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Next time you go out to eat take their menus, give them back to the server and say “they won't be needing these since they can't afford anything on the menu. Just a glass of water for them.” Seriously, your partner isn't their personal ATM. I'd go NC or LC, if they can't be respectful to you and your partner they aren't worth the time in my opinion. Good luck!
I dated a semi-famous musician for 6 years and it was hell. One year he played a show on my birthday and I didn't have any other plans so went to see him play. At the end, 6 women threw their bras up on the stage.
Another time, a girl got so close to him on the stage while he was doing a bass solo and attempted to cup his junk through his pants.
On new years eve, a woman came up to him during a set break while we were talking and she started drunkenly grinding on him right in front of me. She knew I was his girlfriend.
He always got hit on after shows. He told me it was common for women to ask for his number and when he told them he had a girlfriend, they said they didn't care and wanted to hook up with him anyway. Even his band mates were constantly cheating on their wives and encouraging him to do the same to me. Many of his band mates did disgusting stuff like accepting a public blowjob in the middle of the crowd.
That being said, I don't think your boyfriend telling people he has a girlfriend would change much of anything in that environment. Some girls (he got hit on by men too), when they see a guy up there playing music- they will cross MANY lines to get to that guy, including trying to convince him to cheat.
And he told me he couldn't turn them away harshly because it would ruin his image. He told me he had to basically let them flirt with him because it keeps them interested in his band. He got his ass slapped by strangers and had to act like he didn't care.
I don't think he ever actually cheated, but this relationship took a HEAVY mental toll on me and my self esteem. I feel like with these kinds of musicians, you either get used to seeing girls drool over them all the time, or you leave them. I recommend leaving them. I've been so much happier ever since I left. My current boyfriend has NEVER let another girl flirt with him like that, and I feel so much more secure in this relationship than I ever did in the last.
I always tell girls who are the jealous type (I am too) to NEVER date a musician. It's hell. These musician guys need to date people who don't care that their SO is constantly being hit on, or nobody at all.
Throw the entire man out. Oral is standard issue, and if he hasn’t done it even once in a year, he can’t supply everything you need. Also, it’s fine to have preferences in positions, but to not even be willing to talk about it is a selfish, childish move.
What a wonderful relationship
I’m not really sure what exactly you should do, but a nice dinner date followed by a meaningful conversation seems to work well most of the time. The hardest part would be getting through to him, obviously.
wtf do you mean she didn't respect herself? does having sex with someone mean she doesn't respect herself? so then she didn't respect herself by having sex with you or what? i'm glas she got away from you.
He literally said he doesn’t know for how much longer he can keep this going because of the distance lol
Omg – this is animal abuse! Please break up! People like that can easily then move to adults especially if they get away with it. That poor pup – how can you even let him near her!
Yes? I want to show my kids the best version of myself, how is that wrong? Thats why I'm asking what the best decision is
Definitely had some people in mind and wanted sex without the cheating label.
Also OP, it’s a universal truth that it’s much easier for women to find casual sex. There’s nothing you can do about it.
I honestly wouldn't definitively tell you whether to keep them around or not because telling someone to ditch a friendship is a big deal and I'm not in a place that I think I should do that.
I reckon I know how I'd respond to that situation myself but it's very different when in that situation.
If you think you're done with them, then it's fine to be done and walk away. Nothing wrong with that.
If you want to try and maintain the friendship then being reaaallly direct is probably a good thing. The kind of time where he shits on a situation and you turn around and go “THAT! That is EXACTLY what I was talking about you [insert flavourable words here]” Just chapter and verse him when he pulls that, don't give quarter.
When you do that, you'll probably be able to glean a lot of information on how he responds. Because he's either doing it deliberately, which is really shit, or he's genuinely clueless to what he's doing.
If he's clueless, fair chance he'll be confused but hopefully take it on board in the long term. If he's doing it deliberately, he'll possibly try and weasle out “ah mate, I was just trying to help” or similar defensive response.
The secret option number 3, and I've seen it myself, is that some friends can be weirdly protective ot the point of almost ownership. As if they're doing you a favour keeping you from other people. That's more of an odd one.
I'm sorry you're going through this. He's been lying to you by telling you he wouldn't seek out porn, and then doing it. He lied to you when you caught him. And instead of owning it, he's trying to gaslight you and emotionally manipulate you into letting it go.
?????
I personally dont have anything against porn, but it's totally wrong to disregard boundaries that you agreed to. He should have been upfront from the get go. He's entire handling of this situation is toxic.
It doesn't matter what he wants. You are breaking up with him — for an excellent reason. Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship, and you don't have that with him. Move on with your life and stop caring about what he wants.
I was in a somewhat similar situation, and it's very important to realize you're more capable than you think. When you live with a parent who constantly talks about how generous they are to provide for you and how hard it is to live by yourself without their help, it's very easy to believe them.
