She has mindset that if you aren't miserable from exhsustion you aren't really working. You work to be happy. Work itself has no value, it is done for money. Is your satisfactory? If yes then stick with it, if anything suggest your partner she can take things easier if she is too exhausted from work.
You deserve to have as much free time in home as her. In work even if you don't do anything it's exhausting. I have once no work for 6 hours straight in office work. I was absolutely miserable. This isn't resting in any shape or form.
So your sister was dating a guy who was over 30 when she was like 18, if I’ve done my math correctly. This means very likely she was manipulated and/or treated poorly by this person, or at least there was a very serious power imbalance. Healing from that is hard, and someone dying can make that more complicated. I really encourage you to show your sister more compassion.
Who am I to judge you? I have freaked out a few times myself (and thankfully, I am learning and growing).
Know this: you’re not alone in having to work on relaxing and on managing triggers. I recommend looking into mental health journaling exercises (also check shadow work and emotional intelligence).
All of them can if they file before 27 years old. You can sue for back supports as an adult.
She has mindset that if you aren't miserable from exhsustion you aren't really working. You work to be happy. Work itself has no value, it is done for money. Is your satisfactory? If yes then stick with it, if anything suggest your partner she can take things easier if she is too exhausted from work.
You deserve to have as much free time in home as her. In work even if you don't do anything it's exhausting. I have once no work for 6 hours straight in office work. I was absolutely miserable. This isn't resting in any shape or form.
So your sister was dating a guy who was over 30 when she was like 18, if I’ve done my math correctly. This means very likely she was manipulated and/or treated poorly by this person, or at least there was a very serious power imbalance. Healing from that is hard, and someone dying can make that more complicated. I really encourage you to show your sister more compassion.
Who am I to judge you? I have freaked out a few times myself (and thankfully, I am learning and growing).
Know this: you’re not alone in having to work on relaxing and on managing triggers. I recommend looking into mental health journaling exercises (also check shadow work and emotional intelligence).
You need to move on and stop getting involved in your ex’s new relationships.
Based on history, it’s pretty likely he’ll cheat on her and break her heart. She has enough info to figure that out for herself. She’ll live.
speak to her. see what she says. if she downplays it or is unapologetic, bounce