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Maybe it’s true, maybe not. But thank you for the kind words ❣️
bc you know, empathy. It doesn't get better.
THIS
He has no empathy
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Is this also a problem if they go to the beach?
Or if the guy is just walking out of the shower into his bedroom?
This is ridiculous.
It’s impossible to know what’s going on unless you talk to him. Past trauma, assault, body shame, asexuality — it could be anything.
You were drunk, but shoving your hand down his pants was the exact wrong move. Your intention wasn’t assault, but he felt assaulted. That is why he flinched from you the next day, and that is why you need to open this talk with an apology.
Apologize for touching him too aggressively and tell him you won’t touch him there again without his enthusiastic consent.
Tell him you love him and want to have sex with him, but clearly he isn’t up for it and you’d like to know why.
Tell him you are willing to wait (for marriage, or whatever he needs), you just need to know what he wants.
Tell him if something happened to him in the past that you won’t force him to talk about it but are always there to listen if he wants to.
That’s where I’d start.
Also you need to learn to bring things up and talk about them way before they become huge unspoken issues, or your relationships are always going to be rocky.
The therapist knew. Big time Samwise “I can't carry it for you but I can carry you” energy.
GTFO with that kind of rhetoric (although I doubt you will, your post history is filled with it). Are you seriously trying to blame ALL women for OP’s bad decisions?
Oh so he lied? Well I guess it's okay then.
Ahhhahah please, keep lying to yourself
You're in denial. As I said, you've aged out of his desired age frame. This is the beginning of the end. You really need to go to therapy and rethink this entire relationship. Most pedophiles don't stop at just one victim, so you need to protect the children in your family.
Yep, don't see the issue. Two adults, consenting. Kids need to get over themselves. It's hard to find someone decent as it is.
There are people in this world that value monogamy and would love to be with you. You don’t have to sacrifice your sanity, feelings and wellbeing to be with someone who clearly resents you for not letting them fuck around with other women. You’ve got options.
Did the timeline she showed you have only data from Single parents? There shouldn't be any one size fits all for a timeline, but having a kid is different.
My husband and I moved in after 2 years engaged after 3 and married at 4 years. I know people who have taken longer.
A good partner would try to support your dreams and figure out how to make it work, but also it isn't unreasonable that a career is your focus right now and maybe that move won't make you compatable.
Either way if you are already uncertain about her, then don't avoid the interview!! You will regret if you break up in 6months and wonder why you missed out on a job opportunity that could impact your whole career.
Me and my dad have struggled for years because were both shit at communicating.
I thought he hated me from an early age and acted in ways that I thought protected me.
As an adult, I now realize he probably had the exact same experience. To him, I was his weird kid he probably thought out of the blue started hating him and his religion one day out of nowhere.
Neither of us really is good at starting the convo. Tbh, I doubt he wants the convo any more with adult me. Point is, good for you for putting it on the table. I respect how hard it probably is if you’re a different “kind” of person than your son. A lot of bridges can be built if he knows you aren’t annoyed by him, you just literally don’t know how to communicate with him.
Sounds like he’s a good kid also – ballsy enough to put out what he was worried you were feeling, so he’s a better kid than I was at 18.
I sincerely with the best for you guys. Sounds like you’re dealing w your past well.
Don’t go it you respect your bf. If you want him to be with you then don’t go on this crap.
You chose either your bf or this sl**y Hannah. She ain’t a good friend she just wants you to be the same as her
I know. I just know if we have it, he will say that it is me making big issues out of nothing and that he is trying but I make him feel like a monster. At this point I can predict exactly how he will deflect things. It breaks my heart because we used to have such good conversations but now he can’t take responsibility for anything. I just don’t understand.
Where’s the part about you breaking up with him?