When I finally got the courage to move out, I spent the first few months thinking “this is it?” Yes, it involves a lot of work and stuff, but it's very doable. This school sounds like a great opportunity, so please don't let your mom mislead you into thinking you can't do it.
Plenty of options with a body count higher than 7.
They’re deliberately hiding information that would be beneficial to their case, therefore I don’t think they are to be trusted.
I'm not a fan of giving oral. When I say I'm a pillow princess unfortunately I mean it ahaha…
So you know very well why the body count makes you feel uncomfortable: you think it’s degrading for people (women?) to have an active sexual life.
She was fine as long you were not involved. I think she didn't like the idea of you with another woman. She was happy enough to do it herself.
She says she sat there scared and crying, ie, being utterly useless.
Hahaha. No
These are valid reasons to want to break up. Explain your reasons to her, and let her know that you don’t want to hurt her/respect her and want to be friends. It will hurt her feelings, but if she’s mature she’ll understand and get past it.
Obviously, it is more challenging when you are in a room-share/roommate situation. My sibling lives in a room-share, and generally, my mother visits her when her roommate is out of town/on Spring break, etc. because, as a non-Western person, not earning Western currency ($/Euro/Pound), one night in a hotel can cost you a whole months' wages even if you opt-in for a 2-3 star hotel instead of a luxury. I normally live in the US, and in the city I live in, even the shittiest hotel with a room less than eight sqm in size costs more than $250. I am not even talking about AirBnB because it is almost always more expensive for a single person. My parents generally have enough money for plane tickets and their food/extra spending even if they save 2-3 years performing a great job for my country's standards.
Yea , understand
I know. I guess it’s the part of me that can’t break up with the potential Al you know? I have great family. It could work. His family is supportive of me. But I’m scared as hell to be aine
This guy got a lot out of her, for instance, things she wont do with me
Dick isn't the problem here. It's how you speak about your girlfriend.
You talk about her like she's a piñata. “Hmmm, maybe if I had a bigger stick, I'd get more candy out of her?”
I’m in the UK and waiting in the churches I have been a part of is full abstinence in most cases.
I don’t think it’s fair to say that people who choose to wait are asexual. All people are different and have different values and beliefs. They are allowed to do so, it doesn’t affect you personally in any way and if their partner is on the same page and has agreed, that’s all that matters.
Just talk to him about it. Ask some questions. Just be curious of his thoughts and his pursuits.
She is pregnant, this mean lot of hormones. Don't expect rational behaviour. She is obviously afraid you drop her, not an unreasonable idea if you have read that very subreddit.
I advice you to maintain contact, because she expects you won't. You don't have to make excuse for something you did not do. But you can do it for whatever attitude you had that make her sad.
Be steady because she is not. You don't have something romantic for that friend, never did and never will. You have no way to make her believe what she doesn't want to believe. But if she wants to have an husband and a father for the child, she'd better start to trust you. If she miss something from you, she'd better start to tell you : there is a limit to your telepathy.
Stay calm and factual. Ask precise questions. Don't deny : ask where, when, how much, how, who. No sarcasm. You want to be on her side.
Good luck.
He asked a few times, but I was over at her house, then decides to say shes gonna go over the second I leave out of town, I agree I think I am overblowing this and being insecure, but few weeks ago, asked if she wanted to go out with me, she said she was busy at work, then posted a snap at a frat party. Thank you for the help
That it's not true, I would tell him that he can't see it cause he doubts himself but that he's actually really bright and a wonderful person. Though now, after a few years, I just tell him he's using it as an excuse because he he's not, and that he needs to stop self-deprecating.
great post and story. cut yourself free from these things because they arent for you. just be honest and if you can, be her friend but dont let it drag you down
No I wouldn’t. He got the job. That’s his benefit. You get a bonus. That’s yours.
1.) you emotionally cheated on your gf by flirting with a gay man you have no interest in
2.) you met up with a gay man you have no interest in
3.) you’re too much of a pussy to tell him to leave you alone in spite of leading him on
4.) you enjoy “male attention” when you know you should leave people alone and mind your own business
You deserve this lmao. You’re the villain in this guy and your girl’s story. I hope for his sake that he leaves you alone, but honestly don’t be surprised when people show interest when you lead them on.
Yeah the mental health thing was mostly thrown under the bus growing up. Both of my children are boys and my husband is instilling the ideals of hard work and sacrifice to our boys. He wants them to be providers for their familes, etc (obviously explained in a kid-friendly manners).
Do you want to teach your kids that they need to sacrifice their hobbies to live a normal life?
To some degree yes. They need to understand that sometimes they need to put aside fun times for works sake. That being said they should still find outlets to enjoy themselves. I want my kids to be happy and succesful in that order. My husband wants the opposite order.
