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Date: October 13, 2022
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Best of luck in your future endeavors 🙂
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You’re not gonna agree on everything in a relationship. The most important thing is the willingness to compromise. If there is no compromise then it most likely won’t work out. But you can definitely have different interest and some things not in common and still have a healthy relationship.
Right? I’d say as long as your partner has a healthy relationship with their mom and acts like an adult then I couldn’t care less how my MIL would act. She’s his mom not mine. But that’s about your partner…
Thank you I appreciate that. I really am not having an issue with him being depressed because that is outside his control, but it’s really his personality that causes issues like this which is concerning for the long term.
Yes you should apologize. You said something super crude that was public on the internet and made him uncomfortable. He made a simple request to just block him and other family members so they don’t need to see it when they don’t want to.
In my opinion this has absolutely nothing to do with it being about gay women, and everything to do with it being crude.
She should feel ashamed for forcing you to be apart of their relationship and not even telling you either. She was only upset about “being a secret”. He literally cheated on you, lied that he had broken things off, and continued to cheat on you. Divorce him and leave. He does not deserve you. This is not how a normal poly relationship starts either. He should have talked to you and asked you before the affair even happened. He should respect your boundaries and understand that if you do not want to and can not be poly than he should respect that. Visit a r/polyamory and ask if you want, but you'll find plenty of poly people agreeing that you should leave! Judging from your other comments, if he wanted to get involved in the kink community he literally could have asked you. He had every opportunity to ask you anything during the last 4 years and he chose not to. What if he sees more partners besides the mistress? What if he doesn't tell you? Not only that, if he doesn't use protection he could be spreading infections to you. Do you want to be with someone who has broken your trust multiple times? He does not respect you or your relationship. And he may continue to disrespect you and your relationship. Please seek counseling or therapy of some sort after because it is clear they are both manipulating you and may try to keep you. If he loved you he would have asked you 4 years ago, if he loved you he wouldn't have continued cheating, and if he really loved you he would not be pressuring you into a relationship you do not feel comfortable in. Please take everyone's advice here and leave him and don't ever look back.
If you are okay with polygamy then why not ? But what I hate is that your husband doing it in secret not telling you first, i know some people who happy with polygamy relationship like my neighbor but the difference is that he told her first wives and ask for permission and she agree so they are happy now
I mean how are you feeling about your own future? Or his, outside of your relationship? It's kind of strange that you are both in your later 20s and still living at your parents and dating your SO from high school. What have you both been up to for the last 5 years? I kinda understand why he's questioning where he's at and where he's going in life right now and honestly you should be too.
You are only terrible if you keep making the same choices.
She confessed, she is communicating, I hope you two make it.
Disagree. OP stated that the terms of their open marriage was open honesty about all external relationships. In this case, he’s not doing that, which is why it counts as cheating.
If you have to hide your actions from your partner, it’s probably cheating.
You ask in exactly the same way as if she were wearing underwear: Did you fart? Don't you think it smells like pee around here? Where's that smell coming from?
The ball is in your court. What are you even worried about?
You've told her he cheats. I'm sure she's not completely oblivious to the possibility. It's now her turn to approach him and/ or keep a closer eye on him first.
If she doesn't believe you…oh well.
First of all I am truly sorry for what you have been through and I hope you are doing better soon. Second of all, I really apreciate you taking time and givining me advice. This message made me re-think and realize that I should not live my life according to others, it's my life and the most important thing is that I do things that makes me happy. And this relationship is really a thing that makes my happy.
At last thank you for your supporting and very helpful reply, did'nt really know what to expect when I posted this.
I would love it tbh, diamonds are actually very common and really not a precious stone… so many other gems are so much more sought after. I think it was beautiful and thoughtful, very thoughtful.
Depending on the state you cannot forcibly move her out. If her name is on the lease she is every legal right to be there. If her name is not on the lease and she has been providing for rent and utilities then she can vacated by court eviction order. If she's providing for nothing then again she cannot be forcibly moved out you'll need court eviction order.
