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Stfu. It's the husband, it doesn't matter who is talking in his ear, he did it regardless. Scum should be reported and be behind bars. Marital rape is a real thing OP, sorry it happened to you but you should definitely let an authority know.
Go spend Xmas with her and her family. The day after, make sure your stuff is in the car and her parents are present. Gather them all in the living room and tell them all together that you are breaking up with her and are doing it this way because she has a tantrum and fakes migraines every time you try at home. Hand her her 30-day eviction notice and tell her she legally has the right to come back for her 30 days, but if she does, she will be sleeping on the couch and you won't speak with her, so ideally, she'll stay away.
THEN GET IN YOUR CAR AND DRIVE! Do not wait around for a reaction; just go. Let her make her own way back and in the meantime, lock up all your valuables in a room with a new lock she doesn't have a key to. Also warn your local police station that there might be a domestic incident in the next 30 days and BE SPECIFIC about what you think she might do.
Other good ideas:
Prepare in advance by ordering cameras for the house and write down in a note that the house will have cameras when she comes back. Give her the note. Invite a friend or relative, preferably female, to stay with you for the month, so you have a buffer and a witness. Send your dog to stay with family/friends for the month.
You’re allowed to break up with your boyfriend. He can tell you no all he wants, but his opinion doesn’t matter. He can’t force you to stay with him. If he respected you, he would be supportive, even if it hurts.
Tell him that you are taking a break and that you need to focus on you right now and that you’re sorry if that hurts him, but right now, this is what’s best for you. Tell him that this is not a negotiation and that as soon as this conversation is over, you are going to block him and then do that.
If after you get back on your feet things work out, get back together. I have a feeling that won’t happen because his reaction to you asking for space showed that he’s more concerned with his own feelings than yours.
Well today I feel like a lunatic to be honest. I’m Never taking to her again. I’m seriously so done right now. I’ve appreciated everyone’s comments so much. I know I have made mistakes and I think it’s time I corrected them.
Your wife is in deep with her family. Unbelievable that she doesn’t see that her Father is the problem. She has been programmed to be Daddy’s little girl all her life. Tough habit to break.
“Even if I’m wrong I’m right” that’s a person that has to be right at all times. She may have some of FIL’s traits in wanting to be in charge and obeyed.
You definitely need more sessions at the therapist office. Good Luck OP.
He will have to sort it out and decide if he wants to be with someone who isolates him from friends and forces him to drop old friendships or not.
Sometimes it helps if the partner gets to know you better. But if she is insecure and has trust issues, that's a her problem she will need to solve, and he will have to talk to her about it.
There will likely be times in your married lives when y’all are unable to have sex for various reasons. Illness, schedules, privacy, etc. Especially if you want kids. This is how he treats you when he’s not getting sex. Do you want to be dealing with his horny temper tantrums when you’re trying to heal from childbirth and take care of a newborn?
We did change the passwords and reset the hue bridge as well as reset all the accounts and still he has “ seen activity “ when we were not using them ??♀️
Seems fishy that she just wants you to forget it. Pretty sure any sane woman would be upset about enough to burn bridges or even report it to the police. I'd be sussy…
To put it into perspective, I've seen women burn friendships for MUCH LESS.
He probably wasn’t sure about you since it took so long to ask you out (assuming he is the one that did), then panicked as the time got closer to actually go out and decided to just ignore you rather than face the problem. Girls do it too, I’ve been stood up a few times on hinge without any notice. Don’t take it personally, ghosting is just part of online dating culture.
Probably. I doesn't feel safe not knowing what he wants and I absolutely deserve to know if he wants different things. Now he is just acting like a child and running from a conversation. That's all.
I can’t though. I love him with everything I am. I do consider it cheating and I have told him that before. He makes me feel worthless when he does that shit. But I can’t base our relationship on the sexual aspect. I don’t want to leave him. I just want things to get better
So if your partner needs help, a reasonable solution to you is not “let’s get you mental health help,” but “dance like a monkey to keep me entertained”? Fuck’s sake.
Your being alone for so long is making you act in ways that will appear to be dishonest, manipulative and toxic.