The help I can see. Housecleaner yes. Childcare help? In the Asian style it is the in laws or nothing xD
Goid = food
I mean, even a medication abortion is painful for most ppl. I hope you don’t live someplace where there’s protesters and that requires ultrasound. Good luck.
For context, I'm a guy and I'm happily married. My wife has had 2 miscarriages in as many months. I tell you this so that you know that I completely empathize with your situation. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this and I hope you'll be ok.
To focus on the situation, you're obviously not being unreasonable to expect what you're talking about. However, it seems to be a common theme with her in terms of being unempathetic. So while this might be the “most painful” situation in that regard, despite me absolutely agreeing with you, you also shouldn't at all be surprised. Doesn't make it ok. You just shouldn't be surprised.
Either way, I'm not sure what you're worried about. You had a miscarriage; is it the end of the world in the big picture? No. But is it a traumatic event for a potential mother, especially one who's planning for a child, has dealt with symptoms for two months, and everything's seemingly been fine? Damn right it is. So should you expect your sister to reach out to you? Absolutely, and you shouldn't feel bad about it. Obviously you're speculating now, but if she does say you're too sensitive, what you do is tell her to go fuck herself. She's entirely in the wrong. She has a fucking cold. Not exactly traumatic, unless she treats it as such, which maybe she does.
In short, stop feeling bad. Be direct and tell her how you feel. Don't back down if she tries to gaslight you. You're asking for kind words, not anything difficult.
As others have said. What a Dick move the least he could have done is let you shower and clean his goo off your body. Do yourself a favor and lose this guys number. The way you said he is a boy is right. I hope you were able to get some satisfaction out of your encounter as well.
Why do I feel u r being used here sir
You won’t leave him because you bought a house and you love him. That’s why you are naive. You want someone to tell you it will get better, he will change but he won’t and you are being a doormat.
Take that as aggressive, rude or both. You need to hear this as you are just not listening to this sub.
There are subs if you just want to vent and don’t want advice. But you are here and don’t want to listen.
No It is not! Your own personal feelings and your own view of your small world is never the whole point!
And that’s what I think he means by implications. I won’t make the same mistake again.
I said decent partner, I'm 100% sure.
Hey thanks so much for the comment. She is highly unstable but I understood that really. I knew she had bpd and loved her through it. Maybe I would be happier with someone who is more mentally stable, I just never thought our relationship would end like this.
My messages with my family did have a few convos where I’m being honest about some issues I had with her, but only to my mother who is the only person I talk to about my relationship so I can try to get a(somewhat) objective viewpoint. She knew my ex and I went to her because she’d be honest with me(sometimes she even took her side and said I was in the wrong on occasions). It was also stuff I had brought up to my ex previously that she said she’d said she was going to work on but hadn’t so I was a bit frustrated. But not like saying horrible stuff about her, just saying like “I wish she’d spend more effort working on so and so like she said” and stuff.
Idk, like I didn’t feel comfortable with her going through my personal messages, but I don’t think she has a right to that anyway? Maybe I’m wrong though, part of me does wish I hadn’t taken my phone back, but everything happens so fast it’s hard to think things through in the moment.
What do you think? Did I fuck up? Maybe we both overreacted idk I’m so confused
What he said was one evil wake up call.
Plus: he likely mentally has abused her for years already.
And has done so from the very start of their “relationship”.
To continue on with that, we’ve been together for the better part of 2 years, coming up on 3. Suppose we were “locked down”, would this be more of a necessity then?
Might be time to start hanging out in med school libraries.
I am so sorry for your loss.
What a stupid question
You need to have open communication with her. Don’t be afraid of hurting her feelings. She’s naturally a little clingy and to this point hasn’t really seen that you’re getting tired of it. She needs to know, it’s not fair to her for you to start feeling a little resentful of her actions. I think sleeping together over FaceTime is a little odd. I wouldn’t want to do that. You guys need separate time without the other person right there.
We all make mistakes, especially at your age. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Apologize, and then give him time and let him know his feelings are valid and you regret it. Then when things have cooled off, you should be honest about how you’ve been feeling hurt he hasn’t been eager to hang out. But you’re not a bad person, we all say things we regret and hurt people we love, it’s part of life.
I'm so sorry you're going through that. That's a very difficult situation to go through and I hope you both are able to work through it together.
yeah. I held off on asking while we were talking the past 2 months because I'm scared of the answer. If I were to ask I'd want to do it in a casual passing-by kind of way. I don't know how/when/where the right forum to ask is.
I don't get you! You started as an open relationship couple then closed it down to a manogamous relationship. Now you're freaking out when your gf asks your opinion about swinging? Is something missing here? Swinging is part of 'open relationship' but restricted to only sex at occasions as parties. So what got you shook when she asked about swinging since you had a very more open relationship at the start than swinging?
YUP. This is the question to ask. Impressionable young men are being taken in by this bullshit and it’s a toxic bomb to any relationship.