The best approach is to talk to the landlord and taking your name off. You should look for a new apartment solely in your name. Next time don't move in your gf so fast.
The best thing I can recommend is to take yourselves out of the environment where you feel the tension is and plan a weekend away somewhere that you both love, does not have to be expensive but focus on having a good time together and communicate with each other about it as we tend to have our guards down when we are free from all the strains of life.
Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, spent 5 years of that living with her Mum which put a massive strain on the relationship. We have now bought a house and been here for a year, I’m a good communicator in the relationship because I suffered in previous relationships for not communicating so I doubled down on this one because I want to be happy. It works and i have learned to be a better person for her for it.
I know you mentioned he’s lazy but do you think you could get away the both of you without him making it hard work?
Ok I can understand you may not like her talking to random ppl online, but this alone is not cheating. People can talk to other people they previously haven't known while in relationship. Of course contents of such conversation can be crossing the line and therefore be reason for break up. You however decided she is cheating without regards for context.
Well that sounds insane. Good luck.
I don't want to defend her here since you're both the cheating type, but she admitted her affairs to you because she is aware you have the right to make an informed decision on marrying her and/or raising a child with her, because even one of those is a huge commitment. She has the right to be given the same courtesy.
I know but we both enjoy play games together and at the time we were
It’s probably time to move on. That might be a wakeup call and make her realize she misses you? And if not, then you are still better off moving on.
Hes having an affair.
Wtf you're 21. You have no reason (I'm assuming) such as kids and vast joint assets like you will in 20 years to tie you to him. Leave lol
I feel you, I really do. Yet there is no gentle nor easy way to end a relationship. It's gonna hurt him either way. :/
It’s buried in the comments, but it might matter to know that OPs income is $120 thousand and BFs income is $20 thousand…
So he didn’t but get the very expensive thing she asked for but everything he DID get was thoughtful and exactly in the vein of things she’d like and use.
It seems like OP is dating someone with 1/5 her income and then only considers herself appreciated if he does it with $$$.
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Partners want to know that their Partners have a life outside of the relationship. Right now you are giving him all the power by sitting waiting by the phone hoping he'd call or text.
Make your own plans or even better, turn your phone off when he is out and only switch it back on the next day.
You're a big girl and you shouldn't let your free time be about him.
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He took advantage of you, used your addiction against you, got you drunk to take advantage of you and sexually assaulted you while you were unconscious. He is a piece of shit and a predator. I hope that you deleted the photos. I don't know much about AA but the group should be informed that they have a predator among them that preys on their new members and tempts them with alcohol and sexually assaults them.
Next time tell her ‘yes, they’re great aren’t they’. May as well be guilty of what she insists your guilty of.
Welcome to the male universe
If you can't contact Z direct either phone or socials you going to have to get details from or get D to do a fishing expedition for you.
If that's the case hopefully D doesn't have a thing for you
Best of luck
Don't ghost him. Be honest and say that you aren't feeling it anymore, wish him the best, and move.
So you've been talking to him since you were 13? Only met up with him 3 times and twice he raped you? You are only 21!! Get new friends!!! He doesn't respect you and he's horrible for you. Tell him goodbye and block him. You can do this!!!
And the fact that this other girl knows about OP and is just okay with things is gross too.
Even if it's petty, driving without a license and while intoxicated is straight up reckless and she could get someone killed.
Ruin her life before she causes serious harm.
Keep in mind, if all of your own actions aren’t squeaky clean, she’s going to ruin your life too. And given you were worst case AOK, and best case “able to turn a blind eye” with all her super illegal actions until the breakup, I’m guessing you enabled her in some regard which could make you an accomplice. Like idk, giving car insurance to someone without a license.
Be careful or this could turn into a TIFU. Tbh it doesn’t seem like it’s worth playing with fire. Life will catch up to her eventually and hopefully you won’t have to be part of the collateral damage.
