So you two engaged in a fantasy that ended your marriage and at least one of you figured it was just a fantasy and ended it. You on the other hand, haven’t really stepped out of the fantasy world have you? You still believe you love two men yet lie to both of them.
Answer this question honesty if you can. If both men knew about the other and about all the lies and cheating* you’ve done, do you really think that either of them would have anything to do with you?
It’s time to wake up and live in the real world, you aren’t going to end up with either guy and frankly that’s exactly what you deserve.
No, ask yourself what her motive is. To steal something? Avoid sex? Snoop? This is a great start to a film…
Couples' counseling is made for these types of situations.
So you two engaged in a fantasy that ended your marriage and at least one of you figured it was just a fantasy and ended it. You on the other hand, haven’t really stepped out of the fantasy world have you? You still believe you love two men yet lie to both of them.
Answer this question honesty if you can. If both men knew about the other and about all the lies and cheating* you’ve done, do you really think that either of them would have anything to do with you?
It’s time to wake up and live in the real world, you aren’t going to end up with either guy and frankly that’s exactly what you deserve.
*Emotional Affair
Ad hominem
I’m going to vote to let this guy go. He’s a leech and not likely to change.