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You stay with both of them in your life you will always be the person with the least self respect and they will see you as weak
Some people aren't meant to have children. (Which is perfectly fair) But there are those of us out there who absolutely love being a parent. I'm not going to tell you whether or not it's for you, I don't know you personally, but for myself, it's been worth it and then some. You just have to be okay with the fact that everything you do, and every decision you make, isn't about what you personally want and it's not just about what makes you happy anymore. You'll make sacrifices, you'll have responsibilities that you'll hate, and it's a lot of work. But the reward more than makes up for it. It just depends a lot on where you have your priorities in life. If you get fulfillment from exploring, travel, having a busy career, etc. Then kids will interfere with that. If you are the type that finds fulfillment in personal relationships and family, having kids is a much less daunting prospect.
There's so much to unpack in your post. You say he's a good dad but also a drunk?
Also the celebrity doesn't know your baggage. So I'm assuming you haven't said you're married with a kid?
Let’s flip it. Say your partner told you they’d like a kiss hello when they arrive.
You respond by saying “yes absolutely.”
Are you obligated to do that? Of course not. Will you? I’m certain you would. Why? Because you want your partner to be happy.
Yeah but if you also look at her post history, she's had more of a problem with how he dresses in public than the other actual bad stuff which I'm side eyeing a bit
Sorry but I put ALL the work into sex…
Hahaha not anime, no. I only say “nerdy” because this is how my friend describes the topics.
No it is, it’s objective that women only want tall men
i realize that would immediately give it away who sent the messages. Those are definitely nuclear option to just blow everything up so to speak
Things you never compromise on or let someone tell you that you need to change is boundaries you set and the respect you deserve as a human.
Leave her, it's not only the fact that you're sexually uncompatible, it's that she has no empathy at all and that's a big red flag.
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There's nothing extreme about not constantly complaining to others. Everyone struggles, Everyone has issues. If you're continually dumping your problems on others, they will get tired of it. That's fact.
I don't understand
if you don't have the money you shouldn't be eating out at all. you get fleeced as soon as you walk in the door at any restaurant.
let alone michelin, though 1 stars is not what it used to be
Ok so what does that have to with this post ?
Physicality in marriage ebbs and flows. Make an effort to initiate physical touch with him. Put your head on his shoulder on the couch, put your hand on him in bed. Whatever. I know this is horribly painful for you, but it really may not be forever. The dress in your lives right now is a lot. Work to stay connected on some level – date nights if you can afford it. Evening walks with the kids. Whatever you can do to bridge this gap.
You had 4 other kids. You should know how pregnancy works by now.
Positive…shock to me and even worse shock to him.
Really? You're both surprised you got pregnant while having unprotected sex the entire month? You sure you guys are 36 and 41?
This is some high school level ignorance. Pull out isn't a BC method. Ontop of that you guys didn't pull out multiple times. Duh, of course you would get pregnant.
If you guys didn't want to have a baby shouldn't have been so irresponsible.
He has had 20 years to do this.
He had actively chosen not to. What do you not understand about this?
Why isn't he scared to disappoint you? Which he is! Every time you have sed you don't enjoy, he is DISAPPOINTING YOU. Why is this expectation solely on you?
This should go both ways, he should want you to enjoy yourself, be comfortable and happy too. You need to refuse further rough sex. This is hurting you, and he doesn't care. It's his preference over your feeling of safety and comfort. It's a yikes.
That's exactly what I came here to say.
Looking for a problem when there really isn't (so she hooked up with someone you knew before you were together and gave her number to someone while you were in a super-early dating phase), seems like you're trying to make one.
I'm sure you have stuff that happened before her, right? We all have lives before we meet our future-spouses/partners.
None of it screams red flag. She's human and maybe felt like she needed to feel secure with you before mentioning she'd “dated” your friend for a bit.
It's 5 years ago. If you're hung up on these non-issues, I can only imagine how you're going to be in a marriage when push comes to shove and things get hard.
Maybe take a step back and address your insecurities before getting married? It would do you, and your relationship, a whole world of good.
Best, OP.
I’ve never heard of one paying for a Psychology PhD.
She's already left honey, that life is already left behind.
The only thing that happens if you stay is that you lose yourself.
A good therapist can help you through this next chapter. I'm so sorry. You didnt deserve this.
She is letting you know. That's what she's doing.
Breakup , you're sinking in more time and settling.
Dude, in another comment, she literally states her age and that she's living with someone who wants her to get a job to pay off her debt. Let's repeat that for the audiences in the back: HER PARTNER WANTS HER TO PAY OFF HER DEBT AND SHE THINKS IT'S HIS FUCKING JOB TO DO IT FOR HER!!! Wtf is wrong with this girl?
