I think its a jealousy issue and its serious one! Ppl like this guy thinks he own your body, just ignore him and if he insists just let go. But r u sure it was only glow in the dark lool
Get an STD test. If you decide to stay with him, make him wear a condom. Definitely figure out what you value most in a relationship: companionship, money, honesty, etc. Is he giving it to you?
Why? You’re “frustrated with her staying as long as she NEEDS.” Why does this bother you so much. Yes, her mess is inconvenient to you. That’s it! She costs you nothing.
Next time he tries it in front of the group, just tell him to stop acting like a fucking loser and ask him what his problem is point blank. Don’t try any of the stupid witty lines people ITT are giving you. Don’t pull him aside to talk. Escalate on the spot and make things tense for EVERYONE. Defend yourself man. Jesus.
Tell him that him thinking that is lame but that what he did isn't. Then suggest self defense.
If he makes it your problem after that he is a loser.
I think its a jealousy issue and its serious one! Ppl like this guy thinks he own your body, just ignore him and if he insists just let go. But r u sure it was only glow in the dark lool
Get an STD test. If you decide to stay with him, make him wear a condom. Definitely figure out what you value most in a relationship: companionship, money, honesty, etc. Is he giving it to you?
I have no idea how you lasted this long
There are so many things that need to be talked through extensively. From serious to mundane. I might be wrong. It feels like a lot.
From his end? Or from yours? Do you want to talk things through more, or less? I honestly can't tell from what you've written.
Still no idea what you mean by “expectation of accountability”. I see no examples of anyone asking for or expecting accountability.
Why? You’re “frustrated with her staying as long as she NEEDS.” Why does this bother you so much. Yes, her mess is inconvenient to you. That’s it! She costs you nothing.
Thank you. You’re right.
Next time he tries it in front of the group, just tell him to stop acting like a fucking loser and ask him what his problem is point blank. Don’t try any of the stupid witty lines people ITT are giving you. Don’t pull him aside to talk. Escalate on the spot and make things tense for EVERYONE. Defend yourself man. Jesus.
Holy run on sentence Batman!
Y’all need to mature up and talk things out with the intention of hearing each other.
Don’t cheat, it’s never good.
This word soup desperately need a TLDR.
Also, what is your question??????????????