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Date: October 12, 2022
Every time I read one of these posts, I’m amazed. Like I get that people discover themselves over time. But how many people want to open their marriage and ope, would you look at that, I found someone I’m interested in.
Perfect union. You're going to be together, forever.
I feel stupid
I think maybe I’ll combine this with some of the other suggestions – talk about the relationship first and foremost before bringing up sex and emphasising how important it is for a happy healthy relationship.
You don't trust him. Does it really matter if you're right or wrong about whether or not he went somewhere? Please don't marry someone you don't trust. You'll both be miserable.
His edit didn’t make things look any better. The entire time I’m thinking, “have you tried talking to her??” Idk, she’s pregnant and might be being a but difficult but the way he’s writing about her makes it seem like he actually hates her. He should just tell her how he feels now so she has options to consider.
Of course you can and should attempt to fix people. throwing away partnerships at the slightest inconvenience is dumb.
Good , stable Relationships always require some work
Why are you still living with your mother? It's way past time for you to become independent and have your own place to call home.
Marry in haste, repent at leisure.
It would be better if he'd just tell you no and explain why. Not the case though. For whatever reason, he hides his feelings, maybe can't express them verbally, so he lashes out. Taking the strong arm and setting ultimatums like getting professional help I don't think would go over well with anyone though.
Why does it matter? Most, if not all, people post on social media for attention.
Why are you trying to police what he posts?
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ASAP is how, ask her to coffee with a day and time (women dislike indecisivenss), all answers that aren't a “yes” mean no.
I was thinking of this idea actually. Probably a best case scenario given the circumstances.
What matters is you are not ready. Do not tell her she is not ready, you don’t decide that. Have an honest conversation explaining your side.
I mean, she doesn’t even have to take it. No need to get to the spit it back up part.
How do you know it doesn’t create a impact on me ? & we both communicated & agreed not to watch it.
You need to find out why she cried. You can’t let her break down in tears in front of all her friends when she finds out her ex is being taken off the market.
Until you know why she was crying and you two discuss the situation in detail, you can’t really know how you should take it. You can’t let her get away with “I don’t know”. This is a much more important conversation that can’t be swept under the rug.
Can you explain why?
Context was redundant. He is exactly as gross as the title promised.
You degrade yourself further every minute that passes in a relationship with that skeezy dude.
Yes. Imagine that. I've never sat down to see what they are doing. So they have been playing multiple games at a time. My kids, I mean. I bet they let me think that so that I would feel guilty “interrupting” them. Clever chaps.
If you're not interested in being a step mother it's best to walk away.
Ahhhh thanks! I guessed completely wrong! That makes a lot of sense, and you're right it can be hard especially when you don't understand your own emotions. Communicating is hard, but being mindful in conflicts is golden.
The comments here are a disaster.
Look, I can't speak for your friends. And their comments to you are….suboptimal, shall we say?
But I can tell you that some of us are completely capable of being friends with a woman we are attracted to and would very happily jump into bed with. Sometimes dudes are pretending to be friends in hopes of getting laid. But not always. I have friendships going back decades with ladies that I would have (and sometimes did) fooled around with. It didn't mean we weren't real friends, as problem by the fact that we're still close years later, after getting married, having kids, and getting old and distinguished.
As for their comments – if you don't like how they make you feel, you are free to respond accordingly. Depending how close you are to these guys, you could have an honest conversation about it, or just distance yourself.
Regret about the past means you have grown as a person. We all regret many things in our past.
When he brings up how you had acted in the past, apologize for the mistreatment, thank him for his patience and for noticing your improvement, then compliment him for being a great husband. Also, let him know if you start returning to your old ways in even small ways to take note and help you bring it up to the doctor… meds sometimes need adjustments.
If you can, it’d be good to use this to ask yourself if there’s any emotional deficits leftover from maybe what your parents didn’t provide, their lack of emotional stability or something that you current partner DID/ does because that can go a LOOOONG way toward blinding you. Believe you me.
It could be a chance to realize that although you’re not wrong to seek to have emotional needs met, it’s NEVER worth it to settle for someone who is less than what you want where you’re having to always forgive them for wrongs to get that. It’s out there in the form of so many other good people. Just be careful not to solidify this man as the rest of your life if you’re not happy with the way it is.
How I decided to leave was picturing what my younger self always wanted and I thought ‘ my god, this is NOT it, you only have one life’. And it woke me up.