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To me the most mature thing would be to try work things out and raise our daughter together
No, the most mature thing is for you to stop being used by this woman. If she starts to pretend she wants to work it out, it's because she thinks you've rumbled her.
What life will your daughter have, what lessons are you showing her, if you allow her mother to use you like this?
She is manipulating you and using your love for your daughter to do it.
This sounds a bit familiar.
With my ex she was only into missionary and had a higher sex drive than me, honestly it just made it a chore I'd ended up dreading.
She kept bringing up she wanted more which just made me feel pressured, nagged and like I was being used. It compounded the issues more than anything.
You seemingly minimising his reasons like not wanting sex while you're on your period is a big red flag!
If it's like my old relationship you're just not compatible and should split, if you want to stay together I'd try not mentioning it for a bit and just start trying to mix it up a bit on the occasions sex does happen, nothing kills a boner faster than being talked at and blamed.
Definitely talk to him about it beforehand because this situation could go bad without communication. Also when I have gone a long time without sex, the next first time I do it can start off painful, so best make sure he knows to ease into it first, to pretty much treat your vagina like a virgin one just for safety yknow.
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Sometimes you just have to be honest – this is your house, not his, and it’s ok for you to put your foot down and say she is never moving back in to your home.
It is probably going to disadvantage you in some ways by directly pitting New Wife vs Biological Child, but you deserve to be heard and you also have the casting vote considering the house is yours solely and is not a shared asset.
Do not join yourself legally with this person. If you want to keep dating and seeing if things get better than fine but….making a lifelong lasting commitment with vast financial implications….just no.
I’ve been with my husband for 5 years and we had a bad fight at the start of dating where we broke up. I told him I hated him. I told my best friend and she called me on how awful that is to say and pushed me to apologize (even if we didn’t get back together). And that was ONCE. I couldn’t imagine saying things like that over and over to someone I truly love.
Please check out r/BPDLovedOnes – you may recognize some of the stories.
Move out, now! And please, don't eat or drink anything that was already open or that he cooked. And buy a new toothbrush!
This is what I wanna know too. If for some awful reason, I had to live in my own Mother's hoarder house, I wouldn't expect anyone else who moved into it with me to be the ones to manage that hellscape.
To me, it seems likely she was expecting more from him than she was her own mother.
I don’t blame you for being concerned. This could be a lifetime of medical/emotional issues. I would definitely talk to her about it before you think about getting engaged. Just tell her you are concerned.
When I was 30, I would not have been remotely interested in a 22yo man. Even 25 would have been pushing it. I don't think I was in the minority of 30yo women with that.
When they were taking care of your cats, did they go through your personal, off-limits stuff and think you were swingers or something?
Or does she somehow think you are having an affair with her husband and this was her way of calling you on it?
I definitely don’t want to hurt her, but at the same time this is a subject I particularly have a hard time conceding to.
It would be a turnoff for me. She’s an adult woman with her own money, if she wants to treat you or pay her own way she should go ahead and do so. The idea that it hurts your pride for her to…be an adult, basically, seems regressive and sexist.
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Thank you. Luckily, we don't have children but if we did I wouldn't even consider negotiating. If we had a child and she even so much as mentioned talking to him I'd be filing for full custody.
That sounds like a plan. Would your wife be open to couples counseling? Maybe it would help when she can’t just shut down.
I still see a problem in your wife’s family even if you get to her. These poor girls are in danger as long as this man has access to them.
One of my core values is women’s rights
And he doesn't believe in women's rights.
I'm confused why you are still in a relationship with someone who is totally against your “core values.” It seems pretty straight-forward to me. I'm not really what advice you are seeking.
Looks like guy who literally shames people for being sad has too lol☠️
Are you receiving treatment to prevent this happening in the future?
how on Earth does this dumbass take have 10000 upvotes?????
Next time do the opposite of everything you did here. Nothing annoys me more than people who think I’m bluffing when I say something then act surprised when I follow through
You two are toxic together. If you can get in touch either personally with a center or through a hotline to a abuse/violence hotline and figure out the best steps you have to take where you are to get out safely.
Laws and resources change depending on where you are, they will tell you what to do. Tell them you want to get out and ask them how to do so with as much safety for all people concerned as possible.
(Whether it entails calling the police, setting up restraining orders, documenting what you are going through etc.)
Try going to therapy if you can afford it
Then why are you defending someone comparing the two?
Op, I am so, so sorry you’re going through this. Your husband is being unbelievably cruel and he’s doing it at such a vulnerable time. I wish I could give you a hug. You don’t deserve to be treated like this.
He definitely shouldn’t be in the room. But I’d recommend having at least one friend or family member there with you, if you can. You’re much better off with someone who can support you and advocate for you if necessary. Clearly that person isn’t your husband.
If you’re not comfortable telling them the details, you don’t have to. You can be vague. Just say he can’t be in the room and you’d like support. But I bet your mom or a friend would gladly help you through the birth, and you can confide in them when or if you’re ready later.
Focus for now on giving birth and recovering. Once you’re up for it, see a divorce lawyer or a couples counselor. You don’t need to decide that now. Maybe missing his child’s birth will be enough of a wake up call to whip him into shape. I’m not sure that I could ever get over those kinds of comments, but I’m not you and you get to decide this for yourself. If you do stay with him, I’d definitely insist on both individual therapy for him and couples therapy. His misogynistic attitude will rub off on your children unless he makes big changes. If his friends contributed to this attitude, he needs to cut them out.
Best of luck to you. Congratulations on your new baby. You and your children will make it through this all okay. Surround yourself with people who love you and aren’t such massive assholes as your husband.
I'm not rich. I do live a comfortable lifestyle that's in line with my income though. She is financially better off than I am.
We did get together rather quickly after her previous relationship, I admit. He seemed to be out of the picture for a number of months, and she seemed happy and relieved that it had ended during that time.
Probably could have waited longer.
Definitely, if he loves her as much as he says consider not getting legally married, have a ceremony with your closest friends and family and wear rings. Then his credit wouldn’t be affected
Which is almost worse if your think about it. Way to disrespect someone you call a friend, eh?
You really need to be discussing this with him. If you can’t communicate now what does your future together hold.
You are wrong. You are in fact dead wrong. Do not comment when you do not know what you are talking about. Hangar is slang for vagina….. Maybe know what you are talking about before you make a stupid ass of yourself you fucking keyboard warrior.