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Date: December 7, 2022
You don’t need to do all that, but you ABSOLUTELY need to shut that down. you need to understand how women think, I have this exact problem in my marriage right now. Long distance 10 years. Trust me brother it was easy to deal with.
I said look when I get there and your continuing to talk to these men I will walk out the door.
Now I implied leaving her( really I’m gunna get a hotel then make a stricter boundary. )
This was the exact wording: look I don’t care what you do, what’s in the conversation, when I get there I’m going to check for one thing. That the date of your last message is today.
I don’t care if you were sexting ect, I don’t care the contents, I just want to see the date of your last reply. I’ll be looking out for deleted conversations and texts. Break my rule I don’t care how happy we are I will walk out. Period.
Oh and this is in response to me finding out there are multiple guys talking to her. Put up a fight before the names spilled. Icing on the cake was she used the words “ex husband” while talking to me.
I love my wife dearly, but I will leave her if she can’t respect my boundary and me as a person as a result.
Jesus Christ! How can you be this delusional? It's not about the gift but how you went about it. Some gifts aren't meant to be surprises. You sit them both down and say “hey, I see your car is getting old and I wanted to get you this car for your birthday as a way to celebrate you and thank you for everything you've done for me. Would that be ok?”
There's a reason you inform them first. Buying them a car comes with alot of expenses on their part too. From maintenance to insurance to all the other stuffs they have to pay for for a new car. Do they have that kind of money to do so monthly? Will this affect their finances negatively? You've gotta think about this indepthly because this is a big gift. Secondly, it is disrespectful to her husband.
Regardless of what you say or what kind of relationship you both have, you are not her brother be it biological or adopted so even if you are both as close as siblings can be, you aren't her brother and her husband knows that and seeing this gift would raise certain alarm bells in his head. He's human afterall. Even if you wanted the gift to be a surprise to her then you had to at least talk to her husband first if for nothing else then as a heads up. You discussed this with your partner and someone fail to the how not informing them could negatively impact their relationship.
If you're being financially careful and your gf's close friend buys her a car without telling you, how would you feel? Would that be appropriate? If your friend was single and unattached then gift her whatever you want but she's not. There's another person mixed up in this dynamic and his feelings in their relationship matter even more than yours do. Do you know the level of fights and drama you've brought into their life with your gift? Communication is important. You may not need his permission to buy her a car but you certainly need to inform him that you are doing so. That way he'd have the opportunity to say “Oh, that's nice but we're having money problems now and cannot handle the added expense of maintaining a new car” or “Oh, that car has sentimental value to her. That's why she still drives it. Perhaps you could look into getting her something else of equal value?” He'd have the opportunity to let you know any additional information that could influence your decision but you didn't do that.
What you did is an amazing thing but how you did it is completely wrong. You need to apologise first for how you went about it and explain that you just wanted to do something nice for her after all they've done for you. Would you wanna be the reason she quarrels with her husband? Things like this can break a marriage if care isn't taken. You two aren't siblings so the idea that maybe there's something more going on between you two may not be far from his mind especially if you're gifting her something worth thousands of dollars. Regardless of your intent, you aren't in his mind nor do you know his insecurities. The appropriate thing to do was to speak to them both or at least speak to one of them before going through with it. Because this is a big gift and if they for example aren't able to handle the responsibilities that comes with a new car, what happens then? Sell the car? Are you willing to cover all those expenses for them? There's alot at play here than you just giving your friend a gift. It's far more than that especially when you factor in what that gift is and it's value.
What’s your girlfriend’s relationship like with her own mother? It seems to me that your mother may be a rather narcissistic person (because expecting your kids to show up to the chip ceremony is weird, for 31 years is super weird and self-centered.)
Perhaps your girlfriend does not enjoy being around your mother because your girlfriend recognizes that she’s not a mentally stable or emotionally healthy person. And from your comment about punishing your future hypothetical children years from now for your wife’s actions today, neither are you.
Wait wait wait. He's not giving you a gift, but your sister thinks you should give him one? This is bizarre.
Exact thing happened to me he slowly turned more and more abusive because he was “forced” to talk to me and he didn't want to. Please break up with him I promise it's not worth it.
I would probably have the abortion convo and if you would be both okay with aborting in case you get super super unlucky, and then get over it
Well, you’re in quite the pickle. Ditch this loser, block everything, and go with your plan to live with your parents and baby. You probably shouldn’t have said baby, but you’re about 5-6 months late for that.
Whatever you do, DO NOT RUIN YOUR LIFE FOR THIS LOSER.
This is fantastic advice.
I’d also suggest – find ways to be involved from a distance and show support for his choices. Are there things from Brazil that your son has mentioned missing? Send him care packages! Send him your exact recipe for brigadeiro (unless it’s like mine and varies by vibes and how much butter is on hand). Learn to knit/crochet/embroider so you can eventually send baby things and know that you are still connected when you see photos of a grand baby wearing or using what you made.
He’s in another state She had a boyfriend but he was crazy loud and essentially got kicked out
Also, I do lock the door, but it’s when we leave it open the other person