Anal used to not be a “baby kink” a few decades ago.
I started dating here soon as I came out of high school
That is alarming.
Hey brother, definitely should tell and give her a heads up at some point. If she's a half decent and genuine person, she won't be turned off by this and will very much coach you through it all!
Just make sure to explain that you have dated in the past just never just went to that point for whatever reason.
If she's the type to be turned off by this fact and dismisses you, well then it just means she took the trash out herself imo.
Who would have thought that you wouldn’t be comfortable with letting another man rail your girlfriend. The amount of posts you see on Reddit that are like this is outstanding.
Marriage is NOT required to be committed to someone. Getting married is a choice, you can have a great long term relationship without it. It certainly has its perks, but it is not mandatory. That is old fashioned thinking we can do without in modern society.
I think your gf is full of it. She had no intention of getting you more gifts, she thought you were going to just accept the crappy gifts she gave you.
Don’t let him to control the narrative even after you’ve gone. You are not being over dramatic. Your therapist will tell you the same when you open up in your next session. Please. It will change your life. I know it’s hard but not nearly as hard as trying to hold it in. You’ll feel so much better. I promise.
She should feel some guilt for not shutting it down right quick. But none of us is perfect. I think she’ll learn from this and do better. Otherwise she can blow a hole in her marriage that may not heal for years, if ever. For what? Talking and smiling with a man in public?
She sounds exhausted from her work, give her a break. Try to help her maximise on her rest. Listen to her when she tells you that she doesn't like something, as otherwise sex will feel one-sided and performative. Everyone has kinks, have you explored yours yet?
This must be the longest post on Reddit ever. I’m not sure exactly what’s going on because I couldn’t read it all, but obviously the main problem is you got married too young. You can’t change that but that is a factor. You say you don’t want to leave her but she says she will murder you if you do. Take her seriously. The girl is not well and she will harm you if she thinks you are cheating even if you aren’t. There is nothing you can do except try to convince her to get therapy. Talking to her yourself won’t change her. If you tell her your love for her will grow if she goes into therapy, that might convince her. Make sure you say you don’t think she’s crazy and therapy is not for crazy people, just for people who need someone to talk to. Tell her that she will like the private time she gets with her therapist and make it sound like a spa day. Hopefully as she gets older she will change but that is not always the case.
This is so dramatic
Unfortunately your girlfriend is extremely immature and a pushover. She might be a mother now but she acts like a no-clue teenager when it comes to her BFF. That friend is toxic and you girlfriend is willing to let you jump over the blade for this lying ass bitch???
Thank you for your kind words… unfortunately my name is in the lease and I also have contributed to the deposit. We’ve decided to “still be together “ until I can find a new place. Specially in front of our friends since we have a common group, we’ve know each other since college. I’m unable to share this with anyone because I’ve reached a phase in my life where I am unable to open up to my friends, and I feel very distant from everyone that once were so close to me…
I mean this as politely as possible, but PLEASE do not flirt with or ask out retail workers. They are there to do a job and you can easily perceive them being nice because they have to be as them being nice because they like you. If she likes you, let her make the first move.
Ready for a reality check? it is already effecting your non existent relationship. Your are already creating barriers to your success and you havent even tried yet. How about you take her on a date before you manufacture problems?
Not trying to date students would probably be a start.
All the same, there are definitely a lot of women 25-30 freaking out the same as you who are looking for serious relationships. But if you're determined to date your age exactly or younger, I can understand why you'd have trouble getting dates.
Girl do not apologise to this person. She is not your friend, and she does not respect you. The idea that she, a grown ass woman, “can’t control her tongue” is just laughable. Does she have some kind of disease where she just has to constantly spew out passive aggressive insults to people she supposedly cares about? No? In that case, she’s in complete control of what she says and is choosing to be nasty because it makes her feel clever and powerful.
