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Holi Hurricane, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 7, 2022
He’s the full package to me.
I think my thoughts of leaving him only stem as a sort of trauma response. I’m use to being left behind by guys so my brain kinda wants to get ahead of him? Even know he’s not leaving me.
I know the obvious answer is to get therapy for this. Idk how to help now while I wait for that tho. And help him understand he’s not doing anything wrong.
Google “trickle truthing”
Your relationship is NOT old enough for this shit. Get a DNA test and dip. Hopefully you're not on the hook for 18 years and can find someone who doesn't cheat and lie
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He’s genuinely one of the most observant, kind, thoughtful, and smart people I have met in my life and I don’t think I’ve ever met someone so insanely similar to me.
Bullshit. If he was so kind, thoughtful and generous he would've rejected his advances and not had sex with you. Obviously he's a flattered that a 18 year old finds him sexy but he shouldn't have take advantage of you.
This is known as Ephebophilia where a older person takes active in mid to late adolescents.
You are barely out of your teens why tf the you are hooking you with a guy who's the age of your dad. Daddy issues ig?? Bad childhood?
There's nothing right with this relationship. Break if off and try to be in therapy.
Wtf do you mean are you right in not wanting to pay for the hotel? Did you think people would be like “yeah you should definitely be paying in full!”
First off what is wrong with your place? I know his place doesn’t work because he quite obviously married but is your place out of the question?
So many of these posts are from really dangerously insecure/clueless women and it’s really scary 🙁 Please have more respect for yourself.
Buy her a mini gum ball machine toy for pills it’s cute and she’ll only take what she needs out and this won’t turn into a long term argument
Yeah this all feels fairly normal and you definitely haven't done anything wrong.
If you're feeling this way I'd say tell her anyways though, not because she deserves to know or anything, but because secrets and guilt (even misplaced) are bad for a relationship.
Good luck
Best answer here – covers all points.
This guy seems like an asshole and regardless if it was cheating or not you shouldn’t be dating him.
Right. But, you had no problem satisfying him early on and you're starting to now take him for granted.
I don't care if they do that either (pleasure themselves to a picture or video of another person). The women I know don't care either. And many of us watch porn for pleasure as well. I'm not trying to say I'm an authority, I'm simply saying I personally find it more common for women NOT to care. Except on Reddit. But I think that's because a lot of women on Reddit are younger and in newer relationships. I also think a lot of younger women are made to feel incredibly insecure by social media. It affects all of us, but maybe those of us that are of my generation (Gen X), are old enough to see it for what it is (propaganda to make women feel less than).
You don't.
Go get mental help. PLEASE. This is absolutely nuts and scary.
Your BF cheated and lied. You were right for dumping him. He was horrible to you and for you to find out through social media is a huge slap in the face.
No, do not give him a second chance. What he did is despicable and basically tells you who he is. He will do it again if you forgive him. Why waste more of your time?
You're welcome.
I know that wasn't easy to do, but it had to be done.
Let's hope she'll see reason.
If not, you did what you could.
Red flag.. she’s given you legitimate reason to feel insecure and then gets mad at you for that. Leave her, you deserve someone you can trust and who loves you how you need to be loved. Not someone who gets annoyed that their actions caused your insecurities.
How long have y’all been together? Once a week is acceptable very early in a relationship, but I would say once you get past the “getting to know each other” stage, you should be seeing each other quite often. Frankly, if you don’t want to spend more than one day a week with her, that seems like a problem.
Just put it in the post.
I would tell her “I have a heart condition that right now I manage with medication. There is a possibly I will need heart surgery in 5 years that will fix it, but at this point all I do is take medication and have occasional tests to moniter it. The odds are definitely in my favor that I'll be around for quite a while. I have a routine test coming up so I realized that I wanted to let you know, but reassure you that I am allowed to do all everyday activities and this is something that can be managed successfully.
I haven’t told him that I would break it off if he didn’t date me.
A little more every year. At first she was this person I couldn't find a flaw in if I tried. But I think the pandemic screwed with her. She lost a few friends in political skirmishes, as well as a fee family members. After that she got a little colder, a little more sharp. I've tried talking to her about it, but she gets defensive.
So unless you are 100% sure that you can handle a polyamorous relationship, then do not do anything with him.
Then know that your friendship is likely to end of you do go down this route.
And make sure that his fiancée is actually okay with the relationship being polygamous (as in talk to her about it, not just take his word for it), and also okay with his partner being you – as this might be against their boundaries that were set up when they went polygamous.
Amy is a good person
I'd argue Amy is many things but a good person is not one of them. Let us remember that she intends to attempt to raise four young children on her own across the country away from their father.
Are you really this clueless?
I think he is perfectly capable of taking the initiative but chooses not to. I think the expectation is that someone will take his mother’s place. I don’t believe you want that.
Are you a bot? Lol “We just got married when i was visiting” does not properly answer my question of how long you've been married for.
Is this like a mail ordered bride situation? If so, she doesn't in fact love you, its just a contract buddy
It’s a sticky situation, OP. I second the first comment, and all the insight they provided. But as someone who struggles with being clingy, who constantly worries, I can offer this: it’s a lovely friendship, but it could have run its course. Until your friend comes around, it’s time to assume they might not. And that’s okay. You can reach out in a while and say a bit of a goodbye if that offers you closure, but pushing anything more can just make things worse. It’s not cool that your friend assured you they’d be honest and is now slow-fading, but mental health issues can cause us to make those kinds of choices. Just my two cents.