OP specifically states in his replies that he is grey rocking her and GF has stopped attending events etc. That's no response, not an angry drama fueling response as your reply here seems to imply. My opinion based on what OP is saying is that she (ex) is not getting ANY reinforcement or response. The GF being bothered seems to be an issue they keep to themselves. In fact, as other commenters are pointing out, the only reaction/reinforcement she's receiving and OP has left to remove is him allowing her to give gifts or insert herself between them when all 3 of them are in the same space.
He can't control ex, but I think overall, commenters seem to be agreeing that OP should be more vocally firm as far as keeping ex in her place by telling her “you can't sit next to me, please let GF and I sit on this side of the kids and you go sit on other side of kids. Please do not bring me gifts, please do not text, call or show up unless it's regarding kids”.
But, as OP stated, when she's not being overly friendly on purpose, she's being combative and when you have kids, it's a hard tightrope to walk with a combative and emotionally tumultuous coparent.
No, you aren't crazy. They can go elsewhere, include you, or deal with it.
You could definitely make plans by yourself or with your friends and let her know like, “hey, I planned X with Y on Z so you could have the house to yourself” if you want to
But if you are feeling forced to leave your space that you pay for, communicate that
Are you blind this guy SO wants out of the marriage?
He is trying everything to get you to pull the trigger. The dick pic was deliberate but not because he wants to F*** your sister, but because he wants you to be the one to end the relationship.
I'm sorry OP but he's done with you.
He's never going to do better because he's trying EVERYTHING to push you away.
Sending a dick pic to your sister was actually a brilliant move imo. Maximum humilation for you, with lots of plausable deniability.
All his actions are pure sabotage, he is either telling you this stuff to your face or so clumsily hiding his actions a child would notice.
He probably has another women that he's actually hiding whilst he role plays ” i'm just an idiot who wants to be single ” to you.
Not just take it back from this ingrate , but GIFT IT ALL to another more appreciative friend. Or to someone at a homeless shelter… Oh wait. OP’s boyfriend might be ther after she dumps this jerk.
Nothing is 100% to a cautious person that isn't reckless, playa. You do sound like an asshole, I bet it sounds even harsher to the person you think you love.
All my wife told me is that she feels the most stimulation there and on her nipples, I’m aware their could be other areas though. My point was to make how a wax for a woman would feel vastly different than a wax for a man
OP specifically states in his replies that he is grey rocking her and GF has stopped attending events etc. That's no response, not an angry drama fueling response as your reply here seems to imply. My opinion based on what OP is saying is that she (ex) is not getting ANY reinforcement or response. The GF being bothered seems to be an issue they keep to themselves. In fact, as other commenters are pointing out, the only reaction/reinforcement she's receiving and OP has left to remove is him allowing her to give gifts or insert herself between them when all 3 of them are in the same space.
He can't control ex, but I think overall, commenters seem to be agreeing that OP should be more vocally firm as far as keeping ex in her place by telling her “you can't sit next to me, please let GF and I sit on this side of the kids and you go sit on other side of kids. Please do not bring me gifts, please do not text, call or show up unless it's regarding kids”.
But, as OP stated, when she's not being overly friendly on purpose, she's being combative and when you have kids, it's a hard tightrope to walk with a combative and emotionally tumultuous coparent.
You don’t have to “bring it up” for your arrogance to be palpable and demoralizing
You should tell him the truth.
You should tell him the truth.
No, you aren't crazy. They can go elsewhere, include you, or deal with it.
You could definitely make plans by yourself or with your friends and let her know like, “hey, I planned X with Y on Z so you could have the house to yourself” if you want to
But if you are feeling forced to leave your space that you pay for, communicate that
Are you blind this guy SO wants out of the marriage?
He is trying everything to get you to pull the trigger. The dick pic was deliberate but not because he wants to F*** your sister, but because he wants you to be the one to end the relationship.
I'm sorry OP but he's done with you.
He's never going to do better because he's trying EVERYTHING to push you away.
Sending a dick pic to your sister was actually a brilliant move imo. Maximum humilation for you, with lots of plausable deniability.
All his actions are pure sabotage, he is either telling you this stuff to your face or so clumsily hiding his actions a child would notice.
He probably has another women that he's actually hiding whilst he role plays ” i'm just an idiot who wants to be single ” to you.
Not just take it back from this ingrate , but GIFT IT ALL to another more appreciative friend. Or to someone at a homeless shelter… Oh wait. OP’s boyfriend might be ther after she dumps this jerk.
Buddy, your the safe pick.
Don’t fall for her bullshit.
Nothing is 100% to a cautious person that isn't reckless, playa. You do sound like an asshole, I bet it sounds even harsher to the person you think you love.
Women do feel stimulation other than in the clit
All my wife told me is that she feels the most stimulation there and on her nipples, I’m aware their could be other areas though. My point was to make how a wax for a woman would feel vastly different than a wax for a man