Do you know what people learn when we stand up to them and then apologise for it? They learn they did nothing wrong. And she DID do something wrong. Repeatedly. Consciously. She didn’t say these things to you by accident and she didn’t say them because she thought it would make you feel good. She was being nasty on purpose and you called her out on it. You did the right thing, and your sisters are quite right that this woman deserved to catch hands from you. She says YOUR behaviour in public was humiliating, but apparently she thinks it was fine for her to mock your marriage and career in front of your entire social group. She’s a hypocrite and a shitty friend, and it’s a shame your other friends are excusing and enabling her awful behaviour.
Apologise for nothing. Stop seeking her forgiveness – you don’t need it. Tell her you’re happy to talk about this situation when she’s ready but you’re not going to beg at her feet just for standing up for yourself. And then get on with your life – she’s not worth agonising over.
And congratulations on your marriage and your training course!
Yay I’m so glad someone else commented this hahah I scrolled for too long I love you
it seems you love coming to outlandish conclusions. i did not say it was their entire relationship, or the only thing she liked about him- that’s literally ridiculous. i pointed out how it was something she valued in their relationship dynamic that allowed her to feel secure and special, and she’s allowed to value that, especially with her past experiences and insecurities, without being labeled as “shallow and narcissistic.”
again, i am not surprised that as a man, you are unable to see OP’s viewpoint for what it is. women are consistently compared and pitted against each other, and physical appearance is such a big part of it. when you are sisters, there is a whole new level of comparison that happens. to cherish having someone who prefers YOU, sees YOU as unique and special, and chooses YOU first for who you are when you’ve went a whole lifetime being overlooked and discarded for your sister, who has never even given your sister a thought other than her being your sister, is not shallow. it’s special. and OP is not incapable of finding someone who hasn’t pursued her sister. if it was just a casual interest in passing, his own friend wouldn’t have found it significant enough to mention that he had “never been able to manage to get her number.” it clearly wasn’t just a fleeting thought. OP would not be “narcissistic” for being turned off at the fact that her actual BOYFRIEND initially chased her actual sister.?
and if you read other comments from actual other women, you’ll realize my opinion is a popular one.
Except he didn't say that, and you are putting words in his mouth that he explicitly said he didn't mean.
Except he didn't say that, and you ate putting words in his mouth that he explicitly said he didn't mean.
The Truth is is that everything she did before she met you doesn't matter, because everything you did before you met her doesn't matter. what matters is now.
Why do you need to know what she did before she met you if it's just going to be things that upset you or worse things you don't want to know?!?!
Look I'm not a boob guy, I didn't make my point clear enough. Just think of it this way, if a guy said he had a thing for straight/curly hair you could be like 'oh i'm not into that but I might change it for a night for him'. I'm just saying that isn't an option for our relationship, that's all.
No no, the options are hers and they are 1) go to him 2) you leave her . She's already made her decision now for her to SAY it aloud . She's playing a game and wanting you to do a “pick me” dance.
Short, direct, and to the point. No matter how you do it, his feelings are going to be hurt. There is no way around it. Mitigate that pain by being clear, and not offering false hope. Avoid “not right now” and “maybe someday” statements. Also, do not remain “just friends.” That's not fair to him and will set you up for aggravation.
The simple conversation is “I don't think we are compatible, and we need to end this now.” You don't owe an explanation beyond that. He doesn't need “one more time” or “closure.” It's a complete sentence, and the period on the end of whatever relationship you two had.
What are you getting out of sex?? You come across as desperate to please him. He comes across as a horrible bf!
Sex shouldn't be like this, you deserve so much better. Porn is fake and the women aren't enjoying it its all fake for the camera
I was going to give advice but then you started insulting the girl and his ex. Therefore maybe your ego should be bruised. You should tap in to your own insecurities instead of talking down on others. He was being honest and honestly he didn’t do anything wrong. I just find it weird you’re so worked up over the fact he found her attractive. You need a reality check. You’re not going to be the only attractive woman in his life. He’d be a liar to tell you so. Also you say you’re aware that looks aren’t everything yet the only traits you’ve mentioned are appearance traits.
