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Slava(left) and Sasha(right), 18 y.o.
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Online Live Sex Chat rooms Slava(left) and Sasha(right)
Date: January 9, 2023
I mean your entire relationship is built on the foundation that you make the sacrifices, you put in all the effort and get jack shit in return. He's thriving in his career, making money, having that kind of security and freedom while not having to move, make any effort or do anything to keep his loyal, thoughtful gf around. That's the relationship. You can try to change this, but someone who was happy to have you sacrifice for them without doing the same is not really going to change the dynamic that solely benefits him. Throwing away financial security and a great job for a man is usually a mistake, you need to realise that you aren't the exception. This is a guy who doesn't care enough to lie properly either, presents not arriving yet? He could've atleast come up with a proper excuse. Get your head on right, a relationship is supposed to add value to your life. You're in this just to say I have a man. You gave up your career, finances and hobby/passion for what…to be treated like an afterthought and convenience. You are only 30, you have a tough call to make or you'll be feeling this way when you're 40 and then it might actually be too late to look elsewhere.
If wasn’t until the mid-1990s in most countries that marital rape was even made against the law.
It’s not surprising that many people (ie read men) think that they have the right to sex, especially if they’re from a male dominated family or culture.
It’s a big ask for you to go from being this submissive to suddenly leaving him, and it’s also a big ask for him to go from thinking he isn’t raping you to realizing you have bodily autonomy.
You have to decide whether you want to stick around while he learns or if you want to make an escape plan.
If you opt for the escape plan, there are some good resources online and I urge you to Google “escape plan from abusive relationship”
If you opt to give him a chance to learn then you need to harden up, and cha he the power dynamic, so that he knows that couple counselling or violent partner counselling is not negotiable. It is a huge challenge for you to suddenly show him your strength, but you CAN do it.
You’ve survived so many years of his abuse. You’re a survivor. You are stronger than he makes you feel.