Obviously reality is at times subjective, but you sound exactly like every other guy who wishes their SO was skinnier but know they can't just say that out loud in public.
So it isn't about her appearance it is about her “health” and if we don't agree with your narrative, then you have told us to keep our mouths shut.
If you are unhappy in your relationship or with your SO. The answer isn't trying to change them or yourself. It's to find another SO. That this is your first relationship makes it feel like it is all or nothing with her, and you are forcing the issue of the relationship.
Yeah, that edit wasn’t there when I initially commented. Regardless, maybe someone else needs a little push to get help. If therapy is available, I say use it
You can always stop having sex with him and have sex with someone who's not this bad at it instead. A few months of bad performance can be worked with. A few years is pretty inexcusable.
If you don't want to go that far, you can talk with him about where his limits are and about you guiding what's happening to ensure you're into it. My husband is a good, thoughtful dude, but even he had some bad sex habits that we had to break at the beginning. But it's no big deal because he's not offended if I stop him to readjust for my comfort. Even now, if he's doing something that's not good for me, I'll guide his hands to something better or shift positions so he's actually hitting what he's aiming for, and we both win. Remember you're an active participant here, not a sex toy, and you can stop or alter the activity at any time. Next time he tries to just stick it in, stop him and tell him foreplay first. If he refuses, get dressed and leave. You do not have to have sex with him and it shouldn't feel like a chore.
Stfu. It's the husband, it doesn't matter who is talking in his ear, he did it regardless. Scum should be reported and be behind bars. Marital rape is a real thing OP, sorry it happened to you but you should definitely let an authority know.
Go spend Xmas with her and her family. The day after, make sure your stuff is in the car and her parents are present. Gather them all in the living room and tell them all together that you are breaking up with her and are doing it this way because she has a tantrum and fakes migraines every time you try at home. Hand her her 30-day eviction notice and tell her she legally has the right to come back for her 30 days, but if she does, she will be sleeping on the couch and you won't speak with her, so ideally, she'll stay away.
THEN GET IN YOUR CAR AND DRIVE! Do not wait around for a reaction; just go. Let her make her own way back and in the meantime, lock up all your valuables in a room with a new lock she doesn't have a key to. Also warn your local police station that there might be a domestic incident in the next 30 days and BE SPECIFIC about what you think she might do.
Other good ideas:
Prepare in advance by ordering cameras for the house and write down in a note that the house will have cameras when she comes back. Give her the note. Invite a friend or relative, preferably female, to stay with you for the month, so you have a buffer and a witness. Send your dog to stay with family/friends for the month.
You’re allowed to break up with your boyfriend. He can tell you no all he wants, but his opinion doesn’t matter. He can’t force you to stay with him. If he respected you, he would be supportive, even if it hurts.
Tell him that you are taking a break and that you need to focus on you right now and that you’re sorry if that hurts him, but right now, this is what’s best for you. Tell him that this is not a negotiation and that as soon as this conversation is over, you are going to block him and then do that.
If after you get back on your feet things work out, get back together. I have a feeling that won’t happen because his reaction to you asking for space showed that he’s more concerned with his own feelings than yours.
Well today I feel like a lunatic to be honest. I’m Never taking to her again. I’m seriously so done right now. I’ve appreciated everyone’s comments so much. I know I have made mistakes and I think it’s time I corrected them.
wrong subreddit
Agreed
Ah, yeah that does make it more rough. I'd suggest to ask if she can be clear now that you're more clear headed
I bet this is a fake post
Late not laye
Your wife is in deep with her family. Unbelievable that she doesn’t see that her Father is the problem. She has been programmed to be Daddy’s little girl all her life. Tough habit to break.
“Even if I’m wrong I’m right” that’s a person that has to be right at all times. She may have some of FIL’s traits in wanting to be in charge and obeyed.
You definitely need more sessions at the therapist office. Good Luck OP.
He will have to sort it out and decide if he wants to be with someone who isolates him from friends and forces him to drop old friendships or not.
Sometimes it helps if the partner gets to know you better. But if she is insecure and has trust issues, that's a her problem she will need to solve, and he will have to talk to her about it.
