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Birth Date: 1996-08-29
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Date: October 14, 2022
If y'all are truly meant to be one way or another y'all will find your way back to each other. As much as it pains you to not be with him now remember that it is not always the best time. Y'all could be at different life stages, have different wants, needs, goals. Keep in touch but work on yourself. Be the best you that you can be. This will help when you or both of you are ready to be in a relationship again. Best of luck
I don’t think they are(other than the keys). Everything else is maid service. Yuck. I’d dump.
My end goal is for us to work out and communicate and be how we once were
Yea youre maybe right. im her boss
I can see why he’s single ? you seem very sweet OP! you deserve much better than Mr.Winks-A-Lot
I respect that. But given my situation and what I view from my side. It’s not a good look
You got your money back yes? Run away and be thankful. Paying for her boob job is like paying for a meal another guy is going to eat….
I'm so sorry dude, but that would be it for me.
The fact that she didn't say no the first time and didn't tell him she has a boyfriend means she was keeping the door open. They've worked together everyday since he first asked her out, it shouldn't be that much of a secret that she has a boyfriend unless she's withholding that information intentionally at this point.
Even if it just never came up, when he asked her out the first time she CHOSE not to disclose you or her status. Trust me, as an anxious woman who likes to avoid confrontation, pulling the boyfriend card is my FIRST move when asked out, regardless of whether or not I even have a boyfriend at the time. Every chick knows this is her go to move. Most men won't take just a simple no for an answer unless we say we can't because we have a boyfriend, and then they'll leave us alone. It's almost like an instinct at this point to just automatically say you have a boyfriend if you don't want to go out with someone.
The fact she DIDN'T mention her actual, real life boyfriend, but instead said she'd “let him know” has some intent to it. I understand it can be awkward with co-workers, but as I said above, having a boyfriend is literally the best excuse in the world, and she didn't use it.
On her end, it gives her the possibility to keep him around and to him, it looks like she was interested and it was just a manner of scheduling now. So then he asks her again in person and she says yes, still doesn't mention you, and doesn't tell you, but then cancels probably out of guilt while still not telling him she has a boyfriend or telling you until you had to ask about it.
She needs to outright tell him she has a boyfriend and do some serious talking through this with you. If her excuse is that he made her that uncomfortable, why has she never spoken to you about this situation? It's been kept under wraps for a reason. If anyone ever made me uncomfortable, my partner would be the first to know. Like you said, after 2 months after asking her out and her never turning him down, she wasn't “surprised” he followed through.
Your entire life is a train wreck. I’m sorry that there are helpless children involved in this.
Praying you’re a troll and this is fake.
Tell him bachelor/ette parties are a waste of money, as well as groomsmen/bridesmaid's and the gifts for them.
My wife and I had the most budget conscious wedding you could imagine and she still had someone come and do her hair and makeup.
It's clear your fiance doesn't understand that people go to school for this and are genuinely talented at it, deserving respect. He needs to be shown how much time and skill is required to be in the wedding hair/makeup industry and gain some respect.
This doesn’t bode well… you sure you want to marry somebody who becomes passive aggressive, dismissive, takes the wind outta your sails, and tries to control/judge things you value and choose to spend your own money on?
Also thank you for the comment!
Obviously… she reached out to a hookup they aren't close to and haven't communicated in 3 years for the express reason being they were considering cheating. Cheaters trickle truth so if they say they considered cheating they likely have done worse.
That's the best way, I think, remain calm when you talk to her. Don't get upset, just act like you don't understand why she's upset.
The more I think about it she sounds jealous. The comment about thinking you were perfect, the rush to tell her boyfriend. She was trying to find a way to take you down.
Leave now.
If you do it, it will cause problems in your relationship, and will end anyway.
If you don’t want to leave, tell her that you would be willing to tape you both having sex, and then she can watch it back.
Yeah that’s probably fair to say.
It's not unheard of that some men become abusive as soon as their partners are pregnant. Gaslighting is abusive. I recommend you keep an extra observant eye on him and his actions.
HBO Max costs a little less than both Disney+ and Hulu combined. I would leave it alone, Op. If it bothers you that much, offer to get and pay for Disney+ and Hulu.
You’re very welcome. I wish the best for you both, and I hope that things improve so you both can move forward. ?
She is married but separated and has a kid. I wondered where I stand in the future in her life. I stopped asking because she would just tell me to find someone else who is not married.
Quite frankly, she’s shown you that you are not a part of her future. She moved away, and you cheated on her after one month being apart. Leave her alone and work on yourself.
If he wouldn't buy things for himself he wouldn't think to do it for others. Also, you clearly didn't appreciate his other gifts enough so
She asked me once if it bothered me, I told her no because we hadn't reached this level yet. Her response was, verbatim “It wouldn't change anything, but I'd still want to know”
How I treat you?
Girl, get your important documents, and leave while he's at work. Do not go back when he tells you how much he loves and misses you. Go to a DV shelter, family, friends, but go.
