we are now talking about buying a house together but now Alex has informed me that his mom said she would pitch in on buying the house too so she can live with us.
Yeah, don't talk about buying a house with someone who's not able to set healthy boundaries with their parent….don't buy a house with someone you've never lived independently with.
have never had a space to decorate or a place to call just mine unless it was in a dorm. I have graduated and want to move forward by having something of my own.
Buy something yourself, or simply rent for a while…no need to jump into buying with a partner.
Alex has expressed that he thinks his mom should live with us because she can’t afford to live by herself. But she makes plenty of money each month, she is just a spender.
Yeah, your bf most likely won't realise how manipulative his mum actually is, unless he analyses their dynamic in therapy.
You should have stood up for him. You don’t sound like you would make a very good partner.
Does she have OCD/Anxiety? Cause her paranoia seems out of the realm of what I would consider reasonable or normal. Does she need a doctor?
we are now talking about buying a house together but now Alex has informed me that his mom said she would pitch in on buying the house too so she can live with us.
Yeah, don't talk about buying a house with someone who's not able to set healthy boundaries with their parent….don't buy a house with someone you've never lived independently with.
have never had a space to decorate or a place to call just mine unless it was in a dorm. I have graduated and want to move forward by having something of my own.
Buy something yourself, or simply rent for a while…no need to jump into buying with a partner.
Alex has expressed that he thinks his mom should live with us because she can’t afford to live by herself. But she makes plenty of money each month, she is just a spender.
Yeah, your bf most likely won't realise how manipulative his mum actually is, unless he analyses their dynamic in therapy.