Dude, in another comment, she literally states her age and that she's living with someone who wants her to get a job to pay off her debt. Let's repeat that for the audiences in the back: HER PARTNER WANTS HER TO PAY OFF HER DEBT AND SHE THINKS IT'S HIS FUCKING JOB TO DO IT FOR HER!!! Wtf is wrong with this girl?
Dude, in another comment, she literally states her age and that she's living with someone who wants her to get a job to pay off her debt. Let's repeat that for the audiences in the back: HER PARTNER WANTS HER TO PAY OFF HER DEBT AND SHE THINKS IT'S HIS FUCKING JOB TO DO IT FOR HER!!! Wtf is wrong with this girl?
We don’t have visitation. We have 50/50. Been clean for 7 years. Was never really a drinker and don’t drink now.
For both your sakes end it. She will forever question if she should have made a different decision and you above everything else deserve someone who loves you and will stay by your side.
Why is this even a question? He's practically taunting you to do ir.
It hasn't just 'become' normalised…its been this way for the entirety of history. A man in his 40s? In what world would any age man not be attracted to a woman if she is fully developed and has a figure and appearance which is instinctively attractive to him. It's sexual attraction….not how interesting the person would be to engage in conversation.
I feel like it could be based of his fear of being like his dad.
No quality guys are attracted to this aggressive behaviour.
Be polite. Say you can’t date. Move on.
He’s allowed his views. Be as angry as you wish. It will only drive people away. He’s not making you date him and it won’t last anyway, with this anger.
At this point you are just looking for excuses to not leave.
No. Transwomen are women, she is a woman. A man slept with that woman, that does not make him bisexual because she is a woman!
Just because he enjoyed being fingered does not mean he is bisexual either, the male g-spot is in the bottom and it's simple pleasure, nothing to do with sexuality.
My thoughts exactly.. and, he DOES know why. Little chicken shit would be his new nickname.
When I was taken to an expensive restaurant that was totally outside my comfort zone (total bill would have eaily been 2 weeks groceries for me), I asked the person taking me to recommend me things off the menu
He raped you. Go to the police then block him.
When my husband and I aren’t communicating well verbally we take a break and then text when we are ready to talk it out. It usually starts with an apology from both of us acknowledging where we went off the rails and then we both share what we wanted to express in the earlier conversation.
It sounds like you have been resentful of his bathroom habits but not communicating your feelings or how you’re picking up his slack. That doesn’t absolve him of his disrespectful, unhygienic behavior but it does mean that your comment may have surprised him and put him on the defensive. The quip about the toilet seat hit him wrong and he lashed out by trying to turn it back on you which is also not right.
The fact that you jumped right to separating makes me think this is only a symptom of much deeper issues. If he is abusive, couples counseling is not recommended and can be more harmful than helpful. However, if a breakdown in communication is the main source of conflict, a third party could help you both develop better skills for problem solving without it turning into a fight.
I just don’t know why she did that. That was really vile and hurtful. As you said, maybe she was mad that I couldn’t watch her kids. Maybe, she was upset to see me in a happy relationship, because her relationships never really worked out. Honestly, I’m not sure and I don’t think I want to know. I just want to cut her off and try to move on the best I can. I guess I’ll keep the good memories and try to get that out of my head. Even though, I know it won’t be easy. It really fucked me up.
When my husband and I aren’t communicating well verbally we take a break and then text when we are ready to talk it out. It usually starts with an apology from both of us acknowledging where we went off the rails and then we both share what we wanted to express in the earlier conversation.
It sounds like you have been resentful of his bathroom habits but not communicating your feelings or how you’re picking up his slack. That doesn’t absolve him of his disrespectful, unhygienic behavior but it does mean that your comment may have surprised him and put him on the defensive. The quip about the toilet seat hit him wrong and he lashed out by trying to turn it back on you which is also not right.
The fact that you jumped right to separating makes me think this is only a symptom of much deeper issues. If he is abusive, couples counseling is not recommended and can be more harmful than helpful. However, if a breakdown in communication is the main source of conflict, a third party could help you both develop better skills for problem solving without it turning into a fight.
I can’t argue back because I was in the wrong here. I realize I was a piece of shit in the moment. Me and my wife do not have kids together. We can easily go our separate ways and I would respect her decision. I think people underestimate what being in a dead bedroom does to someone. It killed me. She started to lie To avoid sex but always wanted me take meet her needs. Don’t work too late/spend time with her. Which I didn’t mind but I just wanted some love. I know I sound pathetic but I swore I would own up to my mistake. I will apologize and change. I never meant to disrespect the sex worker and I wouldn’t do it again.
Thanks for the input.
It’s great you’re going to couples therapy but she is correct. Nothing between you will be the same. Buying her sex toys and books really isn’t what she needs at all. That in itself screams that you are only caring for your needs in this situation.
You owe her an apology(keep in mind she doesn’t have to forgive you) and you owe her the right to let her feel the way she does. Either she will regain trust or won’t.
Don’t be shocked if this doesn’t end well.