I'm glad you asked people before you got crazy deep in this relationship. Friends can be older but since they knew you from so young they shouldn't be partners
Honestly, you are right this is a bigger problem than I think it is. A part of me is still blinded by the love I have for her. Everything was going well. We share location so I know she hasn't done anything else other than this. She told me she ended the LDR with that man about 2 or 3 months ago cause she felt guilty.
She said shes willing to prove anything to me that she's loyal now and wants us to work things out.
Do you think this is something I should or could work through? Is giving her another chance the wrong decision? What would you do if this happened to you?
It’s waaaaay to quick for everything you named in the post. You need time for yourself to heal. How are you going to know right from wrong if you think it’s okay to jump from an abusive relationship to lovebombing one? It’s very red flaggy that you are both behaving this way, unfortunately, I believe you told him about your past abusive relationships?
I'm glad you asked people before you got crazy deep in this relationship. Friends can be older but since they knew you from so young they shouldn't be partners
She fucked 50 dudes and those are her trophies. Do with that info what u will
She using you? Then she's not the one for you. Get a STD test to be safe.
Find a good friend or counselor to lean on. She's not worth it.
There are pros/cons to telling the other person, but vengeance is probably not the best reason.
Don't listen to this dickhead
If you don’t want to hang out with people who prefer comfy clothes with coverage, don’t date people who are closer to 50.
Yes tell him, and yes you can kick her out. You are not a homeless shelter.
My bad, didn’t realize.
Read it again
Wrong sub I think
Honestly, you are right this is a bigger problem than I think it is. A part of me is still blinded by the love I have for her. Everything was going well. We share location so I know she hasn't done anything else other than this. She told me she ended the LDR with that man about 2 or 3 months ago cause she felt guilty.
She said shes willing to prove anything to me that she's loyal now and wants us to work things out.
Do you think this is something I should or could work through? Is giving her another chance the wrong decision? What would you do if this happened to you?
We talked and broke up
It’s waaaaay to quick for everything you named in the post. You need time for yourself to heal. How are you going to know right from wrong if you think it’s okay to jump from an abusive relationship to lovebombing one? It’s very red flaggy that you are both behaving this way, unfortunately, I believe you told him about your past abusive relationships?
Thank you for your very informative reply i app it
When he first got with the ex that he’s still obsessed about, you were 14 years old. Math is fun.
God. This is beyond disgusting.