I’m going to go against the grain and tell you to think about giving your wife and this new baby a chance. You can always run away later a few months down the line if it doesn’t work out. You are not stuck with this baby forever like your wife is. You will always have an out, an exit.
Maybe even think about talking to your wife about these doubts.
I had cold feet with my own baby and ugly cried when I found out I was accidentally pregnant. I wasn’t even sure I wanted a baby, could have easily face the rest of my life without kids happily, but I couldn’t face abortion.
But twist of fate, I felt like such a natural mother when my baby was born and don’t regret keeping her. Though I do feel like I’m lucky in that regard. I know many struggle before and after birth when they’ve been in my situation.
Is giving them a few more months such a bad thing?
she's doing the chores pays more for your living expenses she has health issues that takes money to manage she has a partner who belittles her education and potential earning capabilities partner is a jackass who thinks he's entitled to all the support but doesnt support her partner thinks she's a gold digger when he makes less than her
You don’t have to open the door to uninvited guests
At 20 I could never have picked the child. At 40s, neither my wife nor I would ever pick each other over our children.
Perspectives change I guess.
Pocket stuff can resist the washing machine, it doesn't mean he never cleaned them
I’m going to go against the grain and tell you to think about giving your wife and this new baby a chance. You can always run away later a few months down the line if it doesn’t work out. You are not stuck with this baby forever like your wife is. You will always have an out, an exit.
Maybe even think about talking to your wife about these doubts.
I had cold feet with my own baby and ugly cried when I found out I was accidentally pregnant. I wasn’t even sure I wanted a baby, could have easily face the rest of my life without kids happily, but I couldn’t face abortion.
But twist of fate, I felt like such a natural mother when my baby was born and don’t regret keeping her. Though I do feel like I’m lucky in that regard. I know many struggle before and after birth when they’ve been in my situation.
Is giving them a few more months such a bad thing?
Yep you messed up majorly. You should never ever touch or kiss somebody without their consent. They can’t consent if they’re asleep.
everyone cares about money!
also, let's lay this out:
she's doing the chores pays more for your living expenses she has health issues that takes money to manage she has a partner who belittles her education and potential earning capabilities partner is a jackass who thinks he's entitled to all the support but doesnt support her partner thinks she's a gold digger when he makes less than her
you imbecile!