Appreciate the advice. It sucks because there are really positive days too where she’s very sweet, very loving, and very committed – but everything I included in the post is still true. It’s like our foundation is extremely solid and loving, but piled on top of that is all of the growing differences and struggling.
Obviously you are entitled to your boundaries but there's not a lot of men that age that are going to actually avoid porn. And as long as we aren't talking about human trafficking or abuse in porn, I honestly don't see what the issue is with it. You will probably be happier going forward if you don't feel threatened by porn. That being said, the way your boyfriend is handling this is immature and unsexy. No one likes being badgered for something like that. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.
Appreciate the advice. It sucks because there are really positive days too where she’s very sweet, very loving, and very committed – but everything I included in the post is still true. It’s like our foundation is extremely solid and loving, but piled on top of that is all of the growing differences and struggling.
Obviously you are entitled to your boundaries but there's not a lot of men that age that are going to actually avoid porn. And as long as we aren't talking about human trafficking or abuse in porn, I honestly don't see what the issue is with it. You will probably be happier going forward if you don't feel threatened by porn. That being said, the way your boyfriend is handling this is immature and unsexy. No one likes being badgered for something like that. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.