That’s literally the whole story. She has always told me she hates him but never said why. That’s why I’m wondering why he would help her and not tell me
OP, your boundaries mean what you are willing to deal with and what you are going to do if they are not respected. “I will not be in a relationship with a man who has a best friend he shares a bed with.” “I will not be in a relationship with a man who doesn’t treat our relationship as his priority.” And then if the boundary is ignored, YOU LEAVE.
What? He's telling you he would rape you? I would nope right out of this.
What do you mean by legally have rights? Marriage doesnt affect parental rights.
What about your current boyfriend of a year….or?????
What about your current boyfriend of a year….or?????
That’s literally the whole story. She has always told me she hates him but never said why. That’s why I’m wondering why he would help her and not tell me
OP, your boundaries mean what you are willing to deal with and what you are going to do if they are not respected. “I will not be in a relationship with a man who has a best friend he shares a bed with.” “I will not be in a relationship with a man who doesn’t treat our relationship as his priority.” And then if the boundary is ignored, YOU LEAVE.
You should move on. You deserve better and should have not tolerated it past the first time it happened.