Are you prepared to get shot next time he loses his shit? Because if you stay, there's two ways it can go: he just continues to threaten you with the shotgun, or he actually shoots you.
Is your relationship really worth you possibly fucking dying because he's mad about dirty dishes and laundry?
Let him know he wouldn’t be able to live anywhere rent free. You also have traumas but you have a job. If he gets a job, he can afford to get professional help with his trauma while contributing to the household. You are his partner, not his parent and you have to make that clear.
You're still a shitty person, playing two guys because you're thinking with your snatch and refusing to show any decency.
You're not being accountable. Being accountable would be telling both guys you're a disloyal cheater and letting them decide, with all the facts, whether they want anything to do with you.
Your insistence that you're somehow not responsible for your actions is pathetic. If your impulse control is so poor that you think you can't be held responsible for your actions, you need therapy and to stay away from people you might hurt until you've been stabilised.
Hmmm… ha ha low IQ responses?? Let me guess, you value male opinions more, correct? I was going to give constructive advice, but it’s not worth it.
Are you prepared to get shot next time he loses his shit? Because if you stay, there's two ways it can go: he just continues to threaten you with the shotgun, or he actually shoots you.
Is your relationship really worth you possibly fucking dying because he's mad about dirty dishes and laundry?
Your health and safety are more important.
That’s a decision to be made on a family by family basis. There is no “best” answer.
Let him know he wouldn’t be able to live anywhere rent free. You also have traumas but you have a job. If he gets a job, he can afford to get professional help with his trauma while contributing to the household. You are his partner, not his parent and you have to make that clear.
Ask her to go doctor, being too tired means maybe there’s a health issue
Reddit gives me less and less hope almost daily as to why its better to just be single because wtf is this???
You're still a shitty person, playing two guys because you're thinking with your snatch and refusing to show any decency.
You're not being accountable. Being accountable would be telling both guys you're a disloyal cheater and letting them decide, with all the facts, whether they want anything to do with you.
Your insistence that you're somehow not responsible for your actions is pathetic. If your impulse control is so poor that you think you can't be held responsible for your actions, you need therapy and to stay away from people you might hurt until you've been stabilised.