I know that other things could've caused it which is why I didn't throw any accusations I just wanted to know whether or not im just being paranoid. The easiest thing is to go and get tested tomorrow and handle it from there
I would struggle to date someone who is so flippant and dismissive of therapy. Everyone needs help and to struggle willingly is difficult to see. Your bf having anxiety with you gone is him being too dependent and reliant on you IMO. Space is important and his self-worth shouldn't be tied to being around you. If he can't understand it being a family-only trip, that's unsettling. It makes sense you want privacy to be together and he should be confident and supportive in your trip.
I have family members like this. I do not respond well to guilt trips and in fact they have the complete opposite effect on me.
I maybe would have felt a little guilt about something that might not be entirely my fault cause that's who I am. Try to use that thing to leverage guilt outa me? Nope, go fuck yourself and whatever made you feel bad.
I didn't say that. He probably just doesn't like the smell and didn't mention it to be nice, but when she went to three, now he knows it's just going to get worse
Homie, you don’t have to be religious to go to church and find a nice gal. Also you can’t have a nun, they’re literally married to god lol. The reality is that you aren’t going to know. And there are a lot of other things that you’ll think about, that you’ll just have to trust they haven’t done. All I’m saying is to take a vow of celibacy because you don’t know if a girl has had coke sniffed off her tits seems to be a little much. You can’t control peoples past. So I just try to look at the type of person they are right now. I know I have changed immensely throughout my life, so it’s somewhat unfair to judge people off their actions at college parties in the past. Unless they did something real heinous.
I know that other things could've caused it which is why I didn't throw any accusations I just wanted to know whether or not im just being paranoid. The easiest thing is to go and get tested tomorrow and handle it from there
But who says you are not going to be with someone else eventually?
Future is a mistery
I would struggle to date someone who is so flippant and dismissive of therapy. Everyone needs help and to struggle willingly is difficult to see. Your bf having anxiety with you gone is him being too dependent and reliant on you IMO. Space is important and his self-worth shouldn't be tied to being around you. If he can't understand it being a family-only trip, that's unsettling. It makes sense you want privacy to be together and he should be confident and supportive in your trip.
Nah, I've never gotten an STD from an unfaithful partner emotionally cheating
Not at all. But if you feel that way then oh well
I have family members like this. I do not respond well to guilt trips and in fact they have the complete opposite effect on me.
I maybe would have felt a little guilt about something that might not be entirely my fault cause that's who I am. Try to use that thing to leverage guilt outa me? Nope, go fuck yourself and whatever made you feel bad.
I didn't say that. He probably just doesn't like the smell and didn't mention it to be nice, but when she went to three, now he knows it's just going to get worse
It probably has something to do with the attitude you have that causes you to call him a 'fuckfriend'
How is she he handling this with your other children? Do they now know too?
Less an emotional punching doll, more emotional dumping doll. But yeah. Otherwise you're correct.
There are no guarantees in life. What if it's OP and his wife that break up? Do the parents get to demand they be cordial forever?
I'm thinking they might not know what that term means and maybe meant misogynist?
Homie, you don’t have to be religious to go to church and find a nice gal. Also you can’t have a nun, they’re literally married to god lol. The reality is that you aren’t going to know. And there are a lot of other things that you’ll think about, that you’ll just have to trust they haven’t done. All I’m saying is to take a vow of celibacy because you don’t know if a girl has had coke sniffed off her tits seems to be a little much. You can’t control peoples past. So I just try to look at the type of person they are right now. I know I have changed immensely throughout my life, so it’s somewhat unfair to judge people off their actions at college parties in the past. Unless they did something real heinous.