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Birth Date: 1990-04-22
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Date: October 15, 2022
based on a lot of posts on this sub: yes, men often feel threatened/insecure by vibrators lmao. the degree ranges but generally yea. you should have an open conversation with ur guy about it so he can understand why its normal and even good for both of you
I don't need a boob job but diamonds would be nice
No we got together when I was 18.but I see where your coming from my parents hate her
My parents don't know about him because l'm from india. Being in a relationship outside marriage is still a big deal for some conservative people here. I wanted to know he's sure about me before i tell my parents about him. His parents don't know either. My sister and my cousins know and have hung out with him on several occasions. His cousins know too.
I’d call your local Adult Protective Services for advice and support.
We both understand that communication is key. I simply wanted to check in and get others' opinions about the age gap. I feel I have a good understanding of the effects my older age could have, and I'll be sure to keep an eye on it. I have no interest in overstepping because it's a contributing factor to my parent's failed marriage. Thanks for the input!
I mean, the fact that your partner has full-on TRAUMA around giving oral, and you still see your desire for that particular form of sexual satisfaction as a higher priority than wanting her to feel safe in your sexual interactions, is just a huge yikes to me from the get-go. It speaks to a pretty high degree of selfishness and immaturity. There are lots of other ways to get off that won't cause her trauma, and you're still trying to figure out how to get the one that you know WILL . . .
I have addressed my physical needs to her,
Okay, but this ISN'T a “physical need”. It's just a want. It's something you really enjoy. It isn't anything remotely approaching a need.
You're nearly 30 years old; time for you to do some introspection about the kind of partner you are, and why you would WANT your partner to feel unsafe just so you can get off this specific way. I really love a lot of indulgences, but I could live the rest of my life without pretty much any of them if I knew that they made the person I love feel dehumanised and maybe caused her flashbacks to something terrible that had happened to her.
And honestly? If you actually see this as even potentially a dealbreaker? Please break up with her whether you move or not. She's not a sex toy, she's a human being. And if “sucking dick” is something you're more concerned about than retraumatising a human being you're supposed to care about, then she deserves way better.
I became a type 1 diabetic last year, which is arguably worse, as I’m completely insulin dependent. It’s not diet related in my case, it’s just my pancreas doesn’t make insulin anymore. It was a result of cancer treatment.
I completely take care of myself. I work out 6x a week. I eat healthy. I take care of a dog. It seems like your girlfriend is extremely poorly controlled, which means she isn’t following the proper diet and exercise and medication protocol for type 2s. I’m not sure what exactly she expects you to do for her? She’s capable of taking care of herself and it sounds like she’s choosing not to.
It’s reasonable of you to not want to continue to enable her to not control her diabetes and play caretaker to someone that isn’t willing to help themselves. The issue here isn’t diabetes but that she is just letting herself go and not making the necessary changes to live her life normally again. She can find a diabetes educator to meet with weekly to help her get her diet under control so she doesn’t feel so terrible running high sugar all the time. But if she’s not willing to do the work, this won’t improve. I personally wouldn’t be with someone who didn’t care enough to take care of themselves. This isn’t like you’re leaving someone in cancer treatment, this is a choice she’s making to let herself go. Managing my diabetes as a T1 is a ton of work, but you just have to do it.