From this post alone, yes this would be a turn off. You weren’t exclusive/together at the time. So what he found the girl attractive. Get over yourself.
Facts
The definition of cheating 100% varies from person to person and couples define what that means. That’s a basic thing in a relationship that everyone should do. Some people consider porn cheating and some don’t. Some people think talking to someone of the opposite sex at a bar is cheating and some don’t. This isn’t “making up definitions”. Two adults agreed on what a boundary in a relationship should be and she said she would consider that cheating. He went and did that anyway.
How she act around her males friends is why she is worried about your female friends, that says enough.
If they’d known each other for so long and he was always platonic with her he just has to say “ you know when I said I love you it was because you are my friend and I wasn’t insinuating nothing more. I just want to make it clear as I don’t want anything to be awkward between us”
I don’t really see why he feels this way maybe the kiss and the hug was inappropriate and he knows it.
Your wife nearly died. What have you done to help her process that trauma? Don’t blame it on the baby, on your work, on your own feelings. Your wife nearly died 4 months ago and you are complaining that she isn’t the magical being of happiness and light from before her pregnancy (which again, nearly killed her). Work on your emotional intelligence, bro.
If you guys live in the same town or have any mutual friends it would be hard for her to hide if she has/is pregnant with your kid or not. If she’s got a kid in 9 months or has a bump in 6, take her to court for custodial rights. If not, then she doesn’t.
Yeah, “All I had to do was have an orgasm and you almost died, seems equal to me.”
Came to say this!
None of your business. And on top: it doesn’t affect you in any way. Not worth to waste one second of thought on it.
Not being able to see pictures of someone you aren't intimate with shouldn't be this disappointing, I feel like something else must be going on for you to feel so entitled to pictures of someone else.
It seem to be the only reasonable option and I will commit to it
You don’t. You can’t argue with crazy. Just block her.
Leave her. Y’all relationship was the over the moment she started accepting this Gus attention and reciprocating it
he’s def not the typa guy to say my body is his property or anything
…That is exactly what he is saying
Did YOU read this post? He’s posting it here because he’s clearly interested and looking for the go ahead. How you’re missing the context clues is beyond me.
There are professionals for this problem…go talk to them
Oh. You’re 30? I got confused. Seemed like something a 13YO would write. Just move on. And get some therapy for your crazy revenge and bar brawling bitch nonsense.
Like ever?
Thanks stranger on the internet!
Please don’t send her a photo of your ID. Online dating is for flirting and sussing out whether you want to meet in real life, that’s how “she” can learn if you’re real, you agree to meet. This person is probably not a woman, or 19, or lives anywhere near you. Identity theft. It’s a thing.
OP was the one who did just that
He may be booksmart, but he has no emotional intelligence.
Do it, even if only for one date, or one weekend. Then check in with him about how frustrating he found it.
I love your line I think my husband has been raping me. He’s the greatest guy in the world. He’s the love of my life and we’ve been together since high school.
He’s not a great man because he’s forcing his wife to have sex with him. It may even turn him on a little bit honestly. Laney’s been doing that the entire time and tell your children came to be. That’s not love and actually it’s prosecutable in most states in the United States.
You must of surmise this because you came on Reddit and poured your story out. He’s not a great man he’s not even a good man he’s a rapist he just rapes his wife which until the 70s or even 80s I think was legal.
He may be booksmart, but he has no emotional intelligence.
If there is no respect at that level it might be time to reconsider that relationship .
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Does anyone else have an unsupportive spouse?
We’ve been together almost 5 years, married for almost one. I’ve developed a love for running over the past 2 years and I love running races. My spouse often tells me how weird it is that this is my hobby and that I shouldn’t need to run races, I should just go outside and run. Sure this may be true, but I get such a thrill from running with the community plus I love a good medal.
