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Date: October 18, 2022
I don’t want to speak into your echo chamber, however, the fact that someone places more value on someone’s age than who they are/ if they’re attracted to them, is a little iffy. I wouldn’t break up with him just yet because people make mistakes. I used to only put people with graduate degrees on my profiles but I met my bf irl and he doesn’t work at an office and I think he’s the best. So my advice is be aware and cautious
Why is he still with you?!? You sound like an entitled brat & I would RUN FAR FAR AWAY from you… That apartment is GONE. Get over it. You do not have children with him & even if you did it still wouldn't make you entitled to that home. Especially with a prenup. It would be his & once he realizes how entitled you are you would lose it all over again. Grow up…
Cold, your GF's strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing you), frequently making you feel like you're “walking on eggshells.” Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
Cold, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
Unfortunately my love language is touch or emotional. Doesn’t have to be sexual in any way shape or form. I have reassured her I wouldn’t even try to hold her hand if it meant I could just spend some time with her… whether alone or in a group if that made her more comfortable. I offered to go running or go to the gym with her and she explained that is her personal get away. So I understand and won’t force it. I offered to go hiking or to go to the park since she loves nature, and she keeps saying that she’s busy. I know she’s afraid to completely open up due to her past relationships, and I would never force it. Just any communication or help would be greatly appreciated from my end.