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✿Julie Miller✿ —-, >follow me on my instagram and twitter —>, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
If you’re able to completely delete them I’d do so, also context just ex girlfriend and probably dump him. This is not a man who respects women, is that really someone you want to be dating?
Don't. It's super cliché.
I dumped an ex like that. Long poems, emotionally supportive, but he was maybe asexual or gay because sex was a chore to him. His orgasms were not a pain to deal with, but apparently mine were. He hated touching my genitals, but I had to touch his? Like, why?
Anyway, you made a mistake marrying him sis. Together 13 years. There's no point in marrying someone after dating for that long because he was happy with the status quo.
Question- did you make an ultimatum about marriage?
Girl, get out! These men don’t change! I’m married to one!
Oh honey, he wasn't that into you to begin with. No man who locks himself away all the time playing video games is that into their partner. At most you were a convenience who kept everything else running so he could act like a 12 year old. Get the best attorney you can, and make sure you get to keep the dog. He's not capable of taking care of any living thing.
First of all, in general, there isn't a damn thing wrong with slapping a dog upside their head.
If your dog has anxiety and separation “issues” that's on YOU as the owner to get that shit under control.
Any dog growls at me aggressively, I'll knock them goofy, as anybody should considering you don't know if that dog will attack.
As for the “lifting by the collar” for barking at a noise, that's some bullshit.
Good luck and Happy New Year.
NTA. Beyond potential consequences to his health, which could be answered by testing now, he has absolutely no right to information about your personal choices when he wasn’t in your life. He sounds absolutely awful. I don’t think you should be with hi.
You’re dating a little boy and he fucking sucks, just dump him, you’re young, you don’t want to deal with that the rest of your life.
Why are in a relationship with a grown ass man who is at a different stage of life? You are at a child who just entered adulthood. Ffs you still live with your parents.
Break up with that guy. He's not healthy for you. Get a job and move out. If you want to grow up as an individual and expect your parents to regard as functional adult, then move out, work a job and go to school.
I don't know when she will leave me. I even suggested that if we sign some sort of a postnup for this loan and she didn't want to.
You are married and have a child together. Srsly, why are you so afraid of her leaving you?
Who's responsible for childcare? Did your wife ever stay home, and sacrifice career progress to look after your child?
For the longest time, I didn't want to merge finances but I am fine doing now. I would like to give the money to my parents before merging finances because if we get separated then that money is gone and then I am on the hook for it.
Be prepared for your wife to leave you sooner than later. You have zero trust in her.
Also…how does the average divorce work where you live? Do you both just keep your personal assets/what you've earned during marriage, or is everything divided in 2?
Let her go. What’s done is done you can’t fix it. She deserves happiness. I hope you get help for your BPD. You need therapy and possibly meds. Please do the steps to get better so you can stop hurting other women. Don’t use your disorder as an excuse for bad behavior.
Oh noooo….. you know what you should do right.
Now you had closure that you wanted. Block her and enjoy your bday!
You need to keep her away until you move on! If you let her text you then you already know (probably hope) what will happen…
Hmm, yes. It seems you’re in a one-sided Facebook-only relationship, and only your FB page not his. He is neither available, reliable or giving you what you want, need and deserve. Are you absolutely certain he’s not still with this baby mumma? The self-esteem is not the reason you’re questioning things, it’s the reason that you’re still with him to begin with. Making it “official” on Facebook is not the same as an actual living and breathing relationship. He has not given that to you yet. And guess what? You deserve to be loved and thought of. You deserve a partner that is proud to be with you. Have you met anyone from his life during this year? A friend or family member?
I wonder if her moving out has anything to do with avoiding being a live-in free babysitter, OP also doesn't mention a single word of how is her relationship with her stepmother.
Because you're reaching. His oldest is only 6, so she would have been 19 when the kid was born. She was an adult when she moved out.
I have a type of EDS and I’m on the spectrum so I can sympathize with a lot of what you’ve described; I can’t drive, I can’t work full time, I can’t lift heavy things, etc. I have would be considered “medium support needs”. I feel bad for how often I need to rely on my girlfriend for transport, but with the state of public transportation I’m left with little options.
How long has your girlfriend been in therapy? I started therapy in 9th grade for a myriad of things and didn’t really see improvement until a good 6+ months of weekly/bi-weekly sessions. Therapy is a slow process. That said, it sounds like getting your own therapist to speak to about these sort of things would benefit you; have a place to safely vent your frustrations and get advice on how you’d like to proceed. Caretakers fatigue is a hard thing to deal with and it doesn’t make you a bad person for experiencing the burn-out.
On the topic of kids, because of my various genetic issues my girlfriend and I decided we’re going to adopt if/when we find ourselves in the position to provide a comfortable, stable home-life. Would adaption be on the table for you? Would your wife consider a surrogate with IVF? There’s options that don’t directly put your wife (and babys) life at risk.
Best of luck!
He's charming like a psychopath. This is the beginning stages. Dump him. Legally seperate. Get. A. Divorce. Lawyer.
Have either of you considered she may be Asexual, or maybe something small triggered a bad memory that is causing her to avoid intimacy?
If it were me, I'd suggest getting an apartment just for ourselves and see how he reacts to that.
The fact that he wants to continue being this close to her even knowing how uncomfortable it makes you is already a little iffy in my opinion.
You can uncommitted just as soon too. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you're tied to this person for life. They need to calm down.
Given her history of asking numerous people to rate her beauty, I have a feeling she has asked this boyfriend similar questions before. I wouldn’t be surprised if he just had enough and told her an unkind truth he knew would upset her just to stop her from asking this kind of question again. Yes, he should have been the bigger person and told her that was an inappropriate and frankly disgusting question, but I definitely have more sympathy for his response.
Did they meet through her work?
It seems you've missed the point that I haven't brought up the idea of an open relationship yet AND i didnt get with her for just sex. Sex was a massive issue in my last relationship so I made sure to have her understand my wants before our relationship even started. But thanks for your input.
He might very well be depressed but he refuses to talk to anyone. What we know with absolute certainty is that he has horrible personal hygiene. He's here arguing that people can go long without showering. Fair enough.
Here's your argument; “You smell. I can't be in this relationship if this continues.” Unfortunately, you're holding onto this due to the sunk cost fallacy; you don't want to just “throw away” 5 years. But focus on reality. Your boyfriend is essentially gross for lack of a better term. Is this how you want to live forever? Because that's what you're signing up for. Good luck.
This is a no for me. I have played the fool a long time ago with someone I loved. I left after 3 years. Now I am engaged and getting married in September. The old ex has been reaching out trying to test the waters. He has been completely ignored. I have moved on and so should you.
I think you're clutching at straws with this one.
Is this your first relationship? You may need to get accustomed to not getting GM texts every day cos that’s not realistic long term.
You’re gonna have to find ways to cope because spiraling every time you don’t get a response in a timely manner isn’t gonna good for either of you.
What do you mean?
I'm on team boyfriend here. That would be super frustrating.
This is genuinely some of the best advice, especially the ending. Because seriously, why the fuck would you want to do something that you know will hurt your partner. Forcing him to face that would hopefully be a huge wake up call. Unless he’s already aware that hurting her is his kink or what he wants
Glad to see your rehoming the husband.