It sounds like you went through a difficult experience and it's understandable that you're feeling upset. It's never easy to have our feelings hurt, especially when we feel like we've been taken advantage of.
One thing to keep in mind is that it's not uncommon for people to develop strong feelings for someone they've only met online, especially if they have a lot in common and are able to connect on a deep level. However, it's important to remember that online relationships are not the same as real-life relationships, and it's not always easy to gauge someone's true intentions.
In the future, it might be helpful to take things slow and not get too attached to someone you've only met online. It's also important to communicate openly and honestly with the other person about your feelings and boundaries, and to listen to what they have to say as well.
As for how to navigate your feelings right now, it might be helpful to focus on self-care and give yourself time to process what happened. It's okay to feel upset, but try not to dwell on the situation too much and allow yourself to move on. You might also consider talking to a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your feelings and develop healthier ways of dealing with them in the future.
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most people who open marriages up don't think about if they can handle it.
they just want a free pass to cheat and think their partner will remain monogamous even though it's now open. they don't actually think their partners would sleep with other people meanwhile they get a free pass to cheat.
then they get surprised when their partner actually sleeps with someone. LMFAO.
We honestly haven’t had that talk in a while and I’m super nervous about bringing it up again bc I don’t want to seem insecure I guess. if I were to bring it up again what would be the best way to go about it?
We honestly haven’t had that talk in a while and I’m super nervous about bringing it up again bc I don’t want to seem insecure I guess. if I were to bring it up again what would be the best way to go about it?
You should not be concerned. But your boyfriend should be. I'd dump you for going through my phone. You had ZERO right to violate his privacy that way, and he deserves better than you. His password and what it means is also none of your business.
Bruh, the last time I worked at a restaurant there was a line cook that was always super up for bringing out the trash. He was able to smoke crack by the dumpster easier.
It sounds like you went through a difficult experience and it's understandable that you're feeling upset. It's never easy to have our feelings hurt, especially when we feel like we've been taken advantage of.
One thing to keep in mind is that it's not uncommon for people to develop strong feelings for someone they've only met online, especially if they have a lot in common and are able to connect on a deep level. However, it's important to remember that online relationships are not the same as real-life relationships, and it's not always easy to gauge someone's true intentions.
In the future, it might be helpful to take things slow and not get too attached to someone you've only met online. It's also important to communicate openly and honestly with the other person about your feelings and boundaries, and to listen to what they have to say as well.
As for how to navigate your feelings right now, it might be helpful to focus on self-care and give yourself time to process what happened. It's okay to feel upset, but try not to dwell on the situation too much and allow yourself to move on. You might also consider talking to a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your feelings and develop healthier ways of dealing with them in the future.
I agree, what I mean is in normal conversations I have to be the one to start them and stuff otherwise we don’t talk
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most people who open marriages up don't think about if they can handle it.
they just want a free pass to cheat and think their partner will remain monogamous even though it's now open. they don't actually think their partners would sleep with other people meanwhile they get a free pass to cheat.
then they get surprised when their partner actually sleeps with someone. LMFAO.
I can't believe I had to scroll this far to find this comment! This is spot on, sex tourism is pure evil.
We honestly haven’t had that talk in a while and I’m super nervous about bringing it up again bc I don’t want to seem insecure I guess. if I were to bring it up again what would be the best way to go about it?
We honestly haven’t had that talk in a while and I’m super nervous about bringing it up again bc I don’t want to seem insecure I guess. if I were to bring it up again what would be the best way to go about it?
You should not be concerned. But your boyfriend should be. I'd dump you for going through my phone. You had ZERO right to violate his privacy that way, and he deserves better than you. His password and what it means is also none of your business.
I agree. Originally I thought that people could change a bit
Bruh, the last time I worked at a restaurant there was a line cook that was always super up for bringing out the trash. He was able to smoke crack by the dumpster easier.
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I guess I mean a lot of guys are put off by virgins