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Date: October 16, 2022
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A lot of guys are like this. It probably won't change until you're much older. You need a woman who understands that your commitment to her is about honor, not desire. I just hope she gets it, because many women don't.
Move on
We talked about this, too, because I was afraid of that as well. I don’t ever want to create that kind of environment for us, so I asked him that as well. He also expects me to not smoke or not watch porn (not that I’ve ever had an issue with doing either), so it wasn’t that this was a standard that I set up myself solely for him. He told me he had a past history of having to lie to get out of things, and it’s something he has a hard time shaking I suppose. He also just has a lot of guilt and told me he was afraid I’d leave if I knew some of these things. I’ve never hinted towards that at all, but I also know he was in a very toxic relationship prior to us getting together.
He truly isn’t a bad guy, and is normally a very good and loving partner. It’s just the lying that has sucked.
Oh wait, I just remembered something. Look up “unfuck your habitat”. It’s a book but the website has a bunch of free content. I keep meaning to go back and get more into it but I keep procrastinating lol.
I wouldn't sit here and suggest that your therapist is wrong, but I think it's pretty clear what you want, and also what he wants.
Now, his response might be out of self preservation given everything else, but therein lies the problem; the two of you have just struggled to make it work. He also refuses to give you a legitimate answer regarding what he wants.
So can you just lay it all out? Sure. You have nothing to lose. But if you're here worried about healing processes, then what's the point of telling him how you feel? That doesn't make sense.
I usually say 50/50 and no offense to your bf but this is insane!
This is going to bleed you dry while he can save money. If he wants to be fair he has to pay more or get a cheaper place. I’m sorry but it seems pretty inconsiderate of him as that is a huge salary gap
I didn't mean to be hard on whether the feelings are yours or not. I think both you and your partner has been through some rough times, and having feelings is entirely understandable. I'm not blaming you. I was just questioning where they come from in this scenario.
You did mention some episodes where your brother was being very rude, but after that you talked about how he has stopped being rude directly, and remains silent instead of aggressive in the face of disagreement. For instance. I got the impression that your brother has stopped being directly rude, though he does have some of the doubts or disagreement on the inside. I understand that can feel alienating, but I also think trying to push the issue will tend to make people defensive and put up walls. I also think that people need to be allowed to have their opinions on the inside, as long as they remain respectful towards other people. Even when their opinions are hurtful or goes against our own values. As long as they don't act in ways that hurt people, I think people are entitled to their opinions. And my experience in life is that people will become more open toward each other that way, rather than being pushed into adapting the values of others. Or being forced to display outward behavior that doesn't align with what's on the inside.
Now maybe your brother is more overtly aggressive and passive aggressive in a way that is hard to ignore. But if he's only being a bit weird around you, that might be his way of trying to accept something that goes against what he feels is a core value. He's trying to reconcile something that maybe a lot of people he knows tells him is bad because he cares about family. He is in a way, being strong. Going from being ok with something to full acceptance can be a long path for some. Maybe even you and your partner yourself too a long time before you were comfortable with who you are. Change does not happen overnight.
And I think trying to see the good sides to why your brother is even making this effort, might help bridge the gap. Maybe he's uncomfortable, doesn't understand and want to object. But he's trying. He's keeping his tongue, he's not getting into arguments. He's trying.
Now, ofc, maybe I got the wrong impression of the situation, that your brother is more overtly aggressive than what I got the impression of. But that was all I wanted to say. It was never meant as making you feel bad or blame you for anything. I was just wondering whether being more pushy towards your brother will achieve what you want to. And whether your emotions might be clouding your judgment at the moment. Maybe you're used to being treated badly, so it's difficult to recognize when people are genuinely trying.
Also, I never meant to assume your partner has no feelings. I was questioning whether you had the accurate understanding of the feelings in this situation in particular.