Except you have 0 evidence that anyone was underage at any point in this relationship. The sperm that was used to make you had more brains than you do
You are strong and you will get through this no matter how it goes down. Remember that even if you need to keep telling it to yourself.
It can be sad to lose a friend. But it is not this new gf's fault. It is HIS fault. He's the one telling you these things, even if she is behind it. In time, he may become able to stand up for himself, but no need for you to wait on that, considering how badly he is treating you.
It sounds like it's time to make some new friends. It will never be the same, but that's ok, because every friendship is different. You can make great friends at any stage in your life. So while you may be mourning this friendship, there is more to be found just around the corner.
Okay, but that answer doesn't really help for what I was asking about. I was asking about whether I'm misreading the behavior/situation, and if I was, how best to make sure we are on the same page going forward. Not whether it would be a good idea for me to make a move or not (I won't be).
What I think is strange is that she asked if she could go. He said no and she isn't accepting that. Then why ask? Just go ahead and demand to go!
You've actually had a sit-down conversation and told him that this is a dealbreaker for you? Your post makes it seems like you're caring about his feelings too much and bottling this stuff up instead of just letting him have it.
Its unacceptable. Its gross. It makes you lose attraction for him. It makes you assume that he doesn't care about intimacy. Its a dealbreaker. He has this opportunity to make a permanent change, or its over. Dont waste your youth on this crap.
He thinks I'm being dramatic.
Not a really good partner, ain't he.
Geez. OP: NEVER COME BACK to that house.
Flings are overrated and mostly only serve to highlight the value of a committed long term relationship. You didn't miss much.
Not serious but she’s with a male friend at your house while telling you she’s out. Did I get it right?
Sounds like something you said or did triggered her.
But she wasn't mature enough to communicate her triggers or red flags or land mines.
Honestly it sounds like this sort of thing would be the norm for you if you continued to date long distance and she never communicated effectively about this stuff.
Sounds like the trash took itself out.
NTA.
dim lights, quick workout before, a little bit of dehydration to get the veins and muscle popping, and confidence.
Thank you me too
Am I really reading this? You cheated and are in the affair fog. Did you think about his wife dragging you into depositions and divorce court and them being all public record? Probably not. You need to tell your boyfriend and let the chips fall where they may. Grass is not always greener.
You said you've “been talking” for 2 years. In what world was a 20 year old talking to a 16 year old?
I would find the play date group and start taking your son there too. It's so sad the GF is ignoring him.
I don’t think you should be going to frat parties to meet guys who are respectful of boundaries. Lesson learned? -An old man
Can you? Who knows. You broke up. She blocked you. Now she's giving you the time of day. No one knows what she's thinking or what her intentions are. Context dude. How long were you together? Why did you break up? Very important clues as to whether you should even be in contact with her. What did she say when you told her you wanted to get back together?
It's pretty obvious he'll just keep cheating and not care because you obviously don't care about being cheated on.
You always pick the dog. Your soon to be ex is an immature asshole.
Helping takes many forms, including accepting what someone wants and giving them the space that they ask for.
What it shouldn’t be is what suits satisfying your own desire to ‘help’, when it’s the exact opposite of what the person asks for.
That doesn’t mean never speaking to her, it means not focussing upon what’s wrong, not trying to prise information from her and be a source of pleasant distraction instead.
You did not cheat. You were raped.
Yea, It's absolutely snoop time. May even look at phone bill records if she has deleted everything
She takes medication. She saw a therapist for a short time but hasn't in a while.
Does he also treat service staff poorly? (Waiters, customer service agents)? I would be pretty disgusted too, especially if they thought there was nothing to apologize for after they calmed down. If you tell him it’s unattractive, impulsive, angry behavior you don’t like, what does he say?
You deserve better. Your partner should be supportive of you wanting to better yourself. I also once lost a “whole person” but it started off because my wife at the time(ex now but still on good terms) needed it even more and was having bariatric surgery, insurance won’t pay for it unless you do everything under the sun to show you have tried without surgery so I joined her doing the exact same things cause it is really hard to do it alone. After that relationship I got into a more emotionally abusive one(that’s I’m also out of and happily married) with someone who would put me down and make fun of my healthy lifestyle and after a while it broke me down and I started to stop doing those things and put weight back on. There really isn’t a resolve because the things your GF is saying to you aren’t thing someone who truly cares and supports someone says.
He just told you he wants to fuck another woman. It's over.
Put your feelings in an email. Set firm boundaries. (As a dude about the same age as your dad, let me say he sounds plain awful. Sorry you are dealing with all that)
Exactly. Just because he made a mistake for four years, doesn’t mean he needs to keep making that mistake for the rest of his life
You don't do nothing brother! This relationship is O.V.E.R And it's probably a good thing, you two are obviously not made for each other if you broke up and made up several time in such a short time. Forget her and focus on yourself, i think you still have a LOT of growing up to do. Figure out what kind of man you want to be and what kind of boundaries you need to inforce.