If she’s running to him every time you have a fight, yeah, that’s bad. Best case, it just looks bad and sends a bad message, so even if you give her the benefit of the doubt, she needs to own up to the fact that her behavior is counterproductive and frankly not confidence inspiring
The best thing to do is break up. The majority of the time when someone asks for an open relationship it’s because they have someone else they want to cheat with but want to do it without any guilt. If someone wants to try out other people to make sure they want to be with you its a huge red flag.
I absolutely don't want to get back with her but i told her if she needed anything important she can call me because I felt guilty that she has no one to talk to although it's not my fault.
Her parents are having problems and they're almost getting divorced and her father is out of the country but they talk.
Her sisters are all young except one that is 19 but she specifically told me not to tell her anything so that's not gonna work.
Communication is a large part of a relationship. I've been in and out through some bad ones, and rough spots. Not communicating about why this is happening, can ruin your relationship. I would recommend talking to someone about it, a therapist, maybe a good friend to help build up your confidence to talk to your partner.
Gawd! My mother's philosophy was that a house had to be clean enough to be healthy and dirty enough to be lived in. I highly recommend it to anyone who fixates on cleaning.
If she’s running to him every time you have a fight, yeah, that’s bad. Best case, it just looks bad and sends a bad message, so even if you give her the benefit of the doubt, she needs to own up to the fact that her behavior is counterproductive and frankly not confidence inspiring
The best thing to do is break up. The majority of the time when someone asks for an open relationship it’s because they have someone else they want to cheat with but want to do it without any guilt. If someone wants to try out other people to make sure they want to be with you its a huge red flag.
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I absolutely don't want to get back with her but i told her if she needed anything important she can call me because I felt guilty that she has no one to talk to although it's not my fault.
Her parents are having problems and they're almost getting divorced and her father is out of the country but they talk.
Her sisters are all young except one that is 19 but she specifically told me not to tell her anything so that's not gonna work.
My bf knows this friend really well and has been in social gatherings a lot and they seemed to get along well
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Communication is a large part of a relationship. I've been in and out through some bad ones, and rough spots. Not communicating about why this is happening, can ruin your relationship. I would recommend talking to someone about it, a therapist, maybe a good friend to help build up your confidence to talk to your partner.
Well its my wife that is in the open relationship, I havent engaged as I have been trying to right this wrong
Gawd! My mother's philosophy was that a house had to be clean enough to be healthy and dirty enough to be lived in. I highly recommend it to anyone who fixates on cleaning.