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Date: October 24, 2022
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You were a sugar daddy who was being lied to about a relationship
You are not insane at all for bringing that up, it’s the best example of a completely realistic situation where you might depend on him financially. He has to realize his single years are over. You two are already your own family.
“willing to forgo it”
Don't talk like a book villain.
Absolutely tell him. He deserves to know.
Any relationship after the breakup needs to be based on honesty, truth, trust, decency, honor, respect, and maturity.
None of which you possess.
Sounds like he is not just insecure, but misogynistic. He hates that you are successful and do well for yourself, and cannot be with a successful woman. I think that explains why they tried to sabotage you and got excited if things went bad for you.
You should put on any custody agreement that she cannot be around your kid or be involved in any “parenting” (cannot go to school events, etc.). You should consult with your lawyer, but there are rules that can be added about your kid meeting new people or new partners.
Why are you married to someone you can’t trust….? ill never understand people who marry and stay married to people they don’t trust. You are being controlling. And if he’s cheated before then he’s a piece of shit.
I appreciate you saying all of this. I am actively trying to reflect on if she has merit when she called me cheap. I feel like I have taken her on dates at least 1-2 times per month (its tough because I work Wed – Sunday and she works M-F and has to put her son to bed at 830 every night). I am unable to recall the last time we went out and she paid for my meal. I can't recall the last time she made a date night for us. I feel like she is gaslighting me and its hard because I know she is 99% of the time very accurate in her memory while my memory is not. But when I ask her for clarification or examples she says “this is ridiculous I have already told you numerous times”. I'm just hurting badly. No deep seeded issue at hand, I just don't have a lot of money.
Yeah, I understand. I guess she'll reach out if she needs to talk. I hear that. Although I swear my instincts are wired incorrectly sometimes. Haha.
Thank you, and I'm rooting for you too. It's really becoming harder and harder to find people to not waste your time and energy on.
Grow a spine and just ask if she had anyone over while you were gone. Don’t specify gender, or anything. Give her the opportunity to tell you what happened and maybe it’s fine. If she says she didn’t bring anyone over then mention what your neighbor said. Watch her reaction. If she panics then you know what you need to know.
There’s a possibility she went out with friends and had some friends get freaky on your furniture a few times. Maybe she went out of town and let someone else crash there. She probably is cheating on you, but you never know. You’ll also never know unless you ask.
If it turns out she’s been boning other people, do you really want to see it? Do you really need evidence? This is already killing you with stress. Just break the fucking seal.
Um you need therapy fs. Not sure how you look pregnant when you don’t even eat? Do you have gut issues? I would 100% leave him he sounds creepy. Also, You should go to the gym instead of not eating. I try to eat 2000 calories a day and workout and I’m skinny, you can be like this too. Not eating is only ruining your metabolism.
My question for you is why would you? People do inquire at some point about what their lives were like before they met, but why say it now just out of the blue?
Previous sex partners and sex lives are always major no's in a relationship. There is absolutely no reason for anyone to bring it up or talk about it.
My advice is leave it alone, unless he mentions anything about your sex life before him, which again any mature adult doesn't do, then it's your discretion if you want to disclose.
Why do you believe this is what you deserve?