Give it time. A relationship is a fragile thing. You build trust over weeks, months, sometimes years. You can't just open it and close it. You can communicate the uncomfortable, but it sounds like you're jerking him around a little bit. Give it a while. Try to communicating openly and honestly. He has to choose to be with you.
Ive been pregnant 3x and its a VERY emotional time.
If someone sent me stuff like that near my due date, with all the stress, hormones, fear of the future, fear of my babys life or death, my life or death, the babyes health… if i received sometging like that i may have gone insane and not come back mentally ever again.
What she did was cruel. But what that woman did to her was VERY VERY EVIL especially insuch a delicate time.
People act like prenancy and post partum.is a normal time, BUT ITS NOT.
Its very delicate!!!
I had paranoia crisis, fainting spells, all while feeling very guilty and teying to make it seem i was normal.
So, yes, i completely undertand her and i definitelly understand you (i would want to break up tok, in your case).
So my heart break for you both, bci understand botb.
Let me just reinforce the point simply. You didn't fail him, he failed you. This isn't a you problem, you are more than enough, and it's not up to you to change him. What you need to do is grieve the loss of the relationship and move on in life. Reach out to your friends, do the things you enjoy, focus on your happiness and finding that again. Learn to be happy being you, so that when you are ready, Mr Right will be there.
I'll be blunt and say he knows what he wants, and it's not marrying you. Your anxiety and “type A personality” isn't the problem. Had they been problems he would not have spent 6 years of his life with you.
Figure out what you're wanting out of life and have a reasonable timeline to focus on. This way when the next one comes along you won't waste years on another man who doesn't want the same things you do.
Let her know the engagement will last for at least two years because getting married prior to 25 comes with an 88% chance of being divorced before you're 30.
Man if you show yourself as someone very needy, they will reject you. People need a little space in between. She wasn't the one, but maybe there are many ones. Move on my man
Nope. If he’s sad that you were telling people he was controlling then he should try not being controlling and sort his own emotions out instead. Leave him otherwise it’s a slippery slope ALWAYS. It starts with what you wear then it’s who you can meet up with then who you can even talk to. Trust all the people telling you this.
Give it time. A relationship is a fragile thing. You build trust over weeks, months, sometimes years. You can't just open it and close it. You can communicate the uncomfortable, but it sounds like you're jerking him around a little bit. Give it a while. Try to communicating openly and honestly. He has to choose to be with you.
Ive been pregnant 3x and its a VERY emotional time.
If someone sent me stuff like that near my due date, with all the stress, hormones, fear of the future, fear of my babys life or death, my life or death, the babyes health… if i received sometging like that i may have gone insane and not come back mentally ever again.
What she did was cruel. But what that woman did to her was VERY VERY EVIL especially insuch a delicate time.
People act like prenancy and post partum.is a normal time, BUT ITS NOT.
Its very delicate!!!
I had paranoia crisis, fainting spells, all while feeling very guilty and teying to make it seem i was normal.
So, yes, i completely undertand her and i definitelly understand you (i would want to break up tok, in your case).
So my heart break for you both, bci understand botb.
I don’t see the issue. He’s taking precautions to ensure he doesn’t get herpes. That sounds like a smart thing to do.
Let me just reinforce the point simply. You didn't fail him, he failed you. This isn't a you problem, you are more than enough, and it's not up to you to change him. What you need to do is grieve the loss of the relationship and move on in life. Reach out to your friends, do the things you enjoy, focus on your happiness and finding that again. Learn to be happy being you, so that when you are ready, Mr Right will be there.
Time to leave.
I'll be blunt and say he knows what he wants, and it's not marrying you. Your anxiety and “type A personality” isn't the problem. Had they been problems he would not have spent 6 years of his life with you.
Figure out what you're wanting out of life and have a reasonable timeline to focus on. This way when the next one comes along you won't waste years on another man who doesn't want the same things you do.
You want a third? Do you have someone in mind?
Let her know the engagement will last for at least two years because getting married prior to 25 comes with an 88% chance of being divorced before you're 30.
Man if you show yourself as someone very needy, they will reject you. People need a little space in between. She wasn't the one, but maybe there are many ones. Move on my man
Nope. If he’s sad that you were telling people he was controlling then he should try not being controlling and sort his own emotions out instead. Leave him otherwise it’s a slippery slope ALWAYS. It starts with what you wear then it’s who you can meet up with then who you can even talk to. Trust all the people telling you this.