Read my words. I answered you. There is no doctor, there is no medical diagnosis, medication requires both of those things. Not everywhere in the world is fully optimized for this sort of thing. A lot of people around here simply don't try, because it's usually a lost cause.
My self esteem is fine, and I'm taking 90% of the advice in this post.
No, you really aren’t. You’re rebutting pretty much every piece of advice and arguing against it.
Your tone is increasingly defensive/aggressive “read my words” for example.
You asked a question to which you don’t want to hear the answer.
My first baby slept in a bassinet beside the bed. I would wake up throughout the night to check that he was still breathing (new parent thing I suppose). My second slept almost through the night from very early with the same situation. My 3rd child would not settle unless he was being held, which led me to co-sleep. Babies can need different amounts of bonding and cuddle time I guess is the point I was trying to make here.
There are people who do this, unfortunately, but you could be right. My dad was constantly doing this when I was a kid—would go completely silent, not talk to me at all, and a lot of the time I had no indication as to why. It lasted two weeks one time, I remember because I was really devastated and not sure what I did wrong. It was a really awful punishment as a little kid. I hope if OP genuinely doesn’t know why the silent treatment is happening (and honestly even if they do), they should leave this dumbass.
Thank you, that was very well said and very kind. I felt like I was being mean and dramatic but you've made me feel as though I'm allowed to be upset. I'm sorry if you went through something similar. Time heals all I guess.
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Collect evidence, lawyer up, good luck with the divorce.
Sorry, what year is this?
I thought it was 2023, not 1953.
He needs to realize you are bantering and giving your opinion.
If he didn’t want one, he should of stayed single-single.
Heck, Op, might as well start your exit strategy cause this guy is going to force you eventually into stereotypical women roles that are old fashion.
Read my words. I answered you. There is no doctor, there is no medical diagnosis, medication requires both of those things. Not everywhere in the world is fully optimized for this sort of thing. A lot of people around here simply don't try, because it's usually a lost cause.
My self esteem is fine, and I'm taking 90% of the advice in this post.
No, you really aren’t. You’re rebutting pretty much every piece of advice and arguing against it.
Your tone is increasingly defensive/aggressive “read my words” for example.
You asked a question to which you don’t want to hear the answer.
I hope you manage to find a way forward.
Peace.
My first baby slept in a bassinet beside the bed. I would wake up throughout the night to check that he was still breathing (new parent thing I suppose). My second slept almost through the night from very early with the same situation. My 3rd child would not settle unless he was being held, which led me to co-sleep. Babies can need different amounts of bonding and cuddle time I guess is the point I was trying to make here.
I would honestly think about ending a relationship over this.
It's an absolute batshit request and she won't stop here
Absolutely! No doubt about it!
U don’t have to insult or be mean
Ain’t a conspiracy if it’s true
I'm a guy and also agree with this 100%
There are people who do this, unfortunately, but you could be right. My dad was constantly doing this when I was a kid—would go completely silent, not talk to me at all, and a lot of the time I had no indication as to why. It lasted two weeks one time, I remember because I was really devastated and not sure what I did wrong. It was a really awful punishment as a little kid. I hope if OP genuinely doesn’t know why the silent treatment is happening (and honestly even if they do), they should leave this dumbass.
Thank you, that was very well said and very kind. I felt like I was being mean and dramatic but you've made me feel as though I'm allowed to be upset. I'm sorry if you went through something similar. Time heals all I guess.