Birth control fails, what makes you so sure they didn’t use it? You’re not that smart please stop pretending like you have any idea what happened. Also, the decision to not use birth control is made by two people (unless your omniscient ass is about to tell me it wasn’t consensual ??), and so your logic break downs given that she made the same decision and wasn’t cheating (unless she was cheating, go ahead tell me ???)
No to all of that. He’s raised topics like moving in together, our future. Constantly telling me I’m beautiful etc. We have quite a lot of in depth convos about other things that have cropped up.
So yes I am also confused!! Maybe a therapist would help but it’s definitely created emotional distance in my head from him.
guaranteed if OP and husband get divorced and he starts dating. he will get a rude shock that most women would not be as tolerant about his poop stewing as his wife. other women would dump him during the dating process cos it's too disgusting. lol.
When you’re caught in an abusive relationship, it’s often hard to see what’s wrong. I think you should break up with him so he can be with his family and focus on himself. Work on his mental as should you. Separated and not together. We can’t save your relationship or how his family feels about you. They are right to feel how they feel. Things won’t change until you make necessary changes.
When I say “probably” I mean “probably”.
Birth control fails, what makes you so sure they didn’t use it? You’re not that smart please stop pretending like you have any idea what happened. Also, the decision to not use birth control is made by two people (unless your omniscient ass is about to tell me it wasn’t consensual ??), and so your logic break downs given that she made the same decision and wasn’t cheating (unless she was cheating, go ahead tell me ???)
I guess what is making me nervous is my ex is a narcissist and was never accepting of my feelings.
No to all of that. He’s raised topics like moving in together, our future. Constantly telling me I’m beautiful etc. We have quite a lot of in depth convos about other things that have cropped up.
So yes I am also confused!! Maybe a therapist would help but it’s definitely created emotional distance in my head from him.
guaranteed if OP and husband get divorced and he starts dating. he will get a rude shock that most women would not be as tolerant about his poop stewing as his wife. other women would dump him during the dating process cos it's too disgusting. lol.
When you’re caught in an abusive relationship, it’s often hard to see what’s wrong. I think you should break up with him so he can be with his family and focus on himself. Work on his mental as should you. Separated and not together. We can’t save your relationship or how his family feels about you. They are right to feel how they feel. Things won’t change until you make necessary changes.