He also says that he feels bad if he doesn’t go to my runs, but he complains about how early he’d have to wake up and how boring it would be to just stand around and wait for me to finish, so at this point I don’t ask him to go anymore. I ran 10 races last year and he came to two of them and did a good bit of complaining leading up to them. Kinda kills the vibe for me.
Can anyone else relate? How do you deal with it? It would be nice to have a supportive partner but should I push him to be supportive of me? Or should I just accept that that’s not the kind of partner I have?
I have a constant runny nose and have to blow it all the time. I'm not embarassed or sweaty or nervous.
Why wouldnt he just explain he has allergies instead of blowing up? How did it all of a sudden flair up after he went outside when he was completely fine before? Does he always blow his nose around you?
If you take a break then you don’t get to tell people what they can do in their free time. A break means you are not a couple. If you want to have rules about what she can do, then don’t break up. (Take a break)
I just don’t trust anything that comes out of her mouth at this point to be completely honest with you. I think if you had seen the texts saying how terrible I am and how she doesn’t want to be with me anymore it would be clear that she was biding her time. Maybe until she became more financially stable and was sure she wanted to be with this guy long term. I’m not going to be a backup plan to anyone
In OPcs post history 3 years ago she told a 23yo dating a 41yo to date someone in their (same) decade. 3y ago OP would have been with current guy, 23 and 36 are not within the same decade either, so am guessing troll. Also posted a pooping pants post. Poop fetish by OP is my guess.
What will you gain by not admitting the information? You're fully barren. Your options are either in vitro (with a sperm donor), or adoption.
Different family dynamic, you don't know better so please stop thinking you do. He knows his mother best and it's not your business as he said. If you want to break up over that go ahead though sounds like you already have a foot out the door
You are 22 why waste time on someone 30 that doesn't wanna get over someone else?
it’s not necessarily a bad thing. And if you try and tell her who she can and can’t be friends with, she’s going to resent you.
adults in long-term relationships usually don’t have close friends of opposite sexes… I think it would be really weird if I were to start hanging out with any of my buddies partners.
that being said, not everybody shares my point of view. And it can be completely innocent.
She’s a narcissistic, manipulative being and doesn’t earn the trust and love you’re putting into her. Save yourself and leave. Find someone that’s not broken which you love as equally and put a ring on her.
But please see a psychiatrist once you left her otherwise you’re in danger to get to another lunatic again.
Break up and take the cat. Why would you want to be with someone who is actively doing something detrimental to the health and well-being, of a pet she wanted to get in the first place, for her own selfish reasons. It’s disgusting and cruel. The cat deserves better than that, and I honestly wouldn’t want to be with that kind of a sociopath.
Well I have cut her off. This happened near the end of our friendship… I told her I needed some time after that & she eventually said, “you’ve had enough time.”
I also let myself get into another argument with her and went to the hospital to check myself in for fear of hurting myself. I wasn’t even seen by a doctor when she messaged my family member creating a false narrative of me & then she blew up my phone again… not to ask how I was, but to argue with me more and prove her point, knowing I was in the hospital. She tried to dictate that she “had nothing to do with it”, but how can you tell someone WHY they went into the hospital.. who would know better?
But the friendship is over.
fuck the contingencies, i love you, i want to move in with you
Not in this economy. He sounds smart and responsible. You should be responsible for your rent from the day you move in AND have a job to earn money to pay rent.
And no, the 3/4 month argument won’t fly and that’s how you rack up debt.
But how to I even go about telling them that this is wrong? I'm pretty sure that if I bring this up with all of them they will make me feel like I'm being too jealous and making this weird
I mean honestly I was trying to repeatedly! I tried to make out a few times and he’d pull away pretty quick, but said it was the cold. Certainly understandable if so and want to be respectful, just confused!
She totally cheated. Never date women who want to go on late night activities without you, they'll cheat on you in a heartbeat.
