This is gross and tbh I can't wait to find out how he reacts because the only people that want virgins are people that are insecure in bed so they don't want women to have any experience to judge against.
BUT beyond that, you should tell him so he can make an informed decision about if he wants to sleep with you or not.
You need to be honest with yourself as to whether or not you will ever be able to forgive him and trust him again. Wanting to doesn’t make it happen. Is it possible for you. No amount of time or therapy will help if you can’t get over it and you can’t trust him again.
If you can’t then you need to end it. It doesn’t matter how intertwined your lives are. You won’t be the first to divorce and split assets and you won’t be the last. But it will be better than the both of you being miserable.
Your emotional response is right and proper. I'm NOT telling you otherwise!
And you were betrayed. Not by Cheating, but by Bilging, as some call it. Husband using Taco Bell Girl to tell his troubles to. Intolerable!
But why? I suspect that “having issues lately” doesn't describe it properly. If understatement made people's eyes light-sensitive, you would probably need sunglasses.
So while I agree without hesitation that you've been inexcusably mistreated, all of it – Husband treating you mean, letting the marriage bed go cold, AND bilging to this girl – was over your issues.
With sympathy, I gently suggest: don't treat the betrayal as the only problem, and don't let Taco Bell Girl distract you from what really matters. Resolve both the issues and the mistreatment, if you think it worth the effort, or decide you've had enough and get out. I fully support either choice, and I wish you better days ahead.
Teens and young adults should stay away from all sarms,pro-hormones, and steroids. They're still growing in body and mind all of which these drugs cab effect. Everyone really should but some of us don't mind the risk and are much older. Teens and young men in their prime already got so much potential with discipline and dedication they don't need it.
Don’t ghost her just be honest .
Best of luck OP. I know it’s hard. The fact that you’re worried about doing what’s right shows you’re a great mom. ?
The risk of him going to jail for 15 years is zero lol
It was to give us time to think and work on our own issues by ourselves
Then why get married in the first place lmfao
That’s what I’m planning to do. Literally sick of him
I've gotten pregnant from the pull out method. Heck even from hubs being in me for a minute before we wrapped it.
It's an extremely unreliable method of birth control.
Happy cake day.
This is gross and tbh I can't wait to find out how he reacts because the only people that want virgins are people that are insecure in bed so they don't want women to have any experience to judge against.
BUT beyond that, you should tell him so he can make an informed decision about if he wants to sleep with you or not.
You need to be honest with yourself as to whether or not you will ever be able to forgive him and trust him again. Wanting to doesn’t make it happen. Is it possible for you. No amount of time or therapy will help if you can’t get over it and you can’t trust him again.
If you can’t then you need to end it. It doesn’t matter how intertwined your lives are. You won’t be the first to divorce and split assets and you won’t be the last. But it will be better than the both of you being miserable.
Your emotional response is right and proper. I'm NOT telling you otherwise!
And you were betrayed. Not by Cheating, but by Bilging, as some call it. Husband using Taco Bell Girl to tell his troubles to. Intolerable!
But why? I suspect that “having issues lately” doesn't describe it properly. If understatement made people's eyes light-sensitive, you would probably need sunglasses.
So while I agree without hesitation that you've been inexcusably mistreated, all of it – Husband treating you mean, letting the marriage bed go cold, AND bilging to this girl – was over your issues.
With sympathy, I gently suggest: don't treat the betrayal as the only problem, and don't let Taco Bell Girl distract you from what really matters. Resolve both the issues and the mistreatment, if you think it worth the effort, or decide you've had enough and get out. I fully support either choice, and I wish you better days ahead.
Teens and young adults should stay away from all sarms,pro-hormones, and steroids. They're still growing in body and mind all of which these drugs cab effect. Everyone really should but some of us don't mind the risk and are much older. Teens and young men in their prime already got so much potential with discipline and dedication they don't need it.