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Date: December 18, 2022
Thank you so much for this response.
To address a couple of your points, she doesn't threaten to break up to get something out of me, she has said she wanted to break up because she thinks she is hurting me and thinks it is for my benefit. I've always stopped it because the idea of leaving makes me too sad. And every time, she says she is glad I fought against it, and when I don't fight as hard against her saying we should break up, she gets upset.
For her, therapy is absolutely not an option. She went through an abusive relationship and strongly opposed going to therapy, and is refusing it now for some mental health issues. She was not happy the last time I brought up the possibility.
She cannot afford her own car as she is still in school, which is why I drive her when she stays over. She gets pretty upset when we are not able to sleep together because she says she is not able to get a good night's sleep without me.
This is my first relationship, so I've never been through this, and it honestly makes me very nervous that I might make a decision I will regret.
Sounds like the beginning of the plot of getting you out of the house. I have no advice that other redditors didn't give already, but watch out man. A nice, new house for themselves is worth ruining a relationship indefinitely for some people.
Simple mate.
Just tell her that you guys shared a moment, she didn’t feel it was important and did what she did so you’re moving on. That’s not how you get down.
And then move on.
Coming from a veteran, if your partner doesn’t want a LDR it’s not going to work out. I’d just enjoy what you guys can give each other and if that’s too hard, it’s best for both of you to go your separate ways.
Make a list of every other relationship you have ever had, friends, family. Then start listing every good thing about every single one of them. Eventually you will stop thinking about her so much.
Dude sounds emotionally stunted. A lot of guys have firm emotional boundaries they've just been raised with. If you're not feeling it I'd just end things.
His sisters boyfriends dad was constantly surrounded by his family.
Bitches be like ???♀️but are genuinely evil
I guarantee that “ten percent” is literally just her acknowledging she might change her mind in the future and leaving her options open in case a kid she knows is left orphaned or something. She has not ever wanted kids.
OP, please, PLEASE look at this objectively. He has strategically cut you off from nearly every conceivable resource that could help you escape this hellhole of a marriage (AND, he has given you 3 children, which I’m almost certain he uses as extra leverage to keep you around: i.e. ‘you would seriously hurt our children by breaking up their home/family??’)
Money is a resource that could help you leave. Yet despite the fact that you work more hours than he does, he makes you deposit your paycheck into his account, and he would ‘blow a blood vessel’ if you stopped doing that.
Friends are a resource that could help/encourage you to leave. Yet he infantilizes the idea of having connections with anyone other than him. This is by design. His intent is to keep you close to/dependent on/influenced ONLY by him.
Self confidence and a strong belief that YOU ARE INHERENTLY WORTHY is a resource that could empower you to leave. Yet he has (for YEARS) beaten you down, picked you apart, and made you feel less-than. He has systematically stripped away your self worth so that you have to turn to HIM for any scraps of validation. And I’d be willing to bet my right arm that those insults are mixed in with the rare but valuable ‘compliments’, so as to pull your mind to the thought of ‘well, sometimes he’s kind and loving, maybe if I just work harder, I’ll get to see this side of him more often’.
You have three children. I have no idea their gender, but it doesn’t matter. In their home, they are learning by EXAMPLE how relationships work. If you have boys, is this what you want then to model themselves after once they become husbands?? If you have girls, is this what you want them to think they have to put up with from their husbands? Regardless of their genders, IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT TO SHOW THEM LOVE IS??
Sweetheart, you and your babies deserve MORE. So much more. There are resources available that can help you break free from him so that y’all can have the more you deserve. Seek them out. Not next week, or next year; not at some ‘milestone’ that you think would be easier for y’all, do it NOW.
Please.
So what's the point of posting here, you're not going to hear anything new.
Regardless of what to label this. Your wife is emotionally abusing you. And I don’t agree with the comments saying it’s just anxiety. I think that’s people down playing it because ya’ll are women. Which is incredibly common in queer relationships. If this was a man doing this to you, people wouldn’t be excusing it.
In a small family wedding of 30 people?