Heavy disagree. It’s not a red flag to want a kind partner and I refuse to be expected to tolerate disrespect in the name of boundaries
Yeah.
There will likely be times in your married lives when y’all are unable to have sex for various reasons. Illness, schedules, privacy, etc. Especially if you want kids. This is how he treats you when he’s not getting sex. Do you want to be dealing with his horny temper tantrums when you’re trying to heal from childbirth and take care of a newborn?
We did change the passwords and reset the hue bridge as well as reset all the accounts and still he has “ seen activity “ when we were not using them ??♀️
It's not controlling, it's a legitimate concern as it should be.
Unfortunately, you can't make her understand something she doesn't want to.
This is moving into intervention or ultimatum territory, because you cannot go on like this nor should you.
You can't force her to stop if she doesn't want to, but you're not required to stay.
Seems fishy that she just wants you to forget it. Pretty sure any sane woman would be upset about enough to burn bridges or even report it to the police. I'd be sussy…
To put it into perspective, I've seen women burn friendships for MUCH LESS.
He probably wasn’t sure about you since it took so long to ask you out (assuming he is the one that did), then panicked as the time got closer to actually go out and decided to just ignore you rather than face the problem. Girls do it too, I’ve been stood up a few times on hinge without any notice. Don’t take it personally, ghosting is just part of online dating culture.
Go do your masters. If you don't, you're gonna regret it.
“Abusive” I’m trying to stop this girl from becoming an alcoholic
Probably. I doesn't feel safe not knowing what he wants and I absolutely deserve to know if he wants different things. Now he is just acting like a child and running from a conversation. That's all.
I can’t though. I love him with everything I am. I do consider it cheating and I have told him that before. He makes me feel worthless when he does that shit. But I can’t base our relationship on the sexual aspect. I don’t want to leave him. I just want things to get better
So if your partner needs help, a reasonable solution to you is not “let’s get you mental health help,” but “dance like a monkey to keep me entertained”? Fuck’s sake.
But they in love and have a great relationship. Violence, drug abuse, and all.
Why can't you get a place for just the two of you?
Your being alone for so long is making you act in ways that will appear to be dishonest, manipulative and toxic.
Obviously reality is at times subjective, but you sound exactly like every other guy who wishes their SO was skinnier but know they can't just say that out loud in public.
So it isn't about her appearance it is about her “health” and if we don't agree with your narrative, then you have told us to keep our mouths shut.
If you are unhappy in your relationship or with your SO. The answer isn't trying to change them or yourself. It's to find another SO. That this is your first relationship makes it feel like it is all or nothing with her, and you are forcing the issue of the relationship.
I'm sorry I didn't know you happen to know every trans person on earth
Agree, this feel like fiction.
Add the divorce papers to the end of the list.
Yeah they pretty much think we're ungrateful and I can't change their minds about it
Yeah, that edit wasn’t there when I initially commented. Regardless, maybe someone else needs a little push to get help. If therapy is available, I say use it
Myself.
Your admiration and respect. Ahahahahaha.
I mean. Ok. I admirehow he’s managed to leverage his unemployed broke depressed squalor-loving ass into getting you to be his mom?
Like. Kinda respectthe audacity I guess?
So what do you think I should do?
You can always stop having sex with him and have sex with someone who's not this bad at it instead. A few months of bad performance can be worked with. A few years is pretty inexcusable.
If you don't want to go that far, you can talk with him about where his limits are and about you guiding what's happening to ensure you're into it. My husband is a good, thoughtful dude, but even he had some bad sex habits that we had to break at the beginning. But it's no big deal because he's not offended if I stop him to readjust for my comfort. Even now, if he's doing something that's not good for me, I'll guide his hands to something better or shift positions so he's actually hitting what he's aiming for, and we both win. Remember you're an active participant here, not a sex toy, and you can stop or alter the activity at any time. Next time he tries to just stick it in, stop him and tell him foreplay first. If he refuses, get dressed and leave. You do not have to have sex with him and it shouldn't feel like a chore.