I have never heard of someone using ovulation sticks to track their period. Ever. It really makes no sense. Period tracker apps or a simple calendar make a million times more sense.
Either she’s trying to get pregnant or she’s not really on birth control and trying to use the rhythm method. Either way, she isn’t trustworthy.
Couples therapy. Go speak to a professional that can get to the heart of what she wants. And probably therapy for you too so that you can get this moodiness figured out.
I am an old guy that is almost 69. I have been married 45 faithful, monogomous, and very happy years and together 50+. A lot of our success came from talking and agreeing upon mutual boundaries early in the relationship. We felt 2 broad based boundaries covered pretty much every situation. They are: 1. If you would not do it directly in front of your significant other or without their approval with full knowledge… don't do it. 2. Do not allow yourself to be in a situation or environment in which the slightest opportunity to inadvertently violate #1 has the potential to occur. In my opinion, what you are considering violates those boundaries. He has told you how upset this would make him. So that is #1. While you are now just friends, living together totally changes the dynamics. If you read much in Reddit, you would see how after “just friends” ends up in an unintended betrayal. Everyone thinks that just happens to other people and not them… until it does. Again, just my opinion, but this would put you on a very slippery slope. This is not about insecurity, control, or trust. In an environment like this, the unintended frequently happens. If you really care for your SO, consider his feelings and your potential future and find a different solution. If not, your feelings are not strong enough for him to make this sacrifice. And that's OK. But then just make a clean break now instead of what will ultimately happen later. You will save him a lot of heart ache in the long run.
He is like 30. I can tell he is not a good man. A hypocrite. You stay with him and find out how he will treat you in years to come.
I have never heard of someone using ovulation sticks to track their period. Ever. It really makes no sense. Period tracker apps or a simple calendar make a million times more sense.
Either she’s trying to get pregnant or she’s not really on birth control and trying to use the rhythm method. Either way, she isn’t trustworthy.
Couples therapy. Go speak to a professional that can get to the heart of what she wants. And probably therapy for you too so that you can get this moodiness figured out.
It's not supposed to be birth control
Who said?
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Throw her ass out. 9 years old is more than old enough to know not to leave shit out when the dogs like to chew.
ALWAYS pick animals over some entitled asshole human.
I am an old guy that is almost 69. I have been married 45 faithful, monogomous, and very happy years and together 50+. A lot of our success came from talking and agreeing upon mutual boundaries early in the relationship. We felt 2 broad based boundaries covered pretty much every situation. They are: 1. If you would not do it directly in front of your significant other or without their approval with full knowledge… don't do it. 2. Do not allow yourself to be in a situation or environment in which the slightest opportunity to inadvertently violate #1 has the potential to occur. In my opinion, what you are considering violates those boundaries. He has told you how upset this would make him. So that is #1. While you are now just friends, living together totally changes the dynamics. If you read much in Reddit, you would see how after “just friends” ends up in an unintended betrayal. Everyone thinks that just happens to other people and not them… until it does. Again, just my opinion, but this would put you on a very slippery slope. This is not about insecurity, control, or trust. In an environment like this, the unintended frequently happens. If you really care for your SO, consider his feelings and your potential future and find a different solution. If not, your feelings are not strong enough for him to make this sacrifice. And that's OK. But then just make a clean break now instead of what will ultimately happen later. You will save him a lot of heart ache in the long run.
Tg here is nothing wrong with your vagina. Your bf is a piece of shit who is trying to manipulate you into doing anal by negging you.
Get the hell out of there and away from him.