Maybe she’s in love with you. Talking about your relationship is triggering jealousy. Did she move away before or after your relationship began? This could be telling. I could be way off base but even if she isn’t in love with you she seems jealous of your happiness. Maybe she’s closeted too? Sad that she never shot her shot with you?
That’s what stood out for me. No one saves 24m in a savings account. You might be worth that much through investments, but it’s not straight cash sitting in a savings account that’s only insured up to, what, $250,000?
Absolutely block and move on from the woman with BPD. Not saying all people with BPD are bad partners, some are working on themselves and trying to make progress. But my husband was in a 5 year on and off dance that you described and it really messed him up for long time. You don’t want to miss a good partner because a person who wants to keep you hanging on is taking up that space.
I’ll do what I can, and see how it goes. I really don’t want anything to happen to her. I appreciate the advice
This is a great reason.
there is 0% chance he wasn’t messaging with them and getting personalized videos for $18k
Are you okay? Please get some fresh air.
Maybe she’s in love with you. Talking about your relationship is triggering jealousy. Did she move away before or after your relationship began? This could be telling. I could be way off base but even if she isn’t in love with you she seems jealous of your happiness. Maybe she’s closeted too? Sad that she never shot her shot with you?
That’s what stood out for me. No one saves 24m in a savings account. You might be worth that much through investments, but it’s not straight cash sitting in a savings account that’s only insured up to, what, $250,000?
Absolutely block and move on from the woman with BPD. Not saying all people with BPD are bad partners, some are working on themselves and trying to make progress. But my husband was in a 5 year on and off dance that you described and it really messed him up for long time. You don’t want to miss a good partner because a person who wants to keep you hanging on is taking up that space.
I’ve tried many varieties, even anal sex. I’m just not pretentious enough to believe that that means I can tell everyone else they’re boring in bed.