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Make me squirt [Multi Goal]
Date: October 24, 2022
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Make me squirt [Multi Goal]
She knew you were watching her on Life360 and was calling your bluff. It’s abusive. I had 2 exes pull this with me and it’s torment. The first one who did it, i pitied him and catered to him to make it stop. Second one who did it, I gave him the benefit of the doubt the first time he tried acting out like that, so I pitied him too and was as supportive as possible. Second time the second ex tried that, I laid out his best clothes and nicest shoes and told him that’s what he’d be buried in. Never heard a word of it again.
Note: I have empathy and sympathy for actually depressed and suicidal individuals. But when someone acts that way because they’re not getting their way, it’s a manipulation tactic.
Uninstall the Life360 app or at least remove her from it. Make it clear to her that you do care, but she clearly needs help beyond your capabilities and for your own safety and sanity, that she needs to seek psychiatric help and cease all contact with you. Keep any incriminating texts she sends you for easily obtaining a no contact order through the courts.
Maybe you should give him some space and see where it leads. He is avoiding you for some immature reason….
Thinking about cps when you know ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about the situation is frankly ridiculous. Just mind your own business and stay away from him.
And if the brother was a minor the shelter would have helped him so he's more than likely over 18, in which case calling cps would be even more ridiculous.
Just because someone has an old console does not mean they're a minor, it means they're broke. Which makes complete sense since they're sharing a 1 bed and bro is going to a shelter at least some of the time. And if someone touches my xbox I'd be pissed too and I'm 40.
I think if there's smoke there often is fire or the potential for fire. It does sound strange and I agree with the many responses. There seems to be more to the story and its great you trust your SO but make sure lives not blind.
I dont think its an unreasonable expectation for someone to express love and affection to their wife and son?
I agree with you in part about my mother. She chose her circumstances and yes it was wrong for her to use me as an emotional crutch. But she was also someone who continually defended him, so it wouldn't be an accurate characterisation to say she pitted me against him.
So, I don't want to project, but I've been in a very similar situation where my fiancé's male best friend was being incredibly rude to me for no reason.
If everything between you two was as you say it was, then this is probably not about you. In my experience, my fiancé's best friend actually had an old grudge against my fiancé and was taking it out on me to try to sabotage our relationship to get back at my fiancé for a minor thing that happened YEARS ago.
I'm willing to bet there's something similar going on here, either that or your bf's friend feels like he has changed/been pulled away by you and is less accessible to him, so he's trying to manipulate your boyfriend into driving a wedge in your relationship.
Additionally, does his friend have a shitty life atm? I've also seen guys try to fuck up their friend's relationships out of jealousy when things aren't going well for them.
Tl;dr I don't think this is about you.
and he’s still your boyfriend?
Can you get in touch with anyone who knows him? IMO this is a situation where messaging a family member with “hey I need to tell your brother something important, my number is ### tell him to text me” is justified.
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The corollary is if you wanted to swim naked.
You realize that your gf is not responsible for how men or women respond to her body? anymore than you are how men or women respond to your body.
There might be more jerking off to your gf's clothed body, by men on the street, and zero sexual interest by her friends towards her.
I'm not sure why you would want to go to a strip club if it wasn't for a sexual reason.
If you terminate this pregnancy, will any doctor ever do IVF for you again?
So have you just been lying to her about wanting kids eventually?
This doesn't at all sound like a changed your mind situation. You won't even look at your nephew?
Maybe she fears the friend will change the story and blame her, like people on this post are doing
Yea I've thought about that too. I guess too I'm scared of the whole karma thing. Like I left a man for someone else who would make me feel desired and maybe blessed down there and if he cheated on me I'd feel I deserved it. Then that's another ball game. But you're right I don't even want to get undressed around him again even though he swears I'm beautiful. Like sir I can't just pretend I didn't hear what you told me. And your supposed to be my man and when I get in the “mood” i don't even think about him. You're right I think we are just wasting time. I never thought how much sex meant in a relationship until now smh
I would’ve left my bf if I saw this
Thanks man
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My main question was about how will she feel, would that damage our relationship, should I still do the paternity test?
How do you think she'll feel? She'll feel like you're accusing her of cheating on you. Because you are.
Cause the truth is us as Fathers never really know if the kid is ours unless we do a paternity test.
This is a sh'tty way to approach a partnership.
So what's the point in staying?
Leave and focus on yourself
It’s amazing how many creepy older guys manage to get involved with young women and almost straight away completely ruin it for themselves by being.. well, themselves ?. Glad to see you’ll be leaving him
VERY MANIPULATIVE! She’s “protecting” her feelings. Her feelings is entirely her problem not yours.
I agree that he has to show the motivation to overcome the anxiety issues. Support him in that cause.
As for calming him down during an anxiety attack. I would suggest that you try to remove him from what ever is causing the episode or remove it from him. Learn to read him. Most people will show signs leading up to an anxiety attack, if you can determine what is causing it then it will be easier to circumnavigate around versus dealing with the episode.
Dating is trying people out to see how they fit – after 2 months she has decided you and she don't fit romantically. She's allowed. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong.
I see the Americans have a hard time seeing that other parts of the world exist where 16 is a legal dating age. Either this story is completely made up or your girlfriend who his 18 and that is still an age where technically you’re an adult but far from it. Hogwarts legacy is not transphobic and it’s just another thing people have used to be outraged for.
