thanks 🙂 I definitely do need to revisit therapy and I guess I’ve had traumatic experiences throughout my life (which I tell myself aren’t a big deal because it’s just been my life) but I guess they impact these “smaller” situations because to me they’re not that much of a big deal in the grand scheme of things.
I’ll be honest part of me thinks we could help each other in terms of him feeling acceptance for his flaws (which I know he regrets) and learning to work through them and me working past my “I don’t care” default response. But I don’t know if that’s just me choosing chaos yet again? But I don’t really want to continue my habit of shutting down with guys, not feeling much and not knowing how to be vulnerable. But then I’d basically be using him to practise how to put my ego aside and talk through issues?
You're right, no matter WHAT the 'hobby' was I would have SERIOUS issues with the fact that my partner dropped $18,000 of OUR money because they're married to actively cheat on you.
You have too much time on your hands lol
“Married 4 years and have known each other for about 10 years”
Honeymoon phase huh?
thanks 🙂 I definitely do need to revisit therapy and I guess I’ve had traumatic experiences throughout my life (which I tell myself aren’t a big deal because it’s just been my life) but I guess they impact these “smaller” situations because to me they’re not that much of a big deal in the grand scheme of things.
I’ll be honest part of me thinks we could help each other in terms of him feeling acceptance for his flaws (which I know he regrets) and learning to work through them and me working past my “I don’t care” default response. But I don’t know if that’s just me choosing chaos yet again? But I don’t really want to continue my habit of shutting down with guys, not feeling much and not knowing how to be vulnerable. But then I’d basically be using him to practise how to put my ego aside and talk through issues?
hmmm i mean tinder is pretty common with people my age and my friend groups idk?? i’ll deffo be careful but you’ve got me kinda worried now
Welp. Sounds like you have different morals. You should break up.
Who took the photo?
Jesus dude, please pull your head out of your ass and see that shes lying to you.
If I had any awards to give you would get it. This is SPOT ON
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You're right, no matter WHAT the 'hobby' was I would have SERIOUS issues with the fact that my partner dropped $18,000 of OUR money because they're married to actively cheat on you.
Sad that this is so controversial.
If he's following engagement ring accounts it's very likely he plans to propose to someone, maybe the ex, maybe someone else. Let it go, it's over.