Man, you need to stop watching porn, because you have traines your brain to only be aroused by sex on a screen. You even mentioned being able to orgasm without her, by yourself, that is a huge red flag already.
Look into pornography addiction and scrap that shit. I used to be in your shoes and all my problems faded away when quitting it.
Sounds weird. However as a woman I can turn myself on if I try to think about something that usually makes me horny, when I dont really are in the mood for sex but it is just for starting… then I need more to get to begin… But for men it is a lot of bloodflow to do. I also wondering, if someone has a bomer does not automatically mean that he finds me attractive?
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I think another user (their name escapes me) did a good job of tracking these posts for a time and found they always have similar themes, the post is relatively short, the same verbiage is used.
Yes there would be real posts that use similar profile names but I am inclined to believe this is not a real post. And if I’m wrong that’s okay.
Yeah this only the second incident, and even after the first I was feeling really wary about consent. However at the same time I don’t want to give up this relationship, because this happens so rarely and it’s really been my only issue with him. If it continues though, I think you’re right to be concerned about consent because I am too. I’m gonna try talking to him again, but if this continues I don’t think I can stay
You didn't answer my question. Which was why do I miss someone who was so shitty and how do I stop thinking about them
I didn't seek his attention. He just wanted to control me after he realized I was moving on. I'm allowed to ask Reddit for advice, I know this is not a unique situation to me and a lot of people have been in the same boat and may have advice to pass down.
How would a female partner be beneficial to both of you if he doesn’t have sex with her, as he is saying? His argument doesn’t hold water and he’s just trying to make you feel bad. What a jeek
Man, you need to stop watching porn, because you have traines your brain to only be aroused by sex on a screen. You even mentioned being able to orgasm without her, by yourself, that is a huge red flag already.
Look into pornography addiction and scrap that shit. I used to be in your shoes and all my problems faded away when quitting it.
Sounds weird. However as a woman I can turn myself on if I try to think about something that usually makes me horny, when I dont really are in the mood for sex but it is just for starting… then I need more to get to begin… But for men it is a lot of bloodflow to do. I also wondering, if someone has a bomer does not automatically mean that he finds me attractive?
You could help it if you grew the fuck up. Get yourself into therapy and deal with your shit.
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I think another user (their name escapes me) did a good job of tracking these posts for a time and found they always have similar themes, the post is relatively short, the same verbiage is used.
Yes there would be real posts that use similar profile names but I am inclined to believe this is not a real post. And if I’m wrong that’s okay.
The engagement ring IS a ring you wear for the rest of your life..
Depends on where you live. Srsly, yes, reddit is heavily focused on Anglophone countries, but c'mon.
act and that I'm mature for my age
Only people who aren't mature say this.
18f dating 30m
Don't do it.
I know they would disapprove and not allow it, but I'm kinda
With good reason.
Should I lie about his age and say he's 26?
Why bother? 30 years old acts like 30 years old.
Any advice or opinions on the situation would be greatly appreciated. I'd also be down to answer any questions
Don't do it.
Yeah this only the second incident, and even after the first I was feeling really wary about consent. However at the same time I don’t want to give up this relationship, because this happens so rarely and it’s really been my only issue with him. If it continues though, I think you’re right to be concerned about consent because I am too. I’m gonna try talking to him again, but if this continues I don’t think I can stay
You didn't answer my question. Which was why do I miss someone who was so shitty and how do I stop thinking about them
I didn't seek his attention. He just wanted to control me after he realized I was moving on. I'm allowed to ask Reddit for advice, I know this is not a unique situation to me and a lot of people have been in the same boat and may have advice to pass down.
OP i think you are just going to have to call this relationship. No need to waste anymore time for either of you.
Sex hurts her so they gave her numbing cream to ignore the actual issue? Wtf
How would a female partner be beneficial to both of you if he doesn’t have sex with her, as he is saying? His argument doesn’t hold water and he’s just trying to make you feel bad. What a jeek
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No. Not true. I understand that there's different strokes for different folks just fine. I sus it out pretty quick in dating which type they are.
He’s not the only one buying her merch. I don’t know why you should be worried. Aren’t you a music fan?