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Date: October 22, 2022
Sex toy addiction. It’s getting sadly common with women, and it’s tearing apart relationships left and right. She’s deeply sick and needs professional help asap.
Oops sorry thought this was another porn thread.
Yes. He isn’t sorry and he’s toxic. Don’t stay with him.
I am not even going to lie I’m gonna need to sit here and reckon with the fact that this post started with we’ve been together 21 months and 7 days liiiiiike
He has extremely low self esteem. So naturally he's incapable of being attracted to women who are attracted to him. He will forever treat you this way and it's not your fault nor does it say anything about your objective attractiveness. Pick the hottest woman out of his folder of pics and he'd treat them her exact same way.
Best to move on from this loser.
nothing about her bodily autonomy was violated when he masturbated. he didn't use her body, he didn't use any pictures of her. and he wasn't turned on by the fact she was drunk, he was turned on by her wanting him. if you don't want to be any more of a jerk than you already are, you need to understand why you're wrong and apologize to your poor boyfriend
Did you have the children with you pretty much full time during school year and the ex had them only on holidays.
It really sounds like she's racist and she doesn't know it. Your adults you talk to her, and maybe get her to watch/read some stuff about being anti racist, if you want to help her.
God you really are infecting other people’s comments by defending this man to the death…. Did you even read anything she wrote in her post or are you just wanting to shit on her for giving her self some self love when he has been a shit husband for 20 years??
“He DoEsNt DeSeRvE tO bE aBaNdOnEd!” … but you think she does??
Asking for a paternity test is not unreasonable or accusing someone of cheating. They estimate 30% of assumed fathers are false. If anything is get a paternity test for both parents if the baby is removed from you site during the birthing process for even a second, accidents and mix ups can happen and how would you even know if you didn’t test. There were a bunch of babies in the 70s/80s that got switched out and placed with incorrect parents, I’m not sure what safety guards in are place to prevent it from still happening now. If you you do IVF, few of those doctors were using their own sperm instead of the fathers. He’s definitely the asshole for bringing this up now though instead of before you attempted to conceive- this should of been discussed way before so you could plainly see what type of man you were breeding with who though you would scam him.
While it's a good thing to discuss such things with someone you're dating, this does sound like she's not just stating it, but more like she's giving you broad hints that she's ready to take it to the next level…and fast. I wonder if her student visa is getting ready to expire.
Be careful that she doesn't try to trap you in an unwanted marriage or with an unwanted/untimed pregnancy. It seems like that might be her ultimate goal here.
Man, if my group chat ever leaked I’d have to move to Zimbabwe and grow a killer mustache
You do whatever you want but if your mans isn’t just an absolute baboon in his group chat, he’s just not that close with those dudes
Good luck.
But it isn’t any other kind of experience. Should he lose his family because people think he’s a pedo because his wife looks young and it disturbs him? He seems to love her. Therapy or leaving her are the options here. I think leaving over it before you attempt become more mentally resilient is a weak way to live. Besides, therapy will help her to not brush it off when he speaks to her about it.
Trauma is one thing. It's real and effects people deeply. OP is the type of person to self diagnose every mental health problem under the sun from tiktok. She has “being called names” trauma don't you know.
There probably isn't a practical plan to be made here, but she doesn't see that yet. I would be willing to sit down with the two of them and discuss it, if that's what they want. However, I would expect it all to come to nothing. Obviously, you shouldn't even dream of acting on any of this unless there were first to be a realistic plan acceptable to all concerned.
This ⬆️ OP & wife need to look for other ways to spice things up, that both are 100% on board with. Swinging isn’t it.
How in the hell can you write this message out and it not cross your mind that you should’ve left a long time ago? This guy sounds like an absolute fucking loser.
Really don’t need to explain it. Every paragraph has two new reasons why you should leave him. Dating a literal piece of grass would have more benefits.
Please do yourself a favor and muster the courage to get the hell out of this relationship. Don’t listen to his guilt trips or pleading or begging or threats to hurt himself. Get him help if you find it necessary, and go no contact and rebuild. It will take you very little time to find someone leagues better than him. Christ.
Sounds like sex isn’t important to him full stop. He may have a low libido, in which case he’s not going to be jumping you 24/7 when your married either.
Women associate sex with emotional intimacy much more than men do. To him it’s probably just a case of substituting your vagina for his hand when you’re married so it doesn’t mean that much to him.
I’d be wary about wasting years with him in the hope that the sex life is going to be mind blowing as soon as you’ve got that ring on your finger.
I bet you’ll be back on here after you’re married frustrated about the fact that he lied to you about saving himself for marriage when you’re still not getting anything.
Supposedly he is saving for a ring, but it's not likely he'll marry you any sooner. I understand why this stings. I'm really sorry you are in this bad place. Wishing you good outcomes all around.
This whole discussion reads like one from r/AmItheAsshole especially the way OP defends their actions.
Even if it was just once and not 3 times, yes, she was right to end it with you for violating her trust.
Dump the cheater, talk to new guy.
it's been 10 months and i know that i do care about him. i'm afraid of making the wrong choice. he had a bad past but i think i've changed it and he might be on the right path at the moment, i'm just not sure.
You don't need his permission to leave. Just leave him he doesn't appreciate you but he doesn't want to be alone or lose all the things you do for him.
You're right… I wasn't sure if I was being unreasonable. This post has made me realize my feelings are totally justified.