Sounds like a sugar daddy/baby situation
You end the relationship is how you proceed.
An adult has to act like an adult.
That attitude won’t help her long term.
I suppose as long as I get into med school and graduate it won’t be much of a problem lol
She has 26 years of being told sex is dirty, or is only for marriage, or whatever, bouncing around in her brain. So many religions/cultures bombard women (yes, and some men) with this message. It's not fair. Until she internalizes it and believes it, she's not going to feel able to fully express herself sexually. She's already years behind in theory and practice. It's also concerning in a partnership when there is such a disparity in wants/needs, on top of awkward conversation. It just doesn't sound like she's ready for a relationship. Or will be for a while.
Honestly, I feel like it isn’t made explicitly clear he’s already in another country. Apparently, living there or staying there for a prolonged period of time. You’re fine with support being on the phone. You’re just not fine with him being on a trip. I get that, but I also think he can continue supporting you as the nature of that support is through the phone already.
People deal with grief in different ways. I understand him rationalizing this in kind of a “I’m already not there in person. I communicate through the phone. So, why not support her but just in a different setting? I already can’t be with her and that sucks. But I don’t have to be in my house miserable about it”.
I think what makes him very much an asshole is how he’s communicating to you. Now is the time to be tender and communicative. It’s an incredibly sensitive time for you.
how immature .
why didn’t you get your own plate .. and your own splotch of sauce …. like wtf .. grow up .
What is the conflict with his mom?
It sounds like you may have a fundamental conflict about where to live. You want an urban area because it would be better for your career and he wants to continue a business that he owns with his mother (who, it seems, you don't get along with).
This isn't really breaking up, its punching a “pause” button so that you can avoid dealing with that fundamental conflict.
The problem is that the conflict will continue to exist, and to hang over your heads. Its better to work out this conflict now and either fix the problem or break up than to kick it out a year.
Came here to say the first half. He probably didn’t want to move at all but saw the wife’s perspective as valid and the best thing to do for his family. Kinda feel bad for the guy.
However, it’s weird if he keeps showing up unannounced.
Yeah, I’m curious about the big picture… how does he treat you in general? Does he treat you as an equal or as a submissive partner? And, where do you live?
? The answer to your question is very obvious
I never asked for a pity party I just know my worth and know I deserve to be fulfilled in every way Currently done 1 and 2a but no improvement from him
I can tell you have been hurt before and I'm sorry for that. Someone has rejected you or cheated on you making you feel less than. Nobody deserves that. It's not my intention here I assure you.
To be straight with you, providing a home is the bare minimum a child needs. Your husband may have worked hard, but ultimately your son’s needs were not met – specifically his emotional needs. It sounds like your husband repeatedly antagonises him, and makes things worse whenever they do talk. I’m not surprised your son doesn’t want that.
You mention a couple of times about your son “holding grudges”, and I really take issue with that phrase. If someone earnestly apologises, owns up to what they’ve done wrong and change their behaviour going forward, and someone is still upset, then maybe that could be classed as holding a grudge (although depending on what they did, it might be rightfully limiting how much they keep a bad person in their life). But it sounds like neither you nor your husband have earnestly apologised, owned up to what you’ve done wrong and changed your behaviour. In fact, it’s blatant that you won’t even look your own actions in the face. It’s always your son’s fault, right? Couldn’t possibly be that he’s trying to protect himself from people who make him feel bad!!
Being a parent does not entitle you to be in your child’s life when they become an adult. It might feel like that, but you’d be wrong. Your son can make the choice never to speak to you again. If you don’t want that to happen, and you want to know your grandbaby, actually listen to what has hurt him over the years and start taking some accountability.
You and your husband are the problem. Start there.
This exactly. If she's pushing OP to get a girlfriend, it means that she already has a boyfriend/girlfriend and is looking to deflect guilt onto him. If OP gets a girlfriend, then in her mind, it justifies her behavior.
Agree with the other people's advice to get a lawyer. A divorce is tough in the short term, but it can lead to your finding someone more compatible to spend your life with.
think he should put his foot down in some way, but he basically refuses too. But because he refuses to hold his brother accountable, it's still me paying more for everything.
Why do you pay for everything? Why have you been okay so far for him not paying “his fair share”? How would your bf manage if he was single?
It’s just that the whole thing happened in the span of 15 min and we were texting for the most part, so there might not have been a clear demonstration of emotions there.
Then again, I did make it clear that I don’t appreciate that kind of behavior. I’m just not sure if it’s enough of a dealbreaker for me to end a relationship of 9 months because of a single moment.
Oh but her relationship is different because he’s changed and treats her so much better than all those other girls… ??♀️
She asks she’s planning to leave, but I’m positive he’s going to get her back. Like I said, she’s an easy target.. it’s just sad
Treat your family operations like a corporate business plan/budget. If he is operating at 40-50 work outside the house, X # of hours he parents, X# of hours he does household needs, X# of hours of his personal time. Calculate your time breakdown. Use COLA data for the work to be outsourced, nanny/babysitter/cleaner/driver/etc. illustrate the disparity in your time and costs. Then ask him how will the difference be negotiated, by him setting up to work, outside vendors, or divorce?
That is not emotional, it is numbers. Be impassive when communicating it. Use an accountant/lawyer if you need assistance. They have experience in audits and the consequences of not making change.