This is scary!!!!! if I had insisted the waitress refund my half and asked to speak to a manager, could I have gotten it back? She claimed they couldn't split bills since we didn't ask for that at the beginning, but of course I thought it was a date and he never mentioned he didn't want to pay until after I had eaten. I'm still cringing and honestly a little traumatized by his creepy stare. Also I'm not sure how viable his strategy could be, wouldn't a lot of women who are smarter than me just walk out?
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I head this on the news, a teen committed suicide over this sort of scam, they were the second one to do so. I think they scam whoever takes the bait, they have no clue how much money a person has or doesn’t.
Dude do you have any idea how many of us get assaulted while completely sober? I’ve been raped and sexually assaulted, but you know what fucked me up more? The time I had a bf as controlling as you. He showed up to a party and threatened to cause a scene if I didn’t leave. Always kept tabs on me.
So my guy, you don’t understand how fucked up what you are doing to her is.
For the life of me, I don’t understand why you except the notion that you are “out of her league” You’re college educated and she does hair for a living so in terms of education she’s out of your league.
If you’re talking about appearance only, then that just needs to stop. You are no better no worse than she is. Please take that into your next relationship.
I told him that I'm not comfortable buying a house before we get married, but now he's expressed buying a house before we're married in 2-3 years and that he would buy a house on his own in 2-3 years even if we weren't married by then.
Basically, since I expressed that I wouldn't buy a house unless we were married and that because there's a potential that we wouldn't be married by that time that he would by the house on his own.
No, you’re not being insecure and controlling. You gave her a boundary which is clearly acceptable in a relationship and now she’s broken it. So what are you do now? Clearly she showed you disrespect.
My wife was not an only child but her brother is 10 years older and doesn't live nearby. I have a large family and almost all live in the same area as parents. But before we were married, our general rule was holidays were spent with our own families because we weren't married yet.
That would make me more uncomfortable because I have discovered that the more private people over the phone it means are doing things that I want somebody else to say. And for that reason, I would change how I felt about that with her.
Not your monkeys not your circus.
This is scary!!!!! if I had insisted the waitress refund my half and asked to speak to a manager, could I have gotten it back? She claimed they couldn't split bills since we didn't ask for that at the beginning, but of course I thought it was a date and he never mentioned he didn't want to pay until after I had eaten. I'm still cringing and honestly a little traumatized by his creepy stare. Also I'm not sure how viable his strategy could be, wouldn't a lot of women who are smarter than me just walk out?
Who is moving to the other person?
Thank you, good luck to you!
Honestly I won’t have even ask. When I was dating someone if some family tragedy happened,I’m there for support.
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I head this on the news, a teen committed suicide over this sort of scam, they were the second one to do so. I think they scam whoever takes the bait, they have no clue how much money a person has or doesn’t.
Dude do you have any idea how many of us get assaulted while completely sober? I’ve been raped and sexually assaulted, but you know what fucked me up more? The time I had a bf as controlling as you. He showed up to a party and threatened to cause a scene if I didn’t leave. Always kept tabs on me.
So my guy, you don’t understand how fucked up what you are doing to her is.
For the life of me, I don’t understand why you except the notion that you are “out of her league” You’re college educated and she does hair for a living so in terms of education she’s out of your league.
If you’re talking about appearance only, then that just needs to stop. You are no better no worse than she is. Please take that into your next relationship.
I told him that I'm not comfortable buying a house before we get married, but now he's expressed buying a house before we're married in 2-3 years and that he would buy a house on his own in 2-3 years even if we weren't married by then.
Basically, since I expressed that I wouldn't buy a house unless we were married and that because there's a potential that we wouldn't be married by that time that he would by the house on his own.
No, you’re not being insecure and controlling. You gave her a boundary which is clearly acceptable in a relationship and now she’s broken it. So what are you do now? Clearly she showed you disrespect.
My wife was not an only child but her brother is 10 years older and doesn't live nearby. I have a large family and almost all live in the same area as parents. But before we were married, our general rule was holidays were spent with our own families because we weren't married yet.
Sir, I’m gonna tell you right now you need to edit this and put some paragraphs in if you want engagement on this post
That would make me more uncomfortable because I have discovered that the more private people over the phone it means are doing things that I want somebody else to say. And for that reason, I would change how I felt about that with her.