18 year olds are not kids
Thanks for the tip! I am actually changing my medication now (that experience phase), bc the previous one wasn't working properly, so I guess this can be one reason.
I think he's worried I don't feel turned on by him anymore because I won't start things or respond to his “advances” like I used to. When we finally do it, he feels like I'm only trying to please him and not really enjoying the whole thing. I do, however, enjoy it when we do it. I just don't have the energy to start it. Once it's started I'm 100% committed.
5 years is a very long time. Time to realise she's not your wife, she's someone else's girlfriend
Tell him your boobs are part of the package, and he is free to break up and find the natural boobs girl of his dreams. Also, he has somewhat of a shared responsibility to ask about it anything that might be a dealbreaker . What is next he will be upset that you did not tell him about your braces for your teeth? What about when he finds out about makeup?
i don't actually think bob did it, hes fine with my fiance it was sarah on the phone with my best man (said not to invite her)
Sounds like intention to cheat or she naively thought they would just hang out then got out of hand and she was raped. Its your choice to stay with her or leave but you should wait until she is sober and have a long talk. Maybe write down what you want to ask
Lawyer. Right now.
Get away from this dude now. He respects you zero and he will never respect any boundaries you set.
Definitely contact HR. Make sure there's record of this. I don't know if filing with the police is necessary yet, but that's up to you. Good luck. I'm sorry you have to go through this xo
So if my male friend was a murderer and I told him not to kill anyone but he does it anyway and I just let it go, am I enabling his behaviour??
But you'll stay friends with an abuser.
If that were true, when your bf spoke up you would have immediately defended your bf and added your own condemnation of Mark's behavior.
He is a hypocrite. “No fatties” is not any more valid than “no brokies”
He can also be attracted to whatever he wants. Now you know what to expect
The difference between “she liked him” and “they used to hook up” sounds more intentional than just being in a rush.
Why would she lie? Girls get shamed for sex all the time, and maybe felt you'd think she'd cheat if she told you they had a history. Or maybe she is sketchy and may not be the best partner for you.
Cut them off 100%. Let them stew in their misery. She sounds like a home wrecking, petty narc and your father a pathetic enabling cheat. One thryll wake up and look at at each other and feel nothing but resentment. And they deserve the loneliness.
I'm really kind of curious…. what was she like in her late teens and early twenties? Was she still like this, or was she a lot freer?
The vast majority of women work, so we also provide – in addition to caring for the home and children (if applicable) which males do not do so much of the time. Protect against what… violence against women comes from a romantic partner or family. You are the ones we need protection from. Can personally attest to this
Can women cheat since you aren’t actually as valuable as you claim?
Monogamy is a mutual expectation. If you don’t wanna do it, don’t have that standard for another person
You can’t force someone to do something they don’t want to do just so you can get your release. You need to figure out a solution on your own, try different things and stop guilt tripping him or pushing him to be the solution to your problem.
Ask for more communication, even if it's just good morning and good night. Or whatever your minimum is to feel satisfied.
Say you're really into him and want to stay connected and that you're interested in exclusivity.
If he says no, or doesn't answer, move on and keep looking for other guys.
Sounds like the miscarriage was a blessing in disguise. Now you can divorce him without being tied down with a kid.
People keep telling you to leave him. This is not the answer. You both went through something traumatic and people handle it in different ways. Yes, what he did was selfish, but he’s also trying to push down his emotions and relations with you make him happy.
This wasn’t the best timing on his part at all, but the guy clearly loves you and he made a mistake.
People have to stop with the pitchforks in this sub, Jesus Christ.
And she will becoming an addict if she stays.
Rule of life #1: Don’t marry the chick who cheats on you.
Rule of life #2: Never believe the cheater who says it was just a kiss.
Tell the husband if the cat isn’t given back you are divorcing him and you will report his coworker for theft. When you get the cat back, divorce him