends once a week if you're taking care of all your responsibilities?
She honestly sounds like my ex, nothing was ever good enough for her.
I'm sorry. He hasn't learned that this is the reddest flag you can possibly fly yet so let him know to get back in touch when it's over. And it will end.
i think you shouldn't do anything like that if you're not 100% comfortable with it, which you've said you're not. especially because you said in the comments that she doesn't seem like she's in her right mind. honestly, it doesn't sound like she needs to be having more kids at all right now if she and her life are as unstable as it sounds like.
Well basically she's present only when she wants something out of you, the rest of the times she doesn't even care about you, could you even call this person a friend? These aren't the kind of things to be worked on, find a better friend that respects you enough to at least catch up with you
Reassurance and open lines of communication. I'm in a LDR currently due to extenuating military obligations and we have our bumps, including someone actively trying to break us up over the last year. Everytime we need reassurance and just talking. This last time the person trying to break us up (I havent figured out who it is yet), got us into a short argument. Once we both realized what was happening, we realized we both just needed reassurance at the time and to communicate with each other more.
Get therapy for your self esteem. It is not your partner’s job to prop up your ego, especially if it requires lying. You say yourself, you are insecure and Lord, you sound it. Work on that.
Your noble intentions are just so overwhelming. Confess to your BF so you can do anything you want with your manager. Then resign your position because you are most likely breaking company policy. Everyone on your team knows about your affair and already assumes you’ve had sex. And that your promotion is linked to something. The longer you stay there the more legendary you become.
So you have sat there and sucked it up just cause it was easier to keep her? Why would you want to break up ? Maybe it's a rough patch. Why would parents be on her side?
Wow. I have to say, just from this post, I think you are way out of line. Why do you need to know why he was conceived? Tons of us were accidents. Should we be upset about that?
All you are going to do with this mission is bring angst to your family. And, if there is already disfunction you are going to make it worse.
Your brothers and you are alive, sounds like even the one that was sick is healthy, so, STOP LIVING IN THE PAST, and start living in the future.
There is so much to learn, to do, to experience, to love.
I feel like the fact she's omitting the gender of the friend, is kind of indicating it was a male friend
I think people assume its a female friend because the friend also had gotten their nipple pierced. A likely true assumption, but not 100%.
If he's gone so far as to stop talking to her though, I'm guessing there's more to this than 'me and my girl got our nips pierced and showed each other.'
Maybe, maybe he is just very possesive/insecure. Really no way to know without more info.
Based on what we have, the BF looks bad though.
If I were the ex I wouldn’t touch her with a 10 ft. pole
I think the ex is only staying in touch because he wanted to experience the schadenfreude of watching this blow up in her face. Ok you left me after 4 years for a dusty old man? LOL good luck with that
Now the flakes are coming off this dusty and she’s like Ewwwwwwwew hol up, let me get my fine young man back
She should save herself the embarrassment of getting laughed at in her face. Ex sounds like a good dude, let him enjoy this in peace without hurting your feelings. There are limits to decency you can expect of people, and thinking you can scrounge off ex, thinking you can get ex back after DUSTY is one of them, without him either raging at you or laughing at you, is one of them. She did him so dirty!! And now got the audacity to think she can just pick him up and dust him off like he’s the dirty, dusty one with no options here. Dirty ass broad who TF do you think you are
I got you! Remember, a persons past gives the great clarity on their future decisions. It sounds like you’re looking for a monotonous long-term relationship. You will have to bet a few women to get one that’s a great match. Choose well.
Your wife sounds toxic and controlling. Why tf can't you have time for your hobby and friends once a week if you're taking care of all your responsibilities?
She honestly sounds like my ex, nothing was ever good enough for her.
I'm sorry. He hasn't learned that this is the reddest flag you can possibly fly yet so let him know to get back in touch when it's over. And it will end.
i think you shouldn't do anything like that if you're not 100% comfortable with it, which you've said you're not. especially because you said in the comments that she doesn't seem like she's in her right mind. honestly, it doesn't sound like she needs to be having more kids at all right now if she and her life are as unstable as it sounds like.
Well basically she's present only when she wants something out of you, the rest of the times she doesn't even care about you, could you even call this person a friend? These aren't the kind of things to be worked on, find a better friend that respects you enough to at least catch up with you
Reassurance and open lines of communication. I'm in a LDR currently due to extenuating military obligations and we have our bumps, including someone actively trying to break us up over the last year. Everytime we need reassurance and just talking. This last time the person trying to break us up (I havent figured out who it is yet), got us into a short argument. Once we both realized what was happening, we realized we both just needed reassurance at the time and to communicate with each other more.
Get therapy for your self esteem. It is not your partner’s job to prop up your ego, especially if it requires lying. You say yourself, you are insecure and Lord, you sound it. Work on that.
Yes, he says I’m crazy and it’s concerning.