are you sure you have the exclusive talk with the exclusive word, because anything else was obviously misinterpreted by her as she can do what she wants.
Stop hanging out with her and move on. Thinks feel so important at your age but you will look back on it all in 10 years time and realise it wasn’t that big at all. The world is your oyster so pick yourself up, brush yourself off and get out there!
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You might not consider him a long term partner but your wife does if she is coming up on two years of dating him. Plus he is around enough for your daughter to call him uncle. How much longer before she calls him Dad or Daddy?
I mean it sounds like you might have OCD and def talk to both about it. As far as toys go…I’m sorta hesitant to make a rec but if you’re worried your husband with be self conscious, maybe start with a smaller vibratory and ease into more intense ones?
They got married at 18 so practically the whole time they weren’t adults. I wonder what kind of jealousy there was during high school. Maybe she misses glaring other hs girls down over her bf lol
Sure, both were legally adults but physiologically it is a known fact that the human brain is basically adolescent until about the age of 25. And based on some 25 to 30 year olds I've known, it can be much later!
So basically everyone was too hungover and assumed they would be the only no show? Are they usually this unreliable a group or do you feel personally rejected?
I don’t mean to be harsh but people really need to grow a backbone for themselves. Why would you agree to it when you don’t even want it? That’s not healthy. You don’t want to do it and he doesn’t need to force you into that. It’s weird
are you sure you have the exclusive talk with the exclusive word, because anything else was obviously misinterpreted by her as she can do what she wants.
What do you do? Come up with a better story next time.
you know what. True. Being so clingy has to be one of my worst qualities
Stop hanging out with her and move on. Thinks feel so important at your age but you will look back on it all in 10 years time and realise it wasn’t that big at all. The world is your oyster so pick yourself up, brush yourself off and get out there!
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You blew it. Missed your window. Respect his decision.
I'm a “fucking joke?” No just married for 22 years and I know what “hill to die on” Good luck.
At least that refutes your husband’s “you left your edibles out” nonsense.
It feels like OP is testing to see what he could potentially trickle truth to his wife.
You might not consider him a long term partner but your wife does if she is coming up on two years of dating him. Plus he is around enough for your daughter to call him uncle. How much longer before she calls him Dad or Daddy?
True!!
I mean it sounds like you might have OCD and def talk to both about it. As far as toys go…I’m sorta hesitant to make a rec but if you’re worried your husband with be self conscious, maybe start with a smaller vibratory and ease into more intense ones?
They got married at 18 so practically the whole time they weren’t adults. I wonder what kind of jealousy there was during high school. Maybe she misses glaring other hs girls down over her bf lol
Sure, both were legally adults but physiologically it is a known fact that the human brain is basically adolescent until about the age of 25. And based on some 25 to 30 year olds I've known, it can be much later!
So basically everyone was too hungover and assumed they would be the only no show? Are they usually this unreliable a group or do you feel personally rejected?
I don’t mean to be harsh but people really need to grow a backbone for themselves. Why would you agree to it when you don’t even want it? That’s not healthy. You don’t want to do it and he doesn’t need to force you into that. It’s weird