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In a situation like this the gf could easily classify husband as “he's too difficult to manage” and you're easier, so, you get the short end of the stick. She manages you instead of him.
Even if she tries to do something with him, there could be a lot of effort required and then a ton of push back and he could wind up doing something different that makes the situation even worse than it already is, etc. This is where the 'rocking the boat' comes from.
And “do nothing and nothing will change” serves her benefit just fine. She's not the upset one. People don't change if the current situation is fine to them.
So from gf's pov, the status quo is calm waters and any significant changes is boat rocking. You're the only one with a problem.
None of this is inherently malicious on gf's part, it's normal human behavior for people who aren't masters of conflict resolution. Likely isn't even fully aware of the choices she's making and the ramifications of them. So don't let this paint her as 'the bad one' in any way.
But yeah, if you can't get the boat to rock or get her or him to change their behavior, it really does boil down to “can you live with it” and “is it really that big of a deal to you.” Tough questions with hard answers.
No relationship is ever perfect and there's always going to be some aspect of it that doesn't go smooth as silk. “Can you live with it” is a question that exists in every relationship, especially once all attempts to communicate and resolve it have been exhausted.
Do you really want to keep a relationship going that had no foundation
More red flags than a Chinese military parade. The writing is on the wall
Thatttttt is probably the answer. And what I feel too. Just can’t believe I have to walk away from two attachments? 🙁 I just want a happy relationship and would be nice if it didn’t have to be with someone new…
Hey cheers bud. But come back up for some hydration and air soon. ♥️
Because (and I mean this with respect) men need to be told things plain and simple lol. Hints and assumptions will always lead to unnecessary hurt. He may see these trips as an escape from family/work life and gets time with you. You both clearly have different expectations so it's always best to discuss it. Who knows, he may have a legit reason for the misunderstanding, or you'll find out he doesn't care about the relationship as much as you do. Either way, this is an important discussion to have.