Speaking from experience and being in your gfs shoes once upon a time, break up with her now. Dont wait till the shared lease is up like I did. Its so unfair to her and even yourself and things will be miserable if you wait that long. You guys will grow to resent eachother very much and especially her resenting you for dragging her along. If you break up with her now, theres a better chance of you two ending on somewhat good terms.
I’d love to read these comments if this was a woman posting. This was not an okay reaction in any stretch of the imagination. Death is not something to joke about.
If you are married t's a punishable crime in several states, and the US military. In the US military if you are cohabitating with someone and cheat on them it is a punishable event. There are many countries with paid maternity leave socialized health care and a space program where fucking someone else while saying you aren't is a crime or something you can take someone to civil court over.
Pretty massive difference there, and this doesn't sound anything like what OP said. That's why I'm asking OP to clarify as it was their words, not ours.
This isn’t the first time. He never informs me on anything. He expects me to tell him where I am going, and when I’ll be home every time I am out. I am just expecting the same from him. I just wanted him to take a few minutes of his time, to text or call me to say he would be coming at 4 am in the morning. We are both college students and we have class the next day. Isn’t it the bare minimum to update your partner on things like this? I absolutely do not mind that he went out to celebrate a party, I knew he would be late. But I didn’t know they would be partying till morning and is it wrong for me to want updates? I am worried about his well-being too, and I actually called to check up on him and to ask if he’s going to be home soon. But he didn’t even pick up.
you should tell him maybe his dick is too small. and maybe he would cum if you stick a dildo in his butt.
you fix this by removing the dead weight that is him. i don’t recommend breaking up lightly, but what he is complaining about is bullshit. i would be very insulted. he can only nuts if it is anal? is he gay? wtf is that?
Look, to be blunt, this would work fine if you were as willing to use him for your own sexual and financial gratification as he seems to be about using you. But I doubt you are, because none of your post sounds like you like this plan and truly? Any partner who will not stick up for their relationship against their parents starts to become less sexually attractive over time.
If you are both willing to live as roommates until your lease is up with some well defined and compromised on house rules, great. If not, well, it'll be hard either way, but it's got to be done.
And just like I said, if they had partners said partners wouldn't be invited. She has single friends, she should find different friends because she's in a relationship? Or maybe not be allowed to spend time with them because they are single? Your reasoning is so dumb it's hard to understand why you don't get it.
Why would you quit?
Honestly she just sounds like a bad and untrustworthy person at heart. I’m not sure you want that from someone in a long term relationship.
And if I called him out on it he would be like 'I didn't interrupt you, you interrupted me' ooof
Speaking from experience and being in your gfs shoes once upon a time, break up with her now. Dont wait till the shared lease is up like I did. Its so unfair to her and even yourself and things will be miserable if you wait that long. You guys will grow to resent eachother very much and especially her resenting you for dragging her along. If you break up with her now, theres a better chance of you two ending on somewhat good terms.
I’d love to read these comments if this was a woman posting. This was not an okay reaction in any stretch of the imagination. Death is not something to joke about.
If you are married t's a punishable crime in several states, and the US military. In the US military if you are cohabitating with someone and cheat on them it is a punishable event. There are many countries with paid maternity leave socialized health care and a space program where fucking someone else while saying you aren't is a crime or something you can take someone to civil court over.
It really is bizarrely trivialized here.
Pretty massive difference there, and this doesn't sound anything like what OP said. That's why I'm asking OP to clarify as it was their words, not ours.
This isn’t the first time. He never informs me on anything. He expects me to tell him where I am going, and when I’ll be home every time I am out. I am just expecting the same from him. I just wanted him to take a few minutes of his time, to text or call me to say he would be coming at 4 am in the morning. We are both college students and we have class the next day. Isn’t it the bare minimum to update your partner on things like this? I absolutely do not mind that he went out to celebrate a party, I knew he would be late. But I didn’t know they would be partying till morning and is it wrong for me to want updates? I am worried about his well-being too, and I actually called to check up on him and to ask if he’s going to be home soon. But he didn’t even pick up.
you should tell him maybe his dick is too small. and maybe he would cum if you stick a dildo in his butt.
you fix this by removing the dead weight that is him. i don’t recommend breaking up lightly, but what he is complaining about is bullshit. i would be very insulted. he can only nuts if it is anal? is he gay? wtf is that?
Look, to be blunt, this would work fine if you were as willing to use him for your own sexual and financial gratification as he seems to be about using you. But I doubt you are, because none of your post sounds like you like this plan and truly? Any partner who will not stick up for their relationship against their parents starts to become less sexually attractive over time.
If you are both willing to live as roommates until your lease is up with some well defined and compromised on house rules, great. If not, well, it'll be hard either way, but it's got to be done.
No, what is your take on his text?
The best part of a relationship is learning new things about yourself
The only important things to keep an eye on are red flags and your boundaries.
And just like I said, if they had partners said partners wouldn't be invited. She has single friends, she should find different friends because she's in a relationship? Or maybe not be allowed to spend time with them because they are single? Your reasoning is so dumb it's